If you don't already have them, I suggest you get a copy of How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen so Kids Will Talk along with The Whole Brain Child. (childdevelopmentinfo.com)
The whole brain child: 12 revolutionary strategies to nurture your child's developing mind. (familyccc.com)
The following is the joint brain child of myself and the fabulous Michelle Rick, whom you can stalk on Instagram here. (readyjessgo.com)