First in line are the surviving spouse, children, and surviving issue of deceased children of the decedent. (bestattorney.com)
If none, to your child or children equally, and to descendants of deceased children by representation; (fedretire.net)
And just as we don't all sit down in the cafeteria with the same meal, and we don't judge each other for picking the spaghetti option vs. the chicken sandwich option, I'd like to believe that all humans can sit down in the same cafeteria (parents of living children, parents of deceased children, parents of not - yet children, and people never to be parents) and respect each other's decisions without having to make anyone else feel like crap for their choices when they don't directly impact us. (stirrup-queens.com)