If your child's grandparents or other adults in her life make racist comments, don't let them slide. (babycenter.com)
If children are older and have a strong bond with their birth mother you are more likely to be an important other adult in their life. (education.sa.gov.au)
But, she was also instinctively testing you to see if you were as uncaring as other adults in her life. (educationworld.com)