The job always comes first if you expect to eat regularly, and no excuses about sick spouses or kids is acceptable. (omgchronicles.vickilarson.com)
Thus a woman becomes willing sooner in the marriage to commit to the burdens of having a sick spouse.» (omgchronicles.vickilarson.com)
I agree with the article that undertaking a caregiving role may be too much for someone, it was for my spouse, I also see how men may create an emotional disconnect when it comes to having a sick spouse, which I have no explanation for. (omgchronicles.vickilarson.com)