If you have been barred from visiting in the hospital, accept it with good grace. (thespruce.com)
Your toddler will have a lot to deal with, especially if visiting you in hospital (possibly a big distraction in itself). (toddler-activities-at-home.com)
I still carry a dim memory of visiting her in the hospital, as a 3 - year - old, shortly before she died. (science.sciencemag.org)