Since the college calculator estimate gives you only a starting point or rough savings target, it's always good to have a more robust college savings and planning discussion with your financial advisor. (fidelity.com)
Still, another option is for the attorneys to attend some meetings (like ones focused on financial matters), but not other meetings (i.e., parenting plan discussions). (familydiplomacy.com)
Make sure you're included in the initial treatment planning discussion at some point in the early stages. (eddinscounseling.com)