After I'd read and re-read that book and taken
copious notes on it, I set out to
research a dozen or so companies that are in the business of helping authors get their work into print.
After honestly acknowledging our children might feel loss and trauma, we learned from
copious amounts of
research (including seeking help from qualified professionals, asking other parents we knew who might have faced the same situations,
researching online, reading books, reading, talking to, and listening to adoptees, attending therapeutic parenting classes, and webinars), and 3.