To create an effective email, use
your BIFF response to end a hostile conversation respectfully or to narrow the communication to focus on two choices to solve a problem.
So let me read Jane's response and see if this is
a BIFF response.
So that's not
a BIFF response.
But if you think of
a BIFF response as brief, informative, just straight information, no opinions, criticisms, emotions.
Giving
a BIFF response will give you relief, potentially ending a high - conflict discussion and maybe even solve a problem.
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a BIFF Response Calming Upset People with EAR So, What's Your Proposal?
In addition, Bill has developed the following methods for managing high - conflict people in any situation: New Ways for Families ®, New Ways for Mediation ℠, New Ways for Work ℠, The CARS Method ℠ and
BIFF Response ®.
The CARS Method ®,
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He is the author of several books on high - conflict personalities, including So What's Your Proposal: Shifting High - Conflict People from Blaming to Problem - Solving in 30 Seconds and has developed the following methods for managing high - conflict people in any situation: New Ways for Families ®, New Ways for Mediation ℠, New Ways for Work ℠, The CARS Method ℠ and
BIFF Response ®.
But if you think of
a BIFF response as brief, informative, just straight information, no opinions, criticisms, emotions.
So either of those would be
a BIFF response.
So that's not
a BIFF response.
BIFF responses take a lot of the emotion out of your communication with your ex.
That doesn't mean that once you start using
BIFF responses with your ex that s / he will suddenly become calm and reasonable.
BIFF responses make dealing with difficult people a little less difficult.
I love the BIFF book because it focuses on real world attacks and real world
BIFF responses!
Not exact matches
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BIFF: Quick
Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High - Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns, Bill Eddy.
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns By Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.http: / / www.highconflictinstitute.com/books-a - products
Excerpted from
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Emails and Social Media Meltdowns
A good brief introduction to Bill Eddy's works is
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High Conflict People [5].
Bill is also the author of several books, really too many in the list here but in our discussion, we talk in some detail about
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High - Conflict People and
BIFF stands for brief, informative, friendly, and firm.
In his book,
BIFF: Quick
Responses to High Conflict People, Their Hostile Emails, Personal Attacks and Social Media Meltdowns, Bill Eddy explains what to do when you receive an email, social media post, or personal attack that is intensively emotional and out of proportion to the problem.