we used
babywise for my son and he followed the book to a T but my daughter has been more challenging (very fussy).
Valerie, I have used
babywise for all three of my children the youngest being 16 weeks old.
But there were some advantages to
Babywise for Christians too: One, it's cheap.
My daughter who is almost 3 was a textbook
Babywise for the most part, started to sleep 10 hrs at night at 6 weeks old and never looked backed except for a few times when teething or sick, but for the most part never had issues with night.
He is currently 11 weeks, 4 adjusted and we have been using
Babywise for 2 weeks.
I have used
Babywise for all of my five children and have especially appreciated your blog for encouragement, reminders, and help.
I think, to be fair, if you want to blame
Babywise for any «unsuccessful» breastfeeding experience, then you also need to give it credit for every «successful» breastfeeding experience.
I tell all my new mom friends to read
Babywise for over arching theme of Parent Directed Feeding, then ready Baby Whisperer and implement EASY and other techniques like shhh - pat.
Not exact matches
Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam, the authors of
Babywise, say it this way: «A healthy marriage creates an infused stability within the family and a haven of security
for a child in their development process.»
Any parent SHOULD know NOT to let their child cry
for hours!!!! Anyone who has read a book on CIO («
Babywise»,
for example) should remember that there is no reason why a baby should cry that long.
Valerie, thanks
for posting some info on reflux - I was so frustrated as a
Babywise mom because I thought my baby was just fussy / difficult and really she was in pain.
I feel like I comb through it everyday along side my
babywise books to gets helpful tips
for little one.
Babywise has lots of rules to follow
for establishing milk supply.
See the «
babywise milestones» post
for ages on when feedings extend beyond that.
BUT if
Babywise does not «mesh with God's design
for how breastfeeding works», then how do people ever have success?
Second, I would just like to say that
for those people who have «issues» with the
babywise method, it literally may have saved my family.
I tried adding additional feeds to follow the
babywise schedule as we have hit 8 weeks and I would like to encourage her to sleep longer at night but she is fighting against it... all feeds closer than 4 hours she feeds
for 10 mins then becomes fussy and won't feed so instead of rearranging her feeds and hopefully dropping the MOTN feed she just feeds less more often.
For those prone to milk supply issues, it's hard to find a balance between the principles of
Babywise (which I stand by 100 %!)
Also,
Babywise does say that there is the risk of milk supply issues
for some women in following PDF.
For anyone concerned about what
Babywise does to milk supply, I hope this simple survey can shed some light on the reality of the situation.
Feel free to see these posts
for my thoughts on BW myths: Combating
Babywise Myths: Go Three Hours Between Feedings No Matter What: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/01/combating-
babywise-myths-go-3-hours.html Combating
Babywise Myths # 2: You have to abandon your child's needs: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/01/combatting-
babywise-myths-2-you-have-to.html Combating
Babywise Myths # 3: Your Baby Will Not Thrive: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/02/combating-bw-myths-3-your-baby-will-not.html Combating
Babywise Myths # 4: If you need help with it, then it is obviously a wrong thing to do: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/02/combating-
babywise-myths-4-if-you-need.html Combating
Babywise Myths # 5:
Babywise will cause you to lose your milk supply if nursing: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/02/combating-
babywise-myths-5-
babywise.html Combating
Babywise Myths # 6: BW parents call their kids words like «manipulative»: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/02/combating-babwise-myths-6-bw-parents.html Combatting
Babywise Myths # 7: Your child will not be interactive
I'd like to gently point out that this post seems to validate what I have found out in my experience, that
Babywise is good
for scheduling suggestions, troubleshooting feeding, and evaluating attachment parenting, but Baby Whisperer & HSH are much better
for sleep training than
Babywise.
Babywise actually has good tips
for successfully supplementing without causing a further drop in milk supply
for breastfeeding mothers.
For many
babywise moms, milk supply is no problem (I wish I was part of that group!).
Babywise nor Preparation
for Parenting was in any way responsible
for my wife abandoning breastfeeding with any of our children.
http://www.dailyrx.com/news-article/process-babies-who-eat-better-may-grow-be-smarter-11879.html Thank you
for providing a forum
for community, support and information on being a momy and newbies to
Babywise too!
We have her on a 2.5 hour
babywise schedule and we let her cry it out
for up to 15 minutes before any intervention of various soothing techniques.
Val, thank you
for the
Babywise Cliff Notes!
With over 2 1/2 million books in print On Becoming
Babywise continues to gain international recognition
for its immensely sensible approach to parenting a newborn.
On Becoming
Babywise is more than an infant - management concept — it is a mindset
for responsible parenthood.
I nursed my first child and
babywise worked wonderfully
for us but now with our second child I am unable to breastfeed.
We have a two year old girl also who successfully did the
Babywise sleep schedule and slept through the night
for 8 hours at a time starting at 7 weeks.
In the
Babywise group, there is a mom of twins who pumped
for almost the first year.
and it's been an invaluable resources
for following
babywise.
I feel so discouraged because my first born was textbook and I felt so prepared
for my second and he has just never fallen into any mold of
Babywise sleep techniques and it makes
for a very stressed Mama.
Babywise doesn't suggest rigid feeding schedules, simply a routine that can make the day easier
for mom and
for baby (sleep - eat - play - sleep, repeat).
I have heard that
Babywise can lead to poor nutrition in babies b / c it advocates feeding on a rigid schedule and letting even the tiniest babies cry
for a long period of time.
For the record, I have read
babywise more than once.
The
Babywise book itself says to NOT feed on a hyper - specific schedule, but to aim
for a certain window between feeds and always feed when hungry, regardless of the time.
I was given the book
babywise and have since learned how stupid the whole western idea of solitary sleep is when you understand how human milk is produced and human milk
for human bubs is obviously ideal although I am glad we have formula
for situations in which it is impossible and feel
for women who miss out on all the closeness of cosleeping / breastfeeding etc..
Different groups have different strengths (some seem to have strong contingents of
Babywise supporters, some have lots of resources
for lactation consultants, many have both) but they'll all GET it, and there will be other moms with toddler + twins that will have tips and advice and general commisseration.
We follow
babywise in our household and have a baby who sleeps through the night, everyone comments on how happy our baby is, and she has been breast fed
for one year and still going.
«Is the
Babywise Method Right
For You?»
Preparation
for Parenting /
Babywise tri-fold brochure PDF format with permission granted to print and share
There are some favorite baby books, like On Becoming
Babywise, that claim 16 weeks is the standard
for this milestone.
Babywise is a fabulous tool that helps parents create order and structure
for their little ones.
I have used the
babywise method
for both my daughters.
Even though the person who gave me a copy of
Babywise said very, very clearly, «take from this whatever works
for you and don't worry about the rest,» I just could not shake the fear of what my family would turn into if i strayed from the pages of this book.
They first published On Becoming
Babywise in 1993; it essentially contained the same advice and approach to infant care, but because it was to be released to the mainstream (secular) market, they removed the religious terminology that Preparation
for Parenting contains.
I intend no disrespect nor negativity towards parents who have found
Babywise to be helpful
for their families.