Try to express
Behavior Changes Requests that are positive, measurable, and specific.
Accept
Behavior Changes Requests as a great opportunity for mutual healing and growth.
However, when a partner is asked for
a behavior change request, the request itself can trigger old memories and feelings from childhood about being «forced» to conform to someone else's idea of how to be and thus losing one's identity.
In Imago therapy, one partner may make
a behavior change request of the other partner.
Relationship issues often include unresolved, long - standing conflict, poor communication, infidelity, monogamy versus non-monogamy, failed
behavior change requests, depression, and anger management.
In Imago Relationship therapy
The Behavior Change Request is an important tool in resolving differences.
Imago developed a therapeutic model based on the mate selection process and developed a variety of techniques like the Couple's Dialog,
the Behavior Change Request Process and «Caring Behaviors».
Not exact matches
To be a truly collaborative leader and colleague, you need to be willing to get clear on what collaboration means for you and others, address non-collaborative
behaviors when you see them, and offer feedback when you see someone making the positive
changes you've
requested to create a more collaborative environment.
If you said no to a child's
request, your goal is to ignore
behavior directed at getting you to
change your mind.
I can tell you after dating a psycho chiro on and off from match for a yr — this
behavior NEVER
changed and the excuses ran from the OOOPS my bad to oh I have not made your
request a priority and I have NO DEFENSE.
Instead of encouraging me to
change my
behavior in the way my neighbor
requested, the note had an entirely different effect.
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Your «stretch» would be to dialogically
request, without expectations, a
behavior change you may need (for your relationship even more than for yourself).
It would be appropriate for a parent to
request an IEP Team meeting following disciplinary removals or
changes in the child's
behavior that impede the child's learning or that of others, as these likely indicate that the IEP, as written or implemented, may not be properly addressing the child's behavioral needs.
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