It's really great to have them
supporting us and, but I am a part
of this broader culture that we live in our community and so I do feel like the whole thing I
mentioned about kind
of not really liking to breastfeed in public and Rose you
mentioned how you don't tell people often how you breastfeed until four and it kind
of makes me sad because I think you know, if everyone else in the world is doing it until 4, maybe everyone else here is doing until 4 and we just, we are all too ashamed or maybe we would kind
of be, if I would be a little more brave about it, I would find a different
circle of people that I am not so different from.