Not exact matches
Tucker shared, «through my work, I've met too many parents who want to parent
without yelling,
shaming, or overpowering their children, but they just don't know where to begin or how to
discipline without punishment.»
Can adults truly
discipline children clearly and firmly
without punishment,
shame, pain and blame?
I may not have a good role model for positive
discipline, and I do want good examples of what works
without shaming or hurting my kids.
Without intentional parenting, the
shame - based parenting we experienced as children will be reflected in how we relate to and
discipline our children, even if only through words we intended to be gentle reminders or even through expectations we have in mind of how our children are «supposed» to be behaving.
If only we could say honestly and
without shame, «I engage spirituality as a hobby,» or «I want a spiritual practice that will give me some peace of mind but
without any commitment or
discipline,» or «I'd like to keep spirituality as my mistress but maintain comfort and security as my spouse,» or «I want to be seen as a spiritual man or woman because that will make me more sexy.»
And parents often do not have the skills to
discipline their kids
without using put downs or
shame.