Playground Politics: Understanding
the Emotional Life of Your School - Age Child by Stanley Greenspan
Not exact matches
But it was right after my senior year in high
school, after difficult
emotional struggles and some substance abuse, that I prayed in the quietness
of my room: «God, if you're out there, I believe in you and I want to commit my
life to you.»
The neurological infrastructure is being formed that will support all
of a child's future capacities, including not only her intellectual abilities — how to decipher and calculate and compare and infer — but also those
emotional and psychological habits and abilities and mindsets that will enable her to negotiate
life inside and outside
school.
Travis Bradley is the director
of the Social
Emotional Learning, Early
Life Stress and Pediatric Anxiety Program at Stanford University's
School of Medicine.
[i] While certainly there are many factors responsible for what has become an epidemic
of emotional problems, the fact is that the majority
of students name «
school» as the single greatest stressor in their
lives.
A study from the London
School of Economics draws the conclusion that «The most important childhood predictor
of adult
life - satisfaction is the child's
emotional health....
From budding rebellion to curiosity about bodies, your grade -
schooler's
life is full
of physical and
emotional development.
Ostensibly, it is the story
of a team
of nine - year old hockey players in a Boston suburb, their coach, a former high
school baseball coach and local sports hero, the all - male board
of directors
of the town's hockey club, a hockey mom concerned about her kids
emotional well - being, and, at center ice, a set
of adorable, identical, competitive, but sensitive twin boys who became, as is all too often the case in the adult - centered world
of youth sports, the unintended but innocent victims
of a real
life power play.
The introduction
of mindfulness and regulation practices, tools for building
emotional intelligence practically and playfully, and positive discipline practices designed to be integrated into everyday
life at
school and / or home.
Our
school fosters the intellect, nurtures the imagination, and recognizes the
emotional life of each child.
What a securely attached child - OR ADULT - looks like: competent, self - confident, resilient, cheerful much
of the time, anticipating people's needs (not from a co-dependent place), empathic, humorous, playful, tries harder in the face
of adversity; not vulnerable to approach by strangers because won't go to strangers (as adult, out - going without being foolhardy), good self - esteem, achieving, able to use all mental, physical,
emotional resources fully, responsive, affectionate, able to make deep commitments as appropriate, able to be self - disclosing as appropriate, able to be available emotionally as appropriate, able to interact well with others at
school and in jobs / careers, likely to be more physically healthy throughout
life, self - responsible, giving from a «good heart» place
of compassion, has true autonomy, no co-dependent self, because
of well developed internal modulation system, less likely to turn to external «devices» (addictions) to modulate affect
, one
of the largest nonprofit behavioral healthcare organizations in the country dedicated to promoting social and
emotional development, fostering resilience and building skills for
school and
life success in children.
Post-partum depression poses substantial adverse consequences for mothers and their infants via multiple direct biological (i.e., medication exposure, maternal genetic factors) and environmental (i.e.,
life with a depressed mother) mechanisms.8, 9 From the earliest newborn period, infants are very sensitive to the
emotional states
of their mothers and other caregivers.10, 11 Maternal mood and behaviour appear to compromise infant social,
emotional and cognitive functioning.11 - 15 As children grow, the impact
of maternal mental illness appears as cognitive compromise, insecure attachment and behavioural difficulties during the preschool and
school periods.6,16 - 19
- Camping trips singing in the car, being there through all their childhood illnesses and hurts;
emotional and physical ones, first days
of school, last days
of school, dinners that flopped (I am remembering the failed salmon loaf recipe), pants that were too short, too long, too old, too loose, too tight or too great to take off to wash, friends and then girlfriends / boyfriends, soccer and scouts and blue hair dye and laughter and tears and all the things that make up a
life LM
Michigan: Custody is awarded based on the best interests
of the child, based on the following factors: moral character and prudence
of the parents; physical,
emotional, mental, religious and social needs
of the child; capability and desire
of each parent to meet the child's
emotional, educational, and other needs; preference
of the child, if the child is
of sufficient age and maturity; the love and affection and other
emotional ties existing between the child and each parent; the length
of time the child has
lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the desirability
of maintaining continuity; the desire and ability
of each parent to allow an open and loving frequent relationship between the child and other parent; the child's adjustment to his / her home,
school, and community; the mental and physical health
of all parties; permanence
of the family unit
of the proposed custodial home; any evidence
of domestic violence; and other factors.
In interviews, the study participants relayed their perceptions
of how
emotional and physical abuse in childhood affected their
lives, including physical health,
school performance and ability to maintain employment — all factors directly linked to household income and ability to afford enough healthy food for their own children.
Mary Anne Hale Reynolds, an associate professor in the
School of Nursing, focuses on adults, ages 20 - 59, and the physical, psychosocial,
emotional and spiritual impacts following a
life - threatening disease diagnosis.
'' [Eczema] really doesn't help in terms
of the patient's
emotional wellbeing and confidence,» says Gil Yosipovitch, MD, professor
of medicine at the University
of Miami Miller
School of Medicine and author
of Living With Itch ($ 19; amazon.com).
Rimm, who wasn't involved in the study, surveyed thousands
of middle -
school children for a 2004 book, Rescuing the
Emotional Lives of Overweight Kids.
1 - lack
of relaxation 2 - devitalized food 3 - unfulfilling employment (dead - end jobs) 4 - dead - end relationships (romantic or not) 5 - surgery 6 - junk food 7 - trans fats and rancid fats 8 - financial stress 9 - sedentary lifestyle 10 - excessive exercise 11 - death
of a loved one 12 - alcoholism 13 - smoking 14 - illicit drug use 15 - prescription drug use 16 - toxins 17 - poor eating habits 18 - marital stress 19 - repeated traumas 20 - workaholism 21 - nutritional deficiencies 22 - hormonal imbalances 23 - oral contraceptives 24 - stimulants 25 - counterproductive attitudes and beliefs 26 - conventional hormone replacement therapy 27 - non-prescription drugs 28 - psychological stress 29 - persistent fears 30 -
emotional stress 31 - lack
of sleep 32 - being in denial about feelings 33 - acute or chronic infection 34 - repeated stresses 35 - persistent negative stressors 36 - fun or enjoyment deprivation 37 - allergies 38 - caffeine 39 - white sugar and white flour products 40 - antacids 41 - artificial sweeteners and colors 42 - major
life events — even if perceived consciously as «good» (e.g.: graduating high
school, moving, etc..)
Mature 44 yr old... Black Male... professionally minded... 190 lbs 6» 1... work out 4 - 5x a / wk... very discrete and keep my business to myself... work full time but will be re-entering
school full time as well... overcame alot
of tragedy in
life but no real
emotional baggage... my Motto: It is what it...
The Dangers
of the Good Child - The Book
of Life is the «brain»
of The
School of Life, a gathering
of the best ideas around wisdom and
emotional intelligence.
He tries to
school Will in the ways
of maintaining
emotional distance from the grieving relatives, tries sharing with him his profound respect for the rules and regulations
of military
life and subtly tries to persuade him to stay in the army after his time is up.
Bigger Than
Life (Criterion) Ostensibly a drama about prescription drug misuse and abuse and drawn from an article in The New Yorker, this portrait
of a grade -
school teacher and middle class father (played by James Mason, who also produced and helped develop the project) is as much about adult male masculinity and responsibility as a husband and father, and the pressure on him to
live up to the ideal, as Rebel Without a Cause is about the
emotional realities
of being an American teenager.
Over the course
of 27 years at the Harvard Graduate
School of Education, Kurt Fischer established an internationally known research program that explored how neuroscience, cognitive science, and psychology illuminate cognitive and
emotional development and learning throughout our
lives.
Public Health England confirms the importance
of supporting children in the Early Years: «There is very strong evidence that investment in promoting the
emotional wellbeing and mental health
of parents and children notably in the pre-
school years and throughout the
school aged years, can avoid health and social problems later in
life.»
These top -
of - the - morning meetings, which under his initiative came to take up the first 45 minutes
of each
school day at Bruns and later at Newell Elementary, are a central feature
of a revamped curriculum that puts an emphasis on social -
emotional learning — that is, development
of character, empathy, selfmanagement, and other
life skills that lie outside the domain
of the three R's.
With pieces
of themselves drawn from so many places, it's not surprising that kids seem increasingly fragmented in their
emotional lives as well as in their
school lives.
Within this series, we've taught important factors that have been proven to enhance the happiness and social and
emotional learning
of elementary
school age children, giving them a significant advantage for
life.
It did not stigmatize children; it imputed no shortage
of intelligence, no
emotional disturbance, no troubled home
life, no bad
schools.
Children and young people should: keep themselves fit through regular physical activity; have a positive self - image; talk about the benefits to their health through participation in physical outdoor activities; adopt a healthy lifestyle, including healthy eating appropriate to the demands
of their activities; understand the risks to fitness and health posed by smoking, alcohol and drugs, and set an example in their own lifestyle; walk or cycle where this is a realistic and safe option, or take other regular exercise; want to continue their interest in outdoor activities beyond
school and into adult
life; independently participate in follow up courses where these are available; understand how much exercise is required to remain healthy; and are aware
of the links between physical and
emotional well - being.
I kept having that feeling
of — I know what he's talking about, I've
lived it for years as an urban educator — but I've never seen anyone make such a clear argument for the fact that
schools need to focus on developing students» social and
emotional skills.
We are the ones who will put the policies and practices in place in our
schools that enable all young people to have their
emotional and social selves welcomed, their spirits uplifted, and their inner
lives nourished as a normal, natural part
of their education.
School climate is often described as the «quality and character of school life», including both social and physical aspects of the school, that can positively promote behaviour, school achievement, and the social and emotional development of stu
School climate is often described as the «quality and character
of school life», including both social and physical aspects of the school, that can positively promote behaviour, school achievement, and the social and emotional development of stu
school life», including both social and physical aspects
of the
school, that can positively promote behaviour, school achievement, and the social and emotional development of stu
school, that can positively promote behaviour,
school achievement, and the social and emotional development of stu
school achievement, and the social and
emotional development
of students.
We are looking at important factors that influence the happiness and social and
emotional learning
of elementary
school age children, helping students learn
life skills, manage emotions, and increase empathy.
Project 2: Kernels
of Practice for SEL: Evidence - Based Strategies for Social,
Emotional, and Ethical Development In recent decades many school based programs have focused not only on academics but on an inter-related set of skills that fall under the headings of social and emotional learning (SEL), character education, bullying prevention, life skills, and / or youth dev
Emotional, and Ethical Development In recent decades many
school based programs have focused not only on academics but on an inter-related set
of skills that fall under the headings
of social and
emotional learning (SEL), character education, bullying prevention, life skills, and / or youth dev
emotional learning (SEL), character education, bullying prevention,
life skills, and / or youth development.
The aims are to build a strong evidence base that will support four key Learning Away propositions, ie to demonstrate that high - quality residential learning: has a strong, positive impact on academic achievement and a wide range
of pupil - level outcomes, including
emotional well - being, learner engagement, behaviour and personal, social, employability and
life skills; can transform the learning experience
of pupils; can help to transform
schools; does not need to be expensive.
By providing
school cultures that emphasize
life skills and attending to their social -
emotional development, you can support students as they learn to take appropriate ownership
of their learning.
But it is not yet known how
schools and out -
of -
school programs can strengthen, align and deliver high - quality social and
emotional learning opportunities to children, especially those
living in low - income areas.
Working with a partner organization known as Transforming Education, they selected the specific social -
emotional skills on which to focus based on a review
of evidence on the extent to which those skills are measurable, meaningfully predictive
of important academic and
life outcomes, and likely to be malleable through
school - based interventions.
A former student
of Buddhist Studies with a master's from Harvard Divinity
School, McGarvey came to the Ed
School interested in how spiritual practices can influence people's
lives for the better, and how they work consciously and rationally with deep
emotional reactions that often overwhelm.
As a vast body
of research now makes clear, young people's success in
school, college, the workplace, and the rest
of life depends not just on their mastery
of core academic content and skills but also — and often to a greater degree — on their beliefs and attitudes, personal dispositions, relationships,
emotional intelligence, creativity, nutrition, mental health, knowledge about college and work opportunities, financial resources, willingness to engage with new people and cultures, openness to new experiences, and more.
Growing research shows that Montessori
schools create lasting, positive social effects.82 Since the Montessori Method focuses on personal development, Montessori students improve in their social and
emotional intelligence at a faster rate than students in traditional education.83 In light
of this finding, Montessori
schools can be an important vehicle for integrating students
of diverse backgrounds and fostering critical
life and social skills needed for the 21st century.
Summary: In this article, the author who teaches college readiness at a charter
school in Brooklyn, NY, advocates for the inclusion
of social -
emotional learning for his students as they are necessary for future success in
school and in
life.
Live Well is series
of bilingual (English / Arabic) simple readers that was developed by the Waterloo Region District
School board to support the language and psychosocial / socio -
emotional needs
of newcomer refugee students.
Helping K - 12 educators and administrators design, promote, and implement social -
emotional learning (SEL) programs that strengthen the culture and climate
of our
schools, and ultimately improve children's
lives.
Social and
emotional learning (SEL) and mindfulness are highly complimentary
of each other and together can promote students» ability to thrive in
school and in
life.
School and Life Success — In a 2004 book summarizing the research on Social - Emotional Learning, Joe Zins and colleagues concluded that the most important factors in students» success in school and life is their sense of attachment and commitment to school and seeing the school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their
School and
Life Success — In a 2004 book summarizing the research on Social - Emotional Learning, Joe Zins and colleagues concluded that the most important factors in students» success in school and life is their sense of attachment and commitment to school and seeing the school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their li
Life Success — In a 2004 book summarizing the research on Social -
Emotional Learning, Joe Zins and colleagues concluded that the most important factors in students» success in
school and life is their sense of attachment and commitment to school and seeing the school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their
school and
life is their sense of attachment and commitment to school and seeing the school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their li
life is their sense
of attachment and commitment to
school and seeing the school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their
school and seeing the
school as a source of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their
school as a source
of positive recognition, contribution, pride, and purpose in their
lives.
Many young people graduate high
school without proper preparation for the potential
emotional health challenges
of transitioning to college and adult
life.
Kansas Social,
Emotional, and Character Development Model Standards The purpose of the Social, Emotional, and Character Development Standards is to provide schools a framework for integrating social - emotional learning (SEL) with character development so that students will learn, practice and model essential personal life habits that contribute to academic, vocational, and personal
Emotional, and Character Development Model Standards The purpose
of the Social,
Emotional, and Character Development Standards is to provide schools a framework for integrating social - emotional learning (SEL) with character development so that students will learn, practice and model essential personal life habits that contribute to academic, vocational, and personal
Emotional, and Character Development Standards is to provide
schools a framework for integrating social -
emotional learning (SEL) with character development so that students will learn, practice and model essential personal life habits that contribute to academic, vocational, and personal
emotional learning (SEL) with character development so that students will learn, practice and model essential personal
life habits that contribute to academic, vocational, and personal success.