Not exact matches
If a
woman couldn't
breastfeed because of lack of support or lack of maternity leave or social pressure and used formula and
made her peace with it and moved on, then hears about a campaign to provide others with what she did not have, I think there is some pain (that she didn't have it) and anger (why should they get it when I didn't) that is a legitimate reaction that needs to be addressed before moving on.
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to
breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding
makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty»,
women getting «the look» for nursing in public, or feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to
breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
The reality is that if
women truly want to
breastfeed they will find a way to
make it work.
Of course, it's impossible to prepare for every possible scenario, but if a
woman knows in advance that
breastfeeding jaundice is a normal occurrence and isn't always a cause for concern, then perhaps she can
make better informed choices with regard to her child's care.
I've seen plently of
women breastfeed in public and only two of them
made a huge deal of it and then got offended when asked to cover up a little.
I think that your friend
makes a legitimate point about the commodification of the
women's bodies, of mothering moments, but as a
breastfeeding mom, I so hunger for the normalization of this process that I'm totally willing to overlook that.
Is the economic case against
breastfeeding a viable case as
breastfeeding is not the sole factor in the decisions
made by
women to reduce their time in the workforce.
I want to go back to the remark
made in the study about the economic consequences of
breastfeeding for
women.
They were just trying to
make me feel better, and I get that, but they were filled with bad advice about «so many
women that just can't
breastfeed».
However, on the cost side, most of the costs are costs of the decisions that
women may or may not
make with regards to the way that they choose to balance
breastfeeding and work.
From my own experience, with Child 1 I couldn't pump nearly enough milk so we ended up buying lots of formula anyway (between that, the cost of the pump and the hands - free bras, the cost of the journey to get his tongue tie snipped, and the extra maternity leave I took, I may well be one of the few
women to have
made an overall loss from
breastfeeding).
When I say «However, on the cost side, most of the costs are costs of the decisions that
women may or may not
make with regards to the way that they choose to balance
breastfeeding and work.
So I'm not cool with touting this photo as a celebration that
breastfeeding has «
made it» - I am happy about all the conversations I see around it about the way
women in non-glamorous situations feel about
breastfeeding in public and photos of
breastfeeding publicly displayed.
What I do know is that this (phony) number is trotted out to
make the case that
women give up on
breastfeeding too easily.
More
breastfeeding means more oxytocin, which lowers stress levels and can
make a
woman more calm and relaxed in the long run.
As a working mother, I'm proud to be sponsored by a company that
makes it possible for
women to
breastfeed even while working outside the home.
Regarding the pressure to
breastfeed, Tuteur says the movement
makes mothers who have difficulty feel unduly guilty — and the supposed long - term health benefits that motivate
women to
breastfeed are not definitive.
This is a common statement
made and if
women have problems
breastfeeding they may feel like they are failing and give up.
In one oddly worded article, Dr. Jack Newman, author of The Ultimate
Breastfeeding Book of Answers, writes that the concept of mother guilt is just another ploy of breastfeeding detractors; that we should not stop promoting breastfeeding just because it makes women
Breastfeeding Book of Answers, writes that the concept of mother guilt is just another ploy of
breastfeeding detractors; that we should not stop promoting breastfeeding just because it makes women
breastfeeding detractors; that we should not stop promoting
breastfeeding just because it makes women
breastfeeding just because it
makes women feel guilty.
There are numerous reasons why a
woman might choose to formula feed, including not being physically capable of
breastfeeding (which really isn't a choice at all) so we should never question her decision or
make her feel less than because of it.
There are many decisions a pregnant
woman makes about the birth of her child, yet it is the hospital she chooses that can directly impact her
breastfeeding relationship.
Women with such issue might find
breastfeeding difficult as it
makes the latching hard for the baby which hinders successful
breastfeeding.
Our bodies are amazing and most
women will continue to
make breastmilk for at least a couples months after they stop
breastfeeding.
It's time to debunk the myth, and let
women make individualized, personal decisions about
breastfeeding during pregnancy as well as any other time.
I think the real problem, one not addressed and actually
made worse by the notion that
breastfeeding is anti-feminist, is that it is incredibly difficult for
women to both * choose * to
breastfeed and * choose * to pursue her career.
The law extends to the protection of companions with a
breastfeeding mother and
makes clear the duty to ensure members of staff are trained about the rights of
breastfeeding women.
My most recent work, «Resisting the Jaundiced Eye» aims to
make breastfeeding visible, explores the polarising aspects of
woman's identity, and comments on the censure, peering / leering jaundiced eye of society in its unwarranted criticism of and prejudice against
women who
breastfeed.
To preserve the nutritional value and preventing infection, many
women store breast milk for their babies.It is very convenient for many mothers who are working or going to school or when they are not with their babies to collect and store the breast milk for future use, which
makes it easy to
breastfeed infants when they are out or even in public.
Ideally, consultants should be available for
women before giving birth and immediately after, not only to help them navigate the physical ins - and - outs of
breastfeeding, but to talk through any misconceptions, family or social support needs and
make a plan for incorporating
breastfeeding into a return to work plan, said Mannel, who was not involved in the new study.
I read so much about how (almost) all
women have the capacity to
breastfeed, but that many were simply not knowledgeable enough (or not patient enough) to
make it happen.
When I see images of
women breastfeeding, I still feel a tinge of jealousy and pain, but am also happy they are able to
make it happen.
Every article seems to bemoan all the challenges of
breastfeeding and
make it seem like all
women struggle.
Although many have quit
breastfeeding before their children reach the one or two year recommended milestones, for the few
women who do continue to
breastfeed their babies into toddlerhood it can be very difficult to
make the decision about when to wean.
I've been
making these arguments for years:
breastfeeding promotion campaigns like the Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative (BFHI) violate
women's autonomy, re-inscribe privilege and are not justified by the trivial benefits of
breastfeeding.
As far as
breastfeeding goes, what this blog does is advocate for
women to
make sane, rational, evidence based choices that are best for themselves and their families, without being shamed by lactovists and «natural» advocates who put their misinformed, unscientific agenda above the physical and mental well being of mothers, babies and families.
It doesn't
make you anything other than a
woman who chose to
breastfeed her children because YOU think it is awesome.
The ability to
make breast milk allows
women to provide nutrition and nourishment to their children through
breastfeeding.
When it was pointed out that she was just looking at a bathroom for people of all genders, Westwood tried to
make this about her rights as a
breastfeeding woman.
Alternatively, such fears may
make women give up
breastfeeding sooner than they had planned.
I pay tribute to her today for the work she did to
make it possible for so many
women in Scotland to
breastfeed secure in the knowledge that no one has the right to stop them.
Breastfeeding is not an easy task in itself and it really is a shame that it is not
made more easy for a
woman to comfortably feed her baby while in public.
And to
make sure that
breastfeeding leadership also reflects the same parity we seek among
women who
breastfeed.
I recall that, at an event in Glasgow, Councillor Jim Coleman told me how
women in some parts of the city were
made to feel that
breastfeeding was evidence that someone could not afford to buy formula.
«These marketing practices often negatively affect the choices
women make on how to feed their infants in the best way possible, and can impede both babies and mothers from enjoying the many health benefits of
breastfeeding,» the experts say.
Women who breastfeed burn extra calories to make milk, so they usually lose pregnancy weight more quickly than women who don't n
Women who
breastfeed burn extra calories to
make milk, so they usually lose pregnancy weight more quickly than
women who don't n
women who don't nurse.
Whatever choice a
woman makes for delivering breastmilk to her child, the choice to
breastfeed is important!
In fact, I think those conversations are vital if we are going to normalize
breastfeeding and
make it safer for
women to
breastfeed in public whenever and wherever they need to.
From this perspective objections to
women breastfeeding in public
make us ANGRY, they don't
make us feel bad or embarrassed.
I've already had a few young
women message me about
breastfeeding and ask for help, telling me how I
make them more confident to
breastfeed.»
This doesn't mean that we schedule our day so that we are
making a point about
women breastfeeding in public.