As one put it, «There's some kind of guilt complex with
most of us alcoholics.»
Mr Clarke raised the possibility after announcing on Wednesday the acquisition of
most of alcoholic beverages giant Diageo's wine division for $ 754 million, with a large chunk of the funds to come from a 2 - for - 15 rights issue to raise $ 486 million.
Most of the alcoholic beverages contain a lot of calories.
Not exact matches
In fact,
most of the businesses in the beverage sector —
alcoholic and non-
alcoholic — are expanding eastward.
In fact, the gospel is at the core
of the 10 steps and
most alcoholics do wish their illness away.
Most importantly, note this: I am a Christian, I'm gay, I'm a recovering
alcoholic, I believe in Evolution, I believe the universe is 13 billion years old and that the Earth is 4.5 or so billion years old, I believe man evolved from lower primates and that Adam was the first man who God gave a soul and sentience, I do not believe in hell but I do believe in Satan, I do not believe the Bible is a book
of rules meant to imprison man or condemn him but that it is rather a «Human Existence for Dummies» guide, I believe Christ was the son
of God but I do not believe Christianity is the only «valid» religion, I do not believe atheists will go to hell, while the English Bible says God should be feared, the Hebrew word used for fear, «yara», such as that used in the Book
of Job, actually means respect / reverence, not fear as one would fear death or a spider.
I'm a gay Christian
alcoholic» might not be the
most effective way
of cultivating credibility.
Also, as noted, I apologized for those times when my anger got the better
of me but in hindsight, I see I was exhibiting signs
of prologued trauma and abuse not signs
of mental illness (like
most of NYC I got tested post 9/11 and there's no signs
of mental illness though my childhood growing up with two
alcoholic parents who died before I was 18 does produce some triggers that I now know how to manage so I don't let my anger get the better
of me).
Rather,
most believers in America before 1800 «regarded the moderate use
of alcoholic beverages, particularly beer and wine, as a privileged blessing from a gracious God.»
Their
most successful campaign was that which finally made the use
of alcoholic beverages illegal.
How to understand the
alcoholic and what can be done for him rank first and second in the list
of problems which prove
most puzzling [to religious leaders].
The time when it can be
most effective, it should be emphasized, is after the
alcoholic is sober for a substantial period
of time.
Group therapy is perhaps the
most effective type
of treatment for the
alcoholic aside from AA.
One
of the
most important aspects
of preparation for pastoral counseling
of alcoholics is that
of determining what resources are available for referral in one's community, and
of acquiring firsthand knowledge
of these resources.
The
alcoholic's inferiority is reduced not by identifying with a powerful authority - figure, but by becoming aware
of his «higher and diviner self» which is his
most real self.
Most alcoholics seen by the minister require one or more
of these forms
of specialized help, in addition to pastoral counseling, in order to recover.
Most important, there was general agreement that the goal
of total abstinence is the only realistic and humane one in counseling with
alcoholics.
Most physicians prefer tranquilizers to the older sedatives
of the barbiturate group in treating
alcoholics.
This includes
most alcoholics, drug addicts, overt and borderline psychotics, those with severe psychosomatic problems, religious fanatics, rabid «positive thinkers,» and those with a protracted history
of chronic failure in adult roles (marriage and job).
Through A.A.'s supportive - growth approach nearly 300,000 «hopeless»
alcoholics have recovered,
most of them with no attempt or need to explore the deep personality conflicts which probably caused the addiction.
Included in the advantages mentioned were the natural entree to the family, confidentiality
of relationship, the fact that there are no fees involved, that many people naturally take their problems to their pastor, and,
most important, that the minister has the dynamic
of the Christian faith and fellowship available for helping the
alcoholic.
Most of the ministers reported working closely with AA, and the majority
of them had a positive attitude toward the use
of psychiatric referral with
alcoholics when needed.
«
Most of us»
alcoholics, kind Patrick H. are yes, concerned with the Self, be it «resentmentations» or Acts
of «self pity».
constitutes the largest and
most enduring mutual aid - society
of recovered
alcoholics in human history....
Probably
most AAs have never heard
of Frank Amos or the
Alcoholic Foundation or the Amos Report.
Its
most serious expression, however, is in the drinking
of alcoholic beverages, with all the train
of consequences ensuing therefrom.
Of AA., he says: «Considering Alcoholics Anonymous, for instance, two studies cited by Fingarette that looked at eighteen - month followups of people in AA found that at most, 25 percent of people were still attending meetings, and that among regular AA members, only 22 percent consistently maintained sobriet
Of AA., he says: «Considering
Alcoholics Anonymous, for instance, two studies cited by Fingarette that looked at eighteen - month followups
of people in AA found that at most, 25 percent of people were still attending meetings, and that among regular AA members, only 22 percent consistently maintained sobriet
of people in AA found that at
most, 25 percent
of people were still attending meetings, and that among regular AA members, only 22 percent consistently maintained sobriet
of people were still attending meetings, and that among regular AA members, only 22 percent consistently maintained sobriety.
Hence psychologically as well as theologically the «Christianity»
of alcoholics is not the Christianity
of most other American Christians.
Yet, like so much
of the other historical writing
of the last twenty - five years, it completely misses the boat when it comes to describing, analyzing, or covering spiritual roots
of Alcoholics Anonymous — the movement it
most applauds.
Recovering
alcoholics are among the
most spiritually vibrant Christians I know, and the enthusiasm and commitment they bring to their relationship with Christ contribute greatly to the spiritual health
of the churches they attend» (pp. 433 - 34).
The counselor can help to create the conditions under which surrender is
most likely to occur by utilizing the methods
of «elevating the
alcoholic's bottom,» described in the last chapter.
To summarize, the
most important factors in the selection
of the
alcoholic symptom seem to be the availability and attractiveness
of alcohol in a particular cultural group.
The
most important thing a congregation must give a recovering
alcoholic is a sense
of acceptance in the fellowship.
Because
of the nature
of a compulsion —
most people including
alcoholics think
of their pet compulsions as normal — it is difficult for the
alcoholic to recognize that his behavior is abnormal.
The fact that so few use alcohol now and, more important, that
most of them have established adequate personal lives would seem to give good reason to expect that few, if any, would become
alcoholics.
To maximize his counseling effectiveness with
alcoholics, the minister should have a clear picture
of the style
of counseling which has proved to be
most functional with
alcoholics.
The
most effective houses are small (not more than twenty - five clients), have simple rules, maintain an atmosphere
of homelike informality, and employ staff counselors who are recovered
alcoholics, often former Skid Row - ers.
In counseling aimed at motivating a resistant
alcoholic, it is sometimes helpful to point out that loss
of control is gradual in
most alcoholism and is, therefore, a matter
of degree.
Self - help groups (many
of which are modeled on
Alcoholics Anonymous) represent one
of the
most hopeful developments in the whole field
of contemporary therapeutic groups.
In contrast,
most researchers emphasize the heterogeneity
of alcoholic personalities.
Most ministers, especially those with downtown churches, are frequently confronted with the perplexing problem
of how to deal constructively with the homeless
alcoholic who comes to the door.
In
most cases, it is not necessary to use such a calculated approach to «withdrawing the props» which have been supporting the
alcoholic's denial
of reality about his drinking.
Yet probably the
most damaging is the learned behavior
of covering up and enabling the addictive behavior, as evident in the above - mentioned case
of the
alcoholic layperson.
The damage to the children varies, depending on a number
of factors — the strength
of the nonalcoholic parent, the age
of the child at the onset
of the
most destructive phases
of the illness, the nature
of the relationship with the
alcoholic parent, and the social class level
of the family.
Various psychological studies have shown that the presence
of a mothering figure in his immediate interpersonal world is one
of the
most characteristic aspects
of the
alcoholic's picture.
Clearly, drinking alcohol can lead to alcoholism, but it is also clear that
most alcoholics have this predisposition from birth, waiting for the first dropper
of alcohol - based cough syrup or spoonful
of narcotic croup remedy.
One
of the
most helpful descriptions
of the marital problems that beset the
alcoholic family after sobriety and how they can be met, is in the Big Book, Chapter 9, entitled «The Family Afterwards.»
As suggested in Chapter 9, the
most salutary thing the wife
of a drinking
alcoholic can do is to «release» him.
If all the troubles in the family
of an
alcoholic were the direct effects
of alcoholism, it would be reasonable to assume that, given a certain period
of time after sobriety,
most of these troubles would disappear.
In her review
of the professional literature on alcoholism and marriage, Margaret Bailey concludes: «
Most students
of the problem have found in some or all
of their cases this interactive pattern
of the dependent, inadequate
alcoholic male married to a dominating woman who is usually seen as maintaining a semblance
of adequacy only at his expense.»