Source: Renee Mill, Clinical Psychologist and author of «Anxiety Free, Drug Free» and «
Parenting without anger»
According to best - selling author of «
Parenting without anger», clinical psychologist and parenting expert Renee Mill, the key to parenting kids through a relationship breakdown is being honest, telling them what is going to happen, being consistent with routines and avoiding impulse decisions.
Not exact matches
On this call, API founders Lysa Parker and Barbara Nicholson talk with Lu about how: — our «flaws» are actually pathways to raising resilient, secure, connected kids; —
without an awareness of how our story drives our fears, our kids re-enact it; —
without self - understanding and empathy,
parents then tend to manage rather than engage, control rather than connect, in a chronic practice of «defensive
parenting»; — we can turn our old wounds to new wisdom and free our kids from repeating our stories; — the gift of our
anger, fear, doubt, chaos, anxiety, struggles, and conflicts is that they can shed compassionate light on our old wounds and we can use this light to «heal» our inner conflicts, and pave our path for ourselves and our kids; and — doing this paving work «keeps our light on»... and our children's light on, and teaches them the power of forgiveness, humility, and humanity.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber This bestselling classic includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time - tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to: · Cope with your child's negative feelings, such as frustration,
anger, and disappointment · Express your strong feelings
without being hurtful · Engage your child's willing cooperation · Set firm limits and maintain goodwill · Use alternatives to punishment that promote self - discipline · Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise · Resolve family conflicts peacefully Enthusiastically praised by
parents and professionals around the world, the down - to - earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.
Between
Parent and Child by Dr. Haim Ginott Based on the theory that
parenting is a skill that can be learned, this indispensable handbook will show you how to: • Discipline
without threats, bribes, sarcasm, and punishment • Criticize
without demeaning, praise
without judging, and express
anger without hurting • Acknowledge rather than argue with children's feelings, perceptions, and opinions • Respond so that children will learn to trust and develop self - confidence
Bob Lancer, author of
Parenting With Love
Without Anger or Stress; founder of the web site Bob Lancer's
Parenting Solutions; radio talk show host on WSB, Atlanta.
This Colonel has made enemies of the apes — enslaving them, forcing them to work
without food or water, and separating
parents from babies — but has also
angered other humans with his tactics.
Tactful — Deal with students,
parents, colleagues, and administrators
without exhibiting sarcasm, defensiveness,
anger, impatience, or dismissal; exhibit a professional demeanor at all times.
Parents in a healthy relationship (regardless of romantic involvement) should feel safe to express themselves and respect each other's opinions, while being able to resolve conflicts
without anger.
Each week, a new topic is addressed, including: their own relationships with their fathers, nurturing themselves / their children, fathering sons / daughters, discipline
without violence, playing with their children, managing
anger / resolving conflict, teamwork with spouse, balancing work and
parenting, communication and problem solving, cultural influence, dealing with feelings, and working on «The Father I Choose To Be.»
In the process, the
parent - child counselor helps direct the
parent to receive the child's concerns
without judgment,
without anger and
without giving in.
Children need to be free to love each
parent without being subjected to the other
parent's hurt or
anger.
Mothers with mental health risk factors (depression,
anger, history of abuse as a child, and substance abuse) exhibited poorer
parenting skills than those without risk factors, as measured by the Parenting Practices Interview, Dyadic Parent - Child Interactive Coding System, and Coder Impression I
parenting skills than those
without risk factors, as measured by the
Parenting Practices Interview, Dyadic Parent - Child Interactive Coding System, and Coder Impression I
Parenting Practices Interview, Dyadic
Parent - Child Interactive Coding System, and Coder Impression Inventory.
The program provides: emotional support, improved family communication, connections to community resources, helps you learn discipline
without anger, helps you reach goals, improves your
parent child relationship, and strengthens your entire family.
Many times, a child's
anger problems are related to their frustrations in trying to become an individual
without receiving a
parenting approach that is teaching them to make responsible choices for themselves.
In the moderate category of parental alienation are conflicting
parents who exercise little control over their
anger and go ballistic when they are upset,
without any consideration of how their
anger affects other family members.