Working with trauma and attachment wounds requires not just learning the theory or techniques, but also building capacity within our Selves to «be with» and «stay with» deep emotional pain, grief, shame, rage,
unbearable aloneness.
This illusion of the double is unavoidable after a man has lost his connection with a Thou, writes von Weizsäcker, for the state of
aloneness that he has reached then is
unbearable.