Not exact matches
My
parents and
in - laws are children of the second - generation; born
in America and raised
in the last years of the depression, they inherited the immigrant's
unconditional passion for the new country, and happily melted into the pot» Americanizing their own names and Christening their children John instead of Gianni; Mary instead of Maria.
Even though I am human and not God, part of my responsibility as a
parent is to reflect to my babies my full, deep, wide, and as -
unconditional - as - possible love
in the midst of their real lives, their real emotions, so that they can feel more secure and free.
Ideally, the
parents» devotion to their child should be
unconditional in character.
• The need to exercising self - compassion as you process emotions • Emotional purging
in a conscious way to move to an easier
parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time • Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time •
Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways
in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up
in your own home to make a difference
in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself •
Unconditional love — what does that look like?
The «
unconditional love» between a
parent who allows herself to be negated and a child
in omnipotence is,
in the mind of the child, love between one who exists (the child) and who does not exist (the
parent).
In addition, it is my belief that children can not grow up to know what God's love is —
unconditional, trust, joy, affectionate, etc. — if they do not receive that same love from their
parents.
Each week
in this Q & A segment we will juxtapose two
parenting philosophies — one as proposed by Julie & Holly (more of an
unconditional parenting style), and the other by Joe Newman, who provides a more transactional
parenting approach.
In this Q & A segment we will juxtapose two
parenting philosophies — one as proposed by Julie & Holly (more of an
unconditional parenting style), and the other by Joe Newman, who provides a more transactional
parenting approach.
Mild: The child is able to «attach» or «bond» with the adoptive
parent in the sense that she recognizes the
parent as the person she «belongs» to, but the quality of «
unconditional trust» is lacking.
Meredith's book tackles the importance of expressing
unconditional love, supporting the whole team and seeing the big picture, among many other key points that can help
parents fully understand the incredibly important role they have
in their young athlete's life.
I have found great comfort and advice
in this area from a number of books (Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves,
Unconditional Parenting, I Love You Rituals, and Gordon Neufeld's latest book) All of these books are sending the same message: harsh treatment of our little ones leave long - lasting and damaging effects on them.
I love posts like these because, even after reading
Unconditional Parenting or Playful Parenting or whatever, it's hard to condense what I've learned from those books into something I can try to implement in my day to day p
Parenting or Playful
Parenting or whatever, it's hard to condense what I've learned from those books into something I can try to implement in my day to day p
Parenting or whatever, it's hard to condense what I've learned from those books into something I can try to implement
in my day to day
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Austin and I created this coffee table book for the sole purpose of educating the world about the true image of dads as
parents, which embodies the same kind of
unconditional love, compassion and dedication that exists
in moms as
parents.
Daniel's father raised his son with a deep appreciation of the values of kindness, compassion and hope wrapped
in a
parenting approach of
unconditional love and support.
Lynn says it best: «Children need
unconditional love from their
parents and they need
parents who are doing the job of child - raising
in a thoughtful and considerate ways.»
Responsive
parenting is truly a picture of God's sacrificial,
unconditional love
in that, as we respond to our children where they are, («This is how God showed His great love for us, that Christ died for us while we were still sinners [emphasis added]» Romans 5:8) comforting their cries, guiding their choices, providing for their needs, encouraging their individuality, we are, moment by moment, day by day, sacrificing our lives for them.
The TEACH tool, the Language Model and the 13 Principles of Conscious
Parenting as defined
in the book,
Unconditional Parenting by controversial author, Alfie Kohn, are guidelines to refer to and keep
in mind when you learning to be more conscious.
Unconditional parenting represents a relational view of
parenting where it is understood that children learn through the relationships with the important people
in their lives.
Unconditional parents teach their children by modeling principles of respect, love and nonviolence
in word, thought and action.
The methods recommended
in Unconditional Parenting will not work for my family.
I have learned that each family is unique, and that when a baby is born,
parents are meeting a new person
in their lives and that
in itself is a challenge, but also an opportunity to experience
unconditional love.
Often,
parenting in film is displayed as a warm embrace of eternal and
unconditional love for children.
No, because I was privileged to have myriad protective factors
in my life that buffered life's challenges:
parents who provided steady and consistent
unconditional acceptance, a strong spiritual identity that allowed me to look beyond current circumstances, and teachers who practiced cultural sensitivity before such a thing knew to exist.
The
unconditional means for special education participation as reported by
parents in the NSCH are, as
in other data sources, higher for blacks than whites, and lower for Hispanics and Asians than whites.
She marvels that the very church her father rejected after a strict upbringing by Presbyterian missionary
parents in Japan is the church where she discovered God's
unconditional love.
From
unconditional love and numerous health benefits like lowering blood pressure, helping with depression, and soothing stress, companion pets give so much to their pet
parents and they never ask for anything
in return.
The Humane Society will provide all necessary food and supplies so that the foster
parents can focus their attention on giving the kitties
unconditional love and a proper home
in which to grow.
Owning /
parenting this kind of breeds are challenging that needs a special home with an individual or families that will give extra time
in understanding them, give the exercise they need and provide them with LOTS of
unconditional love.
It is the job of the
parents to provide what Carl Rogers calls the
Unconditional Positive Regard - or acceptance without judgement - to encourage their child to discover and develop those things that make him special and to teach him how to use those strengths and abilities to impact the world
in a positive way.
Children look to their
parents to provide
unconditional love and acceptance
in infancy and early childhood.
Alfie Kohn,
in his theory of
Unconditional Parenting, disagrees with the Behaviorist method of rewards and punishments.
So,
Unconditional Positive Regard,
Unconditional Parenting, and Positive Psychology and Positive Parenting - all rooted in Humanism - believe that the most important part of parenting is to meet your child's needs, help him find his strengths and passions, and teach him how to use those «virtues» to be future minded, independent, and «self - actualize
Parenting, and Positive Psychology and Positive
Parenting - all rooted in Humanism - believe that the most important part of parenting is to meet your child's needs, help him find his strengths and passions, and teach him how to use those «virtues» to be future minded, independent, and «self - actualize
Parenting - all rooted
in Humanism - believe that the most important part of
parenting is to meet your child's needs, help him find his strengths and passions, and teach him how to use those «virtues» to be future minded, independent, and «self - actualize
parenting is to meet your child's needs, help him find his strengths and passions, and teach him how to use those «virtues» to be future minded, independent, and «self - actualized».
If you're interested
in this topic and want to learn more and read some of the supporting research, I would strongly recommend reading either of Alfie Kohn's books,
Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason or Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes.
Did the results of this
parenting style test point towards
unconditional positive
parenting, please dig
in below to know more.
When they witness their
parents going through a tough divorce, or saying and doing things that show their
parents are no longer
in love with one another, kids begin to question how
unconditional their
parent's love really is.
Parents or guardians of minors
in distress can offer
unconditional love and support, and may also schedule an appointment with a licensed mental health professional for the minor as needed.
They need a person or group of people who will guarantee
unconditional affection and support, who are prepared to forego, often for many years, the satisfactions that
parents normally get from their children and who will bring to their task professional understanding not only of childhood behaviour but of their own responses both to the children
in their care and to the
parents whose inadequacies have brought the children to this plight.
This idea of not using punishment to resolve conflicts is one of the core pillars
in the inspiring and radical
parenting style of
unconditional parenting.
In my view these harmonious
parents might just be practicing what might be termed
unconditional parenting (
unconditional parenting is a
parenting style coined by Alfie Kohn).
Kohn's ideas of «loving with no strings attached», giving
unconditional positive regard, and empowering our children by letting them be involved
in the decision making processes changed the way
parents viewed their children - and themselves.
For the uninitiated observer the
unconditional parenting style and permissiveness may look somewhat similar
in terms of external behavior style as both
parenting styles emphasize personal freedom, few rigid standardized rules, space for choices and warmth and affection.
In this way the spirit of unconditional parenting is about encouraging our children to work their way into their natural character rather than trying to change who they are in order to feel accepted, appreciated and admire
In this way the spirit of
unconditional parenting is about encouraging our children to work their way into their natural character rather than trying to change who they are
in order to feel accepted, appreciated and admire
in order to feel accepted, appreciated and admired.
If you're interested
in reading more about this view point, you're welcome to go and read these
parenting articles about the power of the
unconditional positive regard and what is called
unconditional parenting.
Of course a secure
parent - child attachment can never be completely fulfilled
in an adult relationship, because adults can not have the «
unconditional love» for each other that a
parent must have for a small infant (such as paying lots of one - way attention or tolerating lots of temper tantrums).
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In this positive parenting article I will share with you my absolute top most efficient tool in «killing bad behavior» or a toddler tantrum, namely: • Unconditional love, strong intuition, support, respect and patienc
In this positive
parenting article I will share with you my absolute top most efficient tool
in «killing bad behavior» or a toddler tantrum, namely: • Unconditional love, strong intuition, support, respect and patienc
in «killing bad behavior» or a toddler tantrum, namely: •
Unconditional love, strong intuition, support, respect and patience!
Unconditional parenting means that even when your kid does something «wrong» or is «naughty»
in the old fashioned sense of the word, you do not withdraw your positive regard.
According to Alfie Kohn, who as far as I know coined the term
unconditional parenting, says that every form of control is a «doing to» your child
in order to get your child to do what you want.
In this way positive
parenting, attachement
parenting and
unconditional parenting are
parenting styles that focus on the child's needs to bring those attractive long term results such as high self esteem, high awareness, critical thinking, taking responsibility for one's own life and genuine respect for other people.
This is why the
unconditional positive regardis one of the most powerful tools
in humanist therapy (and
in parenting for that matter).