Sentences with phrase «what validates your feelings»

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What's more, feelings of apathy can lead to a lack of self - confidence, causing you to feel less valuable or validated by your work.

I do know that the blessing for me was that I finally felt validated that someone in a leadership finally saw what had happened and told me so.

And what do they get, «Oh your poor abused... I feel and validate your pain.»

Of course it would be silly to suggest that winning any game, cup or otherwise, isn't good for the club, but let's remember just how problematic FA Cup success has been for this club... I'm certainly not going to suggest I didn't enjoy seeing Arsenal win, I'm a fan of this club first and foremost, but how bad are things when you find yourself secretly wishing that your own team lost so that just maybe real change would finally come... I resent this team for even making me feel such thoughts and it's going to take a lot of effort on their part to earn my trust again... this club has treated the fans so poorly that it has created an incredibly fragile and toxic environment, so much so that a «what have you done for me lately» mentality has emerged... fans rise and fall depending on the results of each game because we don't have faith in those in charge to make the necessary changes to personnel and tactics... each time we win many fans attack any dissenting voices and make unrealistic claims about the players, the manager and the potential for unprecedented success... every time we lose the boo - birds run rampant, calling for heads to roll and predicting the worst... regardless of what side you fall on, it's not your fault, both sides are simply overcompensating for the horrible state of affairs that have been percolating for several years... it's hard to take the long view when those in charge have lied incessantly and refuse to take any responsibilities for their own actions... in the end, we are trapped by the same catch - 22 that ManU faced upon Fergie's exit... less fearful of maintaining the status quo than facing the unknown, which was validated, wrongly or rightly, by witnessing the difficulties they have faced during this transitory period... to be honest, the thing that scares me most is that this team has never prepared whatsoever for this eventuality, which considering our frugal nature and the way we have shunned many of our most revered former players is more than a little disconcerting

No other parenting book has ever made me feel so validated about the big, messy, beautiful picture of what it means to care for another human being.

Validating their feeling of being scared and talking with them until they are feeling less frightened by what they were dreaming of, is key.

This book will validate what you are feeling as a new mom and guide you in the direction that intuitively feels right.

A lot of them are paid to be cheerleaders and best friends to some truly mislead women and they HAVE to validated every feeling that woman has, it's what they are being paid to do.

Instead, validate your teen's feelings by saying something such as, «I can see you're really angry about what happened at lunch today.»

Most of the time, what your friend really needs is not advice but someone who will listen and validate their feelings.

In the end I was successful at validating what she was feelings, helping name them, and letting her know they were normal.

To turn the behavior around I need to first reconnect by validating what she's feeling, even helping give her words for the emotions.

It has now been 14 years since my loss, and when I read those journals, it validates what I was feeling.

By accepting her emotions without judgment, you validate her feelings and show that you value what she has to say.

My postpartum depression actually manifests more as anxiety and what I found, my medication has not been sufficient in helping with that sleep is key and everyone will tell you that and it kind of feel validated sometimes when I tell other moms, yeah I just really need to sleep like «oh, honey everyone does» and you'll get used to functioning on you know little sleep.

Unable to justify or validate what she is feeling leaves her at a loss and feeling confused.

The important thing is to validate the child's feelings even — or especially — when we can't do what they're asking for.

«I think this report validates what the riders have been saying and feeling.

«They feel validated in what they're saying by venting,» says Narang, «but they're not less angry.»

«You aren't validating what they are going through and that makes them feel worse,» says Mosseso.

We're always looking for the empirical to validate what we feel, but healing is more art than it is science.

This book will validate what you are feeling as a new mom and guide you in the direction that intuitively feels right.

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Sometimes I wonder what value there is in sharing such personal and challenging things about myself online, but then I remember a time I read a blog post or article by another woman that made me feel supported, understood and validated, and I strive to be authentic and vulnerable because I want to do that for others, too.

Feeling like our friends have a genuine interest in our life is a big part of what makes our friendships so incredibly validating.

MK: Yes, I think it's probably what they call the strengths - based approach - where we're not looking at the deficits of students but we're looking at what is it that they are bringing into the learning environment that could be integrated within the learning process, so that we can validate what they know and make them feel they're respected and [that] they have something to offer within the learning environment.

Just as essential, I felt validated and valued by my supervisor, and reassured that what I was going through was a normal part of working with trauma - affected kids.

In order to respond to others and give them what they need to be empowered to succeed, they must feel heard and validated.

Effective communication involves actively listening to our children, understanding and validating what they are attempting to say, and responding in ways that avoid power struggles by not interrupting them, by not telling them how they should be feeling, by not putting them down, and by not using absolutes such as always and never in a demeaning fashion (e.g., «You never help out»; «You always show disrespect») Resilient children develop a capacity to communicate effectively aided by parents, who are important models in this process.

However, she did not feel a sense of belonging in China, and once stated that, «at that critical moment, «being homeless becomes what validates your existence.»»

Do you get a feel for the difference between what we're presented with, and what it takes to validate such analyses?

While as suggested by Ms. Motahedin that language may express empathy and acknowledge how the customer is feeling, it can also readily be interpreted as accepting that what the customer tweeted actually happened and validating that the employee has done something wrong, without any investigation having been conducted to determine what actually occurred.

Acknowledge what the other person is saying and the feelings they are expressing (validate where they are coming from).

Maybe your partner doesn't understand what you are going through or doesn't validate your feelings.

R stands for responsiveness: When I open up to my partner, does he or she provide me with what I need, and do I feel understood, validated, or comforted by the response I get?

At the core of being a Digital Mentor is acknowledging and validating our teen's emotions, letting them know their feelings are valuable indicators of what is going on inside them.

, she offered a simple observation of Agatha's feelings and validated what her daughter was experiencing by sharing a time when she felt the same way in her own childhood.

You can validate what your child is feeling and experiencing, such as «I know this is not fun to do.»

If you want to reinforce behavior, give attention and attend to your child's negative feelings, do this after they have done what is asked to «reward» the desired behavior and validate and care for their feelings.

This way he will understand that it's only a temporary feeling that needs to be heard and validated, and she's not criticizing his job as a man, and so he will not get defensive or upset, he will be inspired to give her what she needs in that moment.

What this does: Honoring their feelings validates their experience.

validating their feelings, especially if they're upset or struggling with what's going on — for example, when a pet dies, when they're having issues with friends, or when they fail an exam.

To accept her for what she was feeling, to validate her emotions, and most importantly to share something of his own emotional state.

The more we support children to feel what they're feeling, validate those feelings, and integrate their feelings into the decisions they make about who to be and how to behave, the better off our kids are going to be — as opposed to splitting them off from their emotions, especially boys.

What John's work has shown is that when you really pay attention to kids and emotions, help kids name their feelings, and validate their own feelings and the judgments they make based on some of those feelings, often times the kids will do much better.

When you understand what your spouse is communicating, you can validate your spouse's feelings.

When I experience my partner understanding and validating what's going on for me, I feel valued, cared for, even soothed.

It's often helpful to validate their feelings and empathize for example in your shoes, I might have said, «I know you wanted nutella, it's so tasty AND tonight it's not what I am serving for dinner.»

This doesn't call attention to the words but helps them feel validated, like their feelings matter and this is what helps them feel those feelings and move forward.