Don't yell, take emotion out
when you discipline your child (a good way to do this is by using natural and logical consequences), and speak to your child in a pleasant and friendly tone.
When disciplining a child with ADHD, pick your battles wisely.
«We found that spanking was associated with unintended detrimental outcomes and was not associated with more immediate or long - term compliance, which are parents» intended outcomes
when they discipline their children,» said Gershoff.
; 5 items from the National Longitudinal Survey of Children and Youth19 addressed the frequency with which they set and enforced clear expectations and limits for their children's behavior (control, eg, «
When you discipline this child, how often does he / she ignore the punishment?»
With this focus on the importance of family dynamics, few of our participants endorsed corporal punishment / harsh parenting (ie, spanking, and use of profane language or yelling
when disciplining a child) as a childhood stressor.
When disciplining their children, authoritative parents provided logical and meaningful explanations to their children, and related consequences to their children's behavior.
Dodge et al. (2005) found that European and African American parents differed in their expressed emotions
when they disciplined their children.
When you discipline your child, set limits, and tell her «no,» you must also express your love.
Not exact matches
When a team member at Windsor Regional Hospital leaves work early to watch their
child in a sports meet, for example, they can do so without being concerned about being
disciplined or using up a valuable vacation day.
It's
discipline and determination that will drive you to work
when you're tired,
when there's a sports game on,
when your
child wants to play and
when the business isn't succeeding.
Think of the «rules» or what is right and wrong, like a parent who sets guidelines for their
child to keep them safe, and
when they step out of those guidelines a good parent
disciplines the
child.
I concluded at the time of the riots that of all the things the government now needed to do, it was the married family which most urgently needed to be rebuilt: I was and remain as certain of that as anything I have ever written, and I have been saying it repeatedly for over 20 years: I was saying it, for instance,
when I was attacking (in The Mail and also The Telegraph), as it went through the Commons, the parliamentary bill which became that disastrous piece of (Tory) legislation called the
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their
children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children, which even, preposterously, gave
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to
discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their
child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the
child and the nature of the smack.»
The Village Church, a Southern Baptist mega-church in the Dallas area, recently
disciplined a woman who had her marriage annulled
when she found out that her husband had been looking at
child porn.
Many parents believe that they will just be able to reason with their
children when they are older, so
discipline now is not needed.
But
when their
children are rebellious and disobedient, good parents
discipline.
When I was a
child, had my school sought to
discipline me, my parents would have assumed the school had good reason.
Now, there is balance between these two —
when a
child sins, he or she needs to be told that they have sinned and be
disciplined for it.
Do we not do the same
when we are
disciplined by our parents as
children or by our employer
when we call ourselves adults, don't we want to «get our own back» don't we relish it
when they become ill or have an accident and we say «it serves them right» justice has been done.
Their book, To Train Up a
Child has sold hundreds of thousands of copies and, under the guise of «biblical
discipline,» encourages parents to beat their
children into submission, withhold food, and hose them down outside
when they soil themselves.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate on levels of fun and recreation as well as on
discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens
when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and
disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interested in.
This passage affirms our eternal security because it is a passage about the
discipline that God gives to his own
children when they fall away from him.
Sabi God is not surprised by our actions disappointed maybe just like in a family
when the fathers
children do the wrong thing.The amazing thing with God is that is sovereign and all the mistakes we make he uses them to build up our faith or if we refuse to listen he will
discipline us for our good.
Is a parent a monster for having a
child when the parent knows that the
child will not be perfect and will have to be taught and
disciplined (perhaps with the violence of a spanking).
I agree
discipline is needed to teach
Children from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians childre
Children from whats wrong and right if not they most likely qill go astray but
when the lesson is learned Jesus will dwell in our hearts and the Holy Spirit will confront are own spirit we are christians
childrenchildren of Fos
(followed closely by: - «I have a personal relationship» with «God / Jesus» and - «If you are a good parent, don't you
discipline your
children when they misbehave?»
Add to this the insight of the psychological
disciplines, which have confirmed many of the truths expressed in ancient mythology, the truths of rivalry and overt hostility that mark the parent -
child relationship, particularly
when the
child reaches maturity.
I am (a) A victim of
child molestation (b) A r.ape victim trying to recover (c) A mental patient with paranoid delusions (d) A Christian The only
discipline known to often cause people to kill others they have never met and / or to commit suicide in its furtherance is: (a) Architecture; (b) Philosophy; (c) Archeology; or (d) Religion What is it that most differentiates science and all other intellectual
disciplines from religion: (a) Religion tells people not only what they should believe, but what they are morally obliged to believe on pain of divine retribution, whereas science, economics, medicine etc. has no «sacred cows» in terms of doctrine and go where the evidence leads them; (b) Religion can make a statement, such as «there is a composite god comprised of God the Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit», and be totally immune from experimentation and challenge, whereas science can only make factual assertions
when supported by considerable evidence; (c) Science and the scientific method is universal and consistent all over the World whereas religion is regional and a person's religious conviction, no matter how deeply held, is clearly nothing more than an accident of birth; or (d) All of the above.
When parents
discipline with respect, they elicit respect from their
children.
There are some things where I don't have quite as much confidence - gentle
discipline, for instance, because of less support for it in person and the fact that it has so many variables (working w / a
child's behavior has much more grey area than «I always comfort my baby
when she wakes up in the night,» which makes it more of a challenge)- so somethimes I do feel judged for my
discipline choices, and sometimes I don't live up to my own standards - making me more suseptable (sp?)
And it's pretty hard not to form a strong connection and get to know your
child really well
when you do breastfeed, spend lots of time with them, wear or carry them everywhere you go, are available to them all night, use positive
discipline and practice the other principles of attachment parenting.
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When a
child does something that goes against the rules or expectations it is fine to
discipline this way.
It is being increasingly accepted by
disciplines associated with infants,
children and adults with tongue tie that there is now no place for «wait and see» policies
when the frenum has been identified and diagnosed as abnormal, and early intervention is the optimal form of management.
Have you ever wondered what your
child is thinking and feeling
when we try to establish rules,
discipline, or
when we lose control and raise our voice?
The well meaning advice and thoughts of naysayers just don't bother me anymore... well, okay sometimes they do... like
when they insinuate that my choices on vaccines or positive
discipline border on
child abuse or neglect... then I have a few choice words to say.
Children thrive in situations
when they know what's expected of them, so keep as much of the home life as normal as possible, including your
discipline techniques.
When it comes to discipline, parenting experts focus on the things that change for parents when their child begins adolesce
When it comes to
discipline, parenting experts focus on the things that change for parents
when their child begins adolesce
when their
child begins adolescence.
When trying new
discipline tactics, like ignoring certain behaviors or taking away privileges, your
child's behavior may get a little worse before it gets better.
Here are five things to consider
when deciding which
discipline strategies to use with your
children:
When kids do something wrong, authoritative parents will
discipline by trying to guide and teach their kids, and modify what they expect from kids depending on the situation and a
child's individual needs.
Rather, it means consistently showing emotional affection toward the
child as a person even
when disciplining him for inappropriate actions.
Many
child behavior psychologists believe that needed life lessons are not being taught
when discipline is angry and painful, and corporal punishment will often leave a
child with increased anxiety and the inability to trust parental figures.
It takes
discipline and effort, something that might be in short supply
when you're the parent of a young
child or multiple
children, but it can be done.
Nevertheless,
discipline and schooling are two huge issues
when it comes to raising
children and if couples become parents without having some sort of a meeting of minds, they are setting themselves up for trouble — and perhaps divorce.
I know what works and what doesn't work
when it comes to parenting and
disciplining my
children.
Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying
when children are
disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.
It's so important to find like - minded parents who can offer their «been there, done that» stories, emotional scaffolding, and specific suggestions for
when you feel confused as to what to do about your
child's behavior, or
when you question whether this new thing you're trying, like positive
discipline instead of spanking, for example, is going to work out in the long term, or how exactly to keep those family attachment bonds strong as your
children grow, or how to move forward
when your family encounters challenging life circumstances.
This is why making
children feel ashamed, rejected, or furious
when we
discipline has the opposite effect we're hoping for.
The
child is practicing self -
discipline only
when he has a goal — for instance, two marshmallows soon (or maybe his mother's approval)-- which is more important to him than his immediate desire — for instance, one marshmallow immediately (or maybe to knock his little sister down.)
Positive
discipline teaches good behavior by correcting
child's actions, by showing respect
when listening to
child's opinion, setting boundaries, consistency and cooperation.