Imagine you have written a book about anger in the workplace and then later want to write
about anger as a parent for a different publisher.
(Have we talked
about anger as a helpful sign?
Not exact matches
One more thing we know
about what gets shared: High - share content tends to trigger a high - arousal emotion, like amusement, fear or
anger,
as opposed to a low - arousal emotion like sadness or contentment.
But
as a psychologist, I am deeply worried
about the rapidly escalating levels of
anger in our world — what's particularly disturbing is our increasing sense of entitlement to express it in aggressive or hurtful ways.
The shock of the downturn and
anger about the abuses that drove it promise to accelerate preexisting trends toward reduced materialism, commitment to sustainability, higher expectations of corporate social responsibility, and resentment of cynical marketing that treats people
as soulless and mechanical consumers.
In recent months, revelations from European authorities
about the tax avoidance strategies used by Google, Starbucks and Amazon have all stirred public
anger and spurred several European governments,
as well
as the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, a Paris - based research organization for the world's richest countries, to discuss measures to close the loopholes.
If I were you I would avoid these types of places
as people talk
about many, many topics and if this nice man and his well meaning article
angered you, being around other people talking
about things may be too much for you to handle.
Jesus is pictured
as angry in other passages
as well, but he is never pictured
as angry
about the kind of minor offenses and frustrations that
anger most of us.
After a half - dozen sessions, the assessment pinpointed these behavior difficulties which became the goals of therapy — her unassertiveness; her inability to express her feelings, which the therapist saw
as leading to a build - up of
anger, resentment, and guilt (
about her
anger); the fact that she had never experienced orgasm; and her low opinion of
I wish there was a scientific test that told everyone the truth
about things such
as greed, arrogance, envy,
anger, lust and other downfalls of our character.
It's an irrational
anger, expressing itself in such irrelevant things
as holding me responsible for a printer's error
about Paulus's birthday in the first copies off the press.
Too often, commentators describe populist
anger about immigration
as a sign of racism or nativism.
I've been reflecting on this a lot recently,
as I've been talking with loved ones
about how to move past some of my «issues» (read —
anger, obsession, deep - seated hatred) with some of the tenants of Reformed theology.
Books such
as Homosexuality, which incessantly talk
about the fears, frustrations,
angers, and depressions involved in being homosexual, inadvertently reinforce the reasons why parents hope their children will not be homosexual.
I would not worry
about upsetting them, they are already full of
anger and hate (and other stuff
as well).
We are talking not
about one who approaches us with
anger, or even with fear or suspicion, but
about one who manifests himself
as vulnerable to us, trusting us with a belief in us that we do not easily share.
We have become way too much eyeball people
as Christians assume that those who don't live according to the way they do they are unsaved, we have created this judgemental relationship which hurts peoples fellowship with God, there are no litmus tests for people that believe in Jesus, which is why we are called to not judge others, and people use James 2:14, and 1 John's verse of those who practices righteousness are righteous even though I think it's talking
about earthly righteousness toward people that we
as Christians should show because there is a lost world out there that needs are help and these doctrines of guilt, condemnation,
anger, and judgement aren't helping in fact they are doing the opposite, just like how in James it's justification towards man.
The second he talks
about the «worldly» folk being more «authentic» — my word, not his - and in the first quote he reveals his own
anger at overhearing his father's prayers that sound both authentic and all
about the inner experience
as he wrestled with his faith.
Nevertheless, with his
anger stayed, Apelles puts away his knife and will soon become Paul's friend and a partner in sharing the gospel
about Jesus — but not before he begins to see that the love of God, embodied in Paul's bizarre behavior and seemingly inappropriate words, means to claim him
as God's own.
This was what Cardinal Ratzinger,
as he was then, emphasised when the final Fatima secret was revealed
as the 21st century opened: he explained that the vision revealed a message which in the end is
about loving and trusting in God,
about hope conquering despair and
anger and confusion.
God accepts whatever we bring to the God / person relationship — our physical and spiritual condition, personality, connection to reality, our participation in relationships, talents, inabilities, cognition, knowledge, ignorance, life journey, spiritual journey, walk
about, wandering, seeking, questioning, questing, acceptance of God, rejection of God — and our emotional and mental status: hate / love,
anger / peace, sadness / happiness, hurt / health, feeling lost and abandoned / feeling found and included, agitation / serenity, apathy / passion, confusion / clarity, fractures / wholeness — all of this, all of whoever we are and have ever been and every action committed or ever contemplated and every thought we ever explored or entertained or that flitted through our mind — all of this, we bring to the God / person relationship and God accepts the totality of who we are and every component that comprises who we are —
as a gift.
My general beliefs
about how
anger expresses itself in me and my degree of confidence in the veracity of these observers will introduce complex questions of consistency and coherence that will interact with such direct memories
as I can elicit.
As in some marriages, the argument isn't always
about the topic at hand but rather
about a deep seated
anger over some other issue.
In my fear and
anger about what's happening in our world, I'm just
as guilty of the doublethink that I've found here
as people avoid facing contradictions in their beliefs.
Dan and I were talking
about this yesterday, and he said to me, «The truth is,
as a guy, it is more natural for me to want to take vengeance on people, to respond with violence and
anger when I've been wronged.
The media reporting
about the scandals afflicting many parts of the Church is not just fuelled by rightful
anger at clerical scandals and abuses, but has been «metastasised into a full - scale assault on Catholicism itself»
as George Weigel puts it.
And two full generations grew to adulthood being forced to endure absurd and ugly noises masquerading
as «folk music» at Mass:
anger about this is generally expressed in terms of «horrible kum - by - ya Masses», even though that particular horror slithered away during the 90s except among a few ageing diehard crooners.
Around our house, I talk
about Qi all the time, especially
as it relates to mental clutter,
anger or frustration, and digestive unease — basically whenever I notice something is personally out of balance.
whether for the right or wrong reasons, our leader chose to stay on when things took a turn of sorts... a new owner arrived on the scene, plans for a new stadium emerged and Wenger became the bearer of bad news... he sold us on a new story, one that required patience on our parts... financial constraints were the order of the day, so that the enormous sums spent on the new venue could be recouped... although some would question the validity of such claims, why wouldn't they believe their faithful leader... according to those within the hierarchy, the future never looked so bright,
as this new home would ensure our place among the elites for years to come...
as we all know now these claims were a well constructed fabrication and so those who feel they were duped in the process are infuriated and rightly so... the fact that this club and it's manager have continually misled the fans, especially following Gazidis's claims
about our financial liquidity, simply rubbed more salt in an already gaping wound... this surely isn't how you treat your «family», especially when they supported you through the supposed «lean» years... it was a dirty trick played by Kroenke but the fact is was orchestrated by Wenger himself hurt the most...
as for those in the media, many of whom are former players or longtime pundits, who observed the early years firsthand, saw this
as the perfect opportunity to vent the
anger they felt towards this pretentious man once and for all... all in all, karma's a bitch
well i get where you come from but i wouldnt call it less passionate but more practical, i just do nt like to be butthurt ^ ^ i am fan of arsenal to enjoy the time i spend on football but if it ends in failures i try to get over its and be constructive
about it, and i am not a fan of people who cant control their
anger pains and have to project their frustrations onto the people who could be held responsible but not in this scale, in my opinion of the society humans should be able to control their emotions a bit and never stoop
as low
as to be abusive and i do think that a lot of comments on justarsenal were abusive and sorry but i do nt think of it
as passionate an extreme example would be ultras you could call them muuuuch more passionate than me but in my opinion they are just scum of football, but of course i do nt want to compare the JA - commenters to ultras xD i just tried to illustrate my opinion ^ ^
I implore us
as genuine fans of this club to please give Arsenal a chance to end the season before pouring out all our
anger and pain on them because that is what supporter - ship is all
about.
I also like the way that he has moved to deflect any possible
anger about the photo said to show Alexis Sanchez laughing
as we lost to Bayern Munich last week and to stop the rumours of a split between the Chilean and the rest of the Arsenal players, Metro reports.
In fact the Frenchman was full of fighting talk and is clearly hoping that his players feel the same
anger about Saturday's result
as he does.
Ozil and Sanchez would likely not give their best in the final year
as a result of motivation and worry
about injury and
anger about lost wages 3.
Disappointment in the pre-season transfer window, followed by rationalizations of why we should give the team and Wenger a chance and not write them off before a ball is kicked in
anger, followed by analyzing each set back
as «too early to panic» followed by excuses
about injuries and referees, followed by
anger and disappointment after the inevitable reality sets in and Arsenal are effectively eliminated from the PL race before the year is even finished and the PL has reached its half way point.
I am just
about holding it together for the next few days until the window closes, if
as expected we do f**k all, or only get the sh*t that no one else wants, then I will put the passion away until the real changes come, I can't go on like this, the
anger, frustration and now the hatred is killing me.
Now
as we all know, Arsene tends to
anger and frustrate Arsenal fans all around the world when it comes to transfers of incoming players to the club each summer — but is he
about to change all that and splash the cash?
Spurs fans were left
angered as they saw their side let a lead slip, but more so
about the fact that Tottenham will have to play yet another game in what is already a very tight schedule for Mauricio Pochettino's side.
I understand his
anger, and he very much has every right to be upset
about what has happened, but lashing out at ALL of Chelsea FC or us fans
as a whole doesn't do anybody any favors towards making the world a more peaceful, friendly place for all.
* Curiosities
about same sex stimulation, I think many men have these curiosities and it messes with them mentally, either they act on it or divulge in gay porn I DO NT THINK THATS TRUE UNLESS THEY ARE IN PRISON * Addiction to porn and / or jacking off ONLY WHEN GETTING IT FROM THEIR WIFE IS SUCH A CHORE * Medical Conditions such
as low sex drive, he is older and it has been going down over the years, he has high blood pressure and takes medication, he also has low Vitamin D and takes supplements, he may have some ED issues as well LACK OF SEX COULD CAUSE AS WELL AS BE CAUSED BY THOSE FACTORS * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed A DEFINITE POSSIBILITY * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPEC
as low sex drive, he is older and it has been going down over the years, he has high blood pressure and takes medication, he also has low Vitamin D and takes supplements, he may have some ED issues
as well LACK OF SEX COULD CAUSE AS WELL AS BE CAUSED BY THOSE FACTORS * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed A DEFINITE POSSIBILITY * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPEC
as well LACK OF SEX COULD CAUSE
AS WELL AS BE CAUSED BY THOSE FACTORS * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed A DEFINITE POSSIBILITY * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPEC
AS WELL
AS BE CAUSED BY THOSE FACTORS * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed A DEFINITE POSSIBILITY * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPEC
AS BE CAUSED BY THOSE FACTORS * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed A DEFINITE POSSIBILITY * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to
anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me
as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPEC
as I am more educated and he is more vocational SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU ARE A MATCHED PAIR IN THAT RESPECT.
-- Remorse with gifts of flowers, trips, jewelry, dinners (whatever would be perceived
as important to the spouse or girlfriend)-- Negotiating or promising not to do it again —
Anger that the spouse is still sorry and hasn't truly forgiven them or anger about their own inabilty to stop — Anxiety about whatever trigger that caused the infidellity — Infidelity Go back to the top of the list
Anger that the spouse is still sorry and hasn't truly forgiven them or
anger about their own inabilty to stop — Anxiety about whatever trigger that caused the infidellity — Infidelity Go back to the top of the list
anger about their own inabilty to stop — Anxiety
about whatever trigger that caused the infidellity — Infidelity Go back to the top of the list again
* Curiosities
about same sex stimulation, I think many men have these curiosities and it messes with them mentally, either they act on it or divulge in gay porn * Addiction to porn and / or jacking off * Medical Conditions such
as low sex drive, he is older and it has been going down over the years, he has high blood pressure and takes medication, he also has low Vitamin D and takes supplements, he may have some ED issues
as well * Sexual advances from other woman and him acting on those or seeking out other women for comfort when he is angry and / or depressed * His ADHD doesn't allow him to process issues normally, he is quick to
anger, depression, and feeling disrespected that causes his to retreat * He was self raised, came from drug infested household where neglect, torture, and narcissism ruled, and he lost his mother at the age of 7 from drugs, growing up in foster care * I make more money and I control all the money, he is not interested in paying bills at all, this immaculateness him * He is a control freak and sex is his way of controlling me, where he otherwise can't control me
as I am more educated and he is more vocational
They might experience loneliness,
anger if the pet was euthanized, frustration that the pet couldn't get better, or guilt
about times that they were mean to or didn't care for the pet
as promised.
Staff can introduce the importance of «keeping your word» and other issues such
as alcohol / drug misuse or
anger management by talking to young fathers
about whether this is the image they want their children to have of them.
If she's stuck in
anger, create more safety by being
as compassionate
as you can
about what's upsetting her.
It helps to talk
about your
anger with an adult, such
as a parent, teacher, or relative.
It's helpful to acknowledge how frustrating this is going to be for your child and talk to your child
about what they can do to cope with the
anger they're going to feel
as part of this process.
There is no excuse for using maternal guilt
as an argument for withholding information
about breastfeeding — this very information could prevent feelings of guilt, sadness,
anger, inadequacy, betrayal and regret.
Rather, it's a key step for couples who are on the fence and may be fantasizing
about divorce
as an outlet for their
anger and frustration.
I remember myself at the beginning of this journey — the «need» for control in my parent - child relationship, the
anger when my child didn't do
as I thought she should have, the overwhelm of realizing how much I didn't know
about parenting, the anxiety
about whether I was doing it right or not, the complete lack of knowledge
about healthy child development expectations, the frustration of realizing that I didn't know myself and how to handle my own emotions
as much
as I thought I did, the conflict between my mothering instincts and cultural advice promoting detachment and emotional distance.