«I want to be honest about it because I think there's still so much shame when you have mixed feelings
about being a mom instead of feeling this sort of «bliss,»» she told the magazine.
Not exact matches
Max Wiseltier, forwarded the email to his
mom to see if she had any idea what it
was talking
about but,
instead of «forward,» he hit «reply all.»
I
was just thinking
about trying to recreate my
mom's spinach soup that she makes at Christmas, but I think I'll just make this
instead!
The taste doesn't turn my family away as, «Yuk, this doesn't taste like the real thing», but
instead I
am now getting, «It
's about time
mom, your finally cooking like you used to».
I hope I can
be strong and
be a help and a comfort to Amy and her family
instead of a hindrance while I try to keep control of my own feelings and emotions
about my
mom.
This
was so interesting... as a nurse, I have found no matter what I tell
moms about sagging breasts and breastfeeding... they believe, friends and other women's experiences
instead.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding
is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to
be a natural, instinctive thing
instead of a learned behavior (on both
mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something
is wrong with THEM and clam up
about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you
're breastfeeding (which
was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
Instead, a few bloggers
were lucky to have a chance to chat with Ellen Pompeo from Grey's Anatomy
about her life as a new
mom and her role in the Every Little Bottom campaign.
And
instead of finding 100 things wrong with what I
'm doing or not doing either as a
Mom or a writer or a singer, I stop and celebrate everything that
is absolutely wonderful
about each day.
Instead of asking a yes / no question
about hanging out with her kids for a bit (some
moms might say «no» not wanting to inconvenience others), offer three potential days and times when you
are available to come over to watch the kids, asking her to pick one.
Instead of purposely making green living «fun» for her kids, the Eco Crazy
Mom finds opportunities to teach her kids
about why they live the way they do - like explaining the harsh chemicals found in cleaning products when she
's making her own!
Instead, they
're moms now, and, as such, every single aspect of their lives, their families, and their personal choices
are up for debate — especially if they dare to post anything
about their parenting choices to social media.
Instead we have come to a place where the thinking on birth
is completely warped, it
's not
about healthy babies and healthy
moms, it
's about avoiding cesareans and cutting costs at a terrible expense.
After all, if every group didn't have a Bargain
Mom, we'd all still
be paying full retail price for brand new Bumbo seats (as opposed hitting the gear swap she told us
about) and breast milk storage bags (
instead of buying in bulk with the discount code she magically knew).
We
were sitting on the Little League bench ostensibly to watch our 11 - year - olds play, but
instead we
were doing what we
moms typically did — grumble
about parenting, aging, work, menopause and marriage.
Let's see an article
about how natural and wonderful and beneficial it
is instead of putting doubts in new
mom's heads before they even try!
Rookie
Moms Handbook I, who read NO books
about parenting or babies or anything, really love this book because it
's about the
mom instead of
being about the baby, like almost every other book out there.
I
was team
mom for little league, cheer
mom, pta
mom, chaperoned school field trips, volunteered as a classroom helper and parent at their schools (when in public school) attended toddler tumbling and
mom classes,
was a homeschooling parent for one of my kids with leaning disabilities, I didn't have to scramble to figure out what to do
about work or where to take my kids for child care if they
were sick, I led and
was involved with the church groups with my kids, I spent summers with them doing all kinds of things like traveling, visiting grandparents out of town, amusement park trips, swimming, picnics, and hiking,
instead of them
being stuck with a sitter every summer.
I agree with the use of phrases like «yes,
mom» although I find no need to
be dogmatic
about them (saying ok
instead of yes
is not a hill I need to die on).
Maybe your doctor has even «warned» you
about this by saying «It
's never too early to set them her up to
be a good sleeper...» But whatever you
are hearing, know this, if the advice you
are getting (even from your doctor, even from your
mom) doesn't sit well with you and your gut, you can choose to LET IT GO and trust yourself and what feels right to you
instead.
I believe it
is time for child health advocates to stop telling
moms what to do and
instead, provide all the information that
moms need in order to make their own informed choices
about milk - sharing.
Instead of speaking out
about how breastfeeding
is wonderful and amazing, maybe
moms should start speaking the truth — that breastfeeding isn't all rainbows and butterflies.
Instead, know that for every mistake a
mom makes, there
are about a thousand things she did just right.
SEJAL FICHADIA: So Kangaroo Care benefits of breastfeeding relationship by releasing that oxytocin like one of the
moms on the panels said, you know, that oxytocin release helps with the let down of the milk, and another thing that it also does
is that when babies
are on their
mom's chest, they
are already so close to their food source that they do not have to make a lot of effort to wake up and find and learn that say shoulder calories from
being extended and also, the fearing of calm and connectedness that comes with breastfeeding, lets the
mom relaxed and enjoy breastfeeding
instead of
being worried
about were her baby would when she wants to breastfeed.
But back to the matter at hand: How
about when a
mom — Chrissy Teigen or otherwise — shares a candid moment of her own new motherhood we raise her up
instead of tear her down, with a congratulatory «Good on you for remembering to eat because it
's damn near impossible when you have a newborn!»
Don't worry so much
about how other
moms on the block look or what they
're up to and
instead focus on what you need to do to make yourself feel fabulous.
I
was recently a guest on Wellness Mama's Healthy
Moms Podcast talking all
about why hormonal birth control messes with our hormones, and what to do
instead.
It helps to guide me to things and answer questions and even encourages
moms to do what makes them feel good (See this post here: http://www.aintnomomjeans.com/2011/05/the-skinny-on-post-partum-swimwear.html)
S sums it up when she says, it
is less
about how you look (or what you wear) and
instead more
about how you feel.
I planned on saying a bit more today
about why I've
been MIA lately, but figured I better just get this post up before the week
is over and
instead, I'll leave you with my
mom's incredible Thanksgiving dessert and cute table styling... my mouth waters just looking at it!
But at Desert Trails, a group of headstrong
moms might just
be able to use the Trigger as a tool to rise out of those cliched trenches — and
instead make the debate
about the ideal learning environment for California's frighteningly undereducated kids.
So, for example,
instead of a book entitled «Business Ideas for Women», which
is a very broad and unfocused topic, consider writing a book
about «Craft Business Startup Ideas for the Stay - at - Home
Mom».
Self - taught and much enthused
about all things personal finance, this average Canadian
mom is on a mission to help people use their money for good
instead of evil; teaching people to keep consumer debt at bay while investing to grow wealth.
«My
mom doesn't think I
'm very smart, she still loves me but I may
be missing something upstairs, so I
'm thinking
about getting my GED
instead of attending class all the time.
Just as overanxious
moms and dads
are advised to stop trying to
be perfect parents and to
instead become «good - enough» ones, I'll advise you to think
about your relationship in terms of
being good - enough.
Going back and forth between
Mom's house and Dad's house can
be a real challenge for kids. Think ahead
about how you can help your kids smoothly transition to the other parent's home. For example,
instead of pulling kids away from a festive family celebration and shuffling out them door to
Mom's or Dad's house without warning, give your kids a heads up
about what the plan
is before you arrive.
While Pinterest
is THE BOMB for dreaming
about great ideas, sometimes good enough ideas
are found at Costco when we
are wearing our classic boring outfit of jeans and Chucks
instead of the cute ruffled red coat and polka dot shoes all the cool
moms on Instagram
are wearing.