Not exact matches
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for
formula telling me a happy
feeding makes a happy
mom, bottlefeeding
moms,
moms and doctors and nurses telling new
moms that
formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty», women getting «the look» for nursing in public, or feeling weird
about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
I also know many stay - at - home
moms who
formula fed and left the workplace to stay with their children - so the «cons» against breastfeeding are «cons
about having children» but not cons against breastfeeding.
If you feel unsure of your parenting choices because they are different than the «mainstream,» I doubt the answer is to boast
about breastfeeding and co sleeping while trying to make
moms who
formula feed feel like shit just so that you can give yourself a pat on the back.
Even though I meant it as a legit question (because I both breastfed and
formula fed), it can still be incredibly shameful to a
mom who's either already struggling with her decision or on the defensive
about it.
I feel like people, especially breastfeeding
moms, assume a ton of things
about me based only on the fact that I
feed my baby
formula.
Other
moms encounter some challenges, feel insecure
about whether «it's working», and quickly move to
formula feeding.
The sponsors put in a clause
about a permission form, listing risks of
formula feeding, for
moms to sign before their baby received
formula.
Remember: when you say that
moms who
formula feed are awesome you are literally not saying anything
about moms who breastfeed.
Judgmental or «
mom - shaming» posts (example, you can share your story
about breastfeeding, but may not bash a
mom who chooses to
formula feed)
Every parenting book, veteran
mom, and pediatrician today will tell new
moms that «breastfeeding is best», discouraging her to even think briefly
about formula feeding.
Through celebrating
feeding, we want to give
formula -
feeding moms the help they need cutting through the noise and learning
about what best - in - class products are available to them.
Moms who
formula feed hear horrific, rude and honestly, untrue, things
about formula and their choice to
feed it to their kids.
Unfortunately, I've experienced all kinds of shaming for
formula feeding from other
moms, from subtle comments
about «breast is best» or that I need more «education» or «support,» to saying I don't love my babies enough.
I never really thought
about the
formula -
feeding mom's perspective until I saw a mother in my new baby group crying
about giving up breastfeeding and using
formula.
So much energy goes into the debate that few people take time to even talk
about the
moms who do both: breastfeed for a bit and then transition to
formula feeding.
I became a
mom before I knew what a lactation consultant really was or what they did, before I knew
about the Mommy Wars, the shaming of breastfeeding
moms, and the shaming of
formula -
feeding moms.
Consider the post, 5 Cool Things No One Ever Told You
About Nighttime Breastfeeding, which claims that the number 1 coolest thing about nighttime breastfeeding is «breastfeeding moms actually get MORE sleep than their formula - feeding counterparts,» and concludes with the rhetorical question: «Did you ever think, when you hear your baby rouse at 2:00 am, that they are actually giving you the gift of MORE sleep...?&r
About Nighttime Breastfeeding, which claims that the number 1 coolest thing
about nighttime breastfeeding is «breastfeeding moms actually get MORE sleep than their formula - feeding counterparts,» and concludes with the rhetorical question: «Did you ever think, when you hear your baby rouse at 2:00 am, that they are actually giving you the gift of MORE sleep...?&r
about nighttime breastfeeding is «breastfeeding
moms actually get MORE sleep than their
formula -
feeding counterparts,» and concludes with the rhetorical question: «Did you ever think, when you hear your baby rouse at 2:00 am, that they are actually giving you the gift of MORE sleep...?»
Last week's post
about how to deal with low milk supply was for my breastfeeding mamas, here's one for my mamas who supplement and bottle
feed exclusively... Lots of factors go into your baby
formula choice and as a
mom you want to choose the...
For all
moms, whether breastfeeding or
formula feeding, accurate information
about storage and
feeding is very important.
By Shari Criso MSN, RN, CNM, IBCLC, for Evenflo For all
moms, whether breastfeeding or
formula feeding, accurate information
about storage and
feeding is very important.
Whether you bottle -
feed from day one or months later, follow this advice from
moms and experts and feel good
about formula.
They are larger breath volume, also you know, the best thing
about feeding a baby even if it is
formula while the baby is in skin - to - skin contact with mother is that the oxytocin is still release and the
mom still benefits on those relaxing effect of oxytocin.
In - your - face crunchy
moms look at
formula as if it is poison, and won't hold back their feelings
about the evils of
formula feeding.
Overall great article, but you can't real soothe a
mom who feels guilty
about feeding her child
formula when you still use the phrase «breast is best.»
I ended up supplementing with
formula partially because of doctors who were too alarmist
about his weight, but also because of really intense, borderline mean, and not helpful lactation consultants at my (very breastfeeding - friendly) hospital... but most importantly, because he was showing signs of dehydration, and I swear to god any
mom would immediately give some form of alternate
feeding in that situation.
An article is released sharing the findings of a new study that revealing some new findings
about breastmilk or there may be some issues with
formula and hundreds of comments pour in with things like «
formula is the same thing, really and all the breastfed kids I know are sick all the time but my
formula fed kids have genius IQs and are never sick» or «you know, not everyone can breastfeed so I guess I'm a bad
mom because my breasts just didn't work.»
This isn't a step away from the belief that there are risks to
formula feeding that parents need information
about, it isn't a divorce from the science that supports breastfeeding as the healthy normal food for a human infant, this isn't a watering down of our commitment to help
moms reach their breastfeeding goals, and it certainly isn't a sugarcoating of the issues surrounding infant
feeding and society.
SUNNY GAULT: And Rhian, tell us a little bit
about you experience as a
formula -
feeding mom for your adopted child.
Helen, what are some of the biggest concerns
moms have
about making the switch from
formula feeding to breastfeeding?
I know a lot of
moms end up
formula feeding and using day care because they have to, but what
about the others?
So I decided to ask other
moms to share some of the worst things said to them
about formula feeding, the comments they've never really been able to get past.
I think it it every
mom's business what she ends up doing, and I would never want to make a
formula -
feeding mom feel bad, but I'm very vocal
about disliking
formula - making companies who are using unethical, sneaky tactics towards
moms who are struggling with breastfeeding and vulnerable.
Yes, the more passionately I write
about breastfeeding the more I get comments from
formula -
feeding moms who feel attacked even though I never even mention
formula -
feeding moms per se.
While I think it's wonderful that we have no shame
about formula — because hello, it's food for your baby and that's all that matters — I also feel like a lot of our discussions
about breastfeeding and
formula feeding have been reduced to what makes
Mom the happiest.