We can't have it both ways — if we complain
about midwives making bad choices that put mothers / babies at risk, then we should be glad that they are transferring women to hospital care before an emergency arises, instead of making fun of them for transferring care.
Not exact matches
I didn't even know how to go
about finding a
midwife who would attend a home birth (Direct Entry
Midwives, those who usually attend home births, can not legally practice in my state,
making finding care a bit more challenging).
It wasn't until I had given birth to my daughter, officially joined the «mommy club,» and
made some mommy friends of my own that I began to hear more and more
about midwives and learn
about the role that they play in helping women prenatally, during birth and postnatal.
That
made sense in light of some of the things my
midwife told me
about my home birth that were (thankfully) true.
And a
midwife / doula is (in my opinion) more qualified to help YOU
make the decisions
about YOUR health and the health of YOUR baby, as they are more invested in PERSONAL care vs. PUBLIC HEATH.
Asking
about my
midwives and plans for my birth team was nice, but it was also nice that instead of asking who was going to «deliver» my baby, they were recognizing that I was the one doing the work, and asking
about who was going to help
make sure I stayed safe.
There are many qualified
midwives who are fully educated
about the risks, and have the skills to
make decisions if a complication arises.
As a registered nurse and
midwife, homebirthed mother of three, breastfeeding advocate, In
making decisions
about how to raise my children I read widely, asked advice from a range of professionals, some being medical doctors some being highly trained, skilled
midwives.
Unbeknown to homebirth
midwives, it is the «disruptions» that have allowed homebirth
midwives the luxury of pretending that facilitating experience of childbirth and «meaning
making»
about childbirth are the most important services that can and should be offered.
And on a more general note, much as I appreciate a blog that
makes a counter-point to some of the insane poppycock spun by high school dropout
midwives, getting on a high horse
about these issues is not helpful to anyone.
I have yet to see any
midwife who is destroyed by the unnecessary death of a child — they all have crap to say
about how sad it is that they didn't
make it earthside, blah blah blah, but I have yet to see even one of these stories where she takes full responsiblity for her actions or lack thereof.
Families, doctors,
midwives and policymakers often
make decisions
about where to plan a birth based on their understanding of the published research.
As always, consult your
midwife or doctor
about any changes you
make to your diet while pregnant.
In 2014, Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) hosted a «hackathon» competition called «
Make the Breast Pump Not Suck,» where more than 150 designers, developers, engineers,
midwives, doctors, lactation consultants and corporations came together to share ideas
about pump improvement.
If I hadn't joined the message boards at Mothering.com, I probably wouldn't have known that birth is inherently safe and that all that stuff
about «risk» was
made up by doctors trying to steal business from
midwives.
Sometimes I see that a husband is afraid to touch his wife's tits because of the
midwife's presence, so I touch them, get in there and squeeze them, talk
about how nice they are, and
make him welcome.
And shows how either untruthful they are (since if they read through them, they would understand that the studies aren't
about midwives like them) or stupid (didn't read them at all, but liked what they saw and think it
makes them look better)
Maybe it was a mistake that your wife
made to
make those postings public, but something good has come out from it because these stories, even though it's painful to be written
about, these stories need to be told, because the
midwives and home birth community are not talking
about these risks.
If
midwives did not continue to lie to them
about their choices then they could actually
make informed ones.
It depends on the
midwife, but the standard rate here (for the
midwives who give you the option, some
make you sign a contract that says the
midwife doesn't have to accompany you to the hospital during a transfer) is
about $ 750.
Midwives made 102 positive and 48 negative comments
about home birth.
My grandmother told me the same thing
about drinking milk but lactation consulatants and
midwives have all said it doesn't
make a different.
While the fear of the unknown can cause parents to hesitate
about giving consent for the screening, Wilkerson implores them to advocate for their babies by
making sure it's conducted, either by a nurse in the hospital or a
midwife after a home birth.
Our
midwives provide complete information
about the risks and benefits of vaginal birth and elective cesarean so you can
make the healthiest choice possible for you and your baby.
With
midwives, there is more of a focus on allowing a pregnant woman to
make her own choices
about her pregnancy.
We recommend that these findings be taken into account when insurers and governing bodies
make decisions
about home birth and hospital privileges with respect to certified professional
midwives.
The word «
midwife» literally means «with woman» and her role is to provide you with support and information so that you can
make choices
about your own health.»
To ensure surgery doesn't stand in the way of you bonding right away with your little one, talk to your doctor or
midwife about their practices,
Make sure he or she knows how important those first minutes are to you — and ensure you'll have the chance to take in that warm and wiggly bundle of joy.
Talk to your
midwife or doctor
about the risks ahead of time and
make sure you are given true informed consent before an intervention is used.
If your
midwife or OBGYN has any concerns
about your ability to give birth naturally, they will discuss them with you throughout your pregnancy, and you will have ample opportunity to
make plans for caesarean section or other types of assisted birth if they are required.
Especially if your are giving birth in water at the hospital or at the birthing center
make sure to talk with your
midwife about all the process as there are some rules and regulations they have to follow during water births.
During the birth of my second child, a pair of nurses gossiped
about my hospital
midwife's decision
making.
The doctors and
midwives will be there to support you so don't worry
about making sure your milk comes in on time.
I had a
midwife with my first and because she was so all
about natural my son was still born, everyone of us has to
make our own choice, it's my prayer you don't have a bad experience.
When I wanted to know more
about routine newborn procedures, my
midwives took the time to answer my questions, and help me
make the decision that was best for me.
Being the parent and main decision maker, our
midwife gave us the test results and information needed to
make an educated decision
about this detail of birth.
Young 1997 (cost analysis, Turnbull 1996) used the «individual patient - based costing» approach, in which an assumption was
made about the number of caseloads per
midwife.
It should be read by every medical student, every
midwife, every childbirth educator, every sociologist of childbirth, every researcher, every woman who is picking her way through the minefield of decisions that need to be
made about obstetric care.
Midwives everywhere understand that by working in partnership with women and their families they can support them to
make better decisions
about what they need to have a safe and fulfilling birth.
why do we always talk
about how to
make hospitals more like homebirths having recognised that private
midwives have lots to offer but do nt give them access to stuff that
makes hospitals record safety.
Sorry, Debbie dear, but your fellow maternity care worker who boasted
about her experience that supposedly
made her a competent
midwife and was later revealed to be a cleaning woman already gave us an idea of just how competent you «maternity workers» are.
They claim to care
about women but actively take steps to deny them the information they need to have truly informed consent and work to
make them less safe by not demanding that homebirth
midwives be adequately educated.
If you were not told
about the risks and were instead drawn into long discussions
about homebirth that left you feeling educated, fulfilled and so special but were not sent to tests and ultrasounds to
make sure you were truly low - risk, then yes, the
midwife was just stroking your ego, no matter whether you realized it or not.
Did the Pro
Midwives talk
about making it like, IDK, Not Happen Again?
0 that's right 0... When the hospital
makes $ 20,000 on each birth and
midwives cost $ 3000 I'd say the hospital will lie
about there stats any day!
Young 1997 used the «individual patient - based costing» approach, in which an assumption was
made about the number of caseloads per
midwife.
IMPORTANT: Please note that I am only writing
about my own personal experience with this and the decisions I
made after consulting with my OB or
midwife (depending on which pregnancy it was).
With research and sources divided, this is an issue that I personally spoke to my own
midwife about before
making a decision.
I found that when I truly wanted to know the risks of homebirth it was much more concealed, and every
midwife I spoke with have me the rosey glasses picture of homebirth when I REALLY needed honest information and statistics so that I could
make an informed decision
about having hospital emergency services or staying at home.
Not much happens in The
Midwife, but its depth and texture
make this a moving film
about families, time passing and shared history — and the handful of scenes in the maternity unit where Claire works, five or six little miracles of birth, somehow add to its sense of a life as mysterious and precious.