Not exact matches
But my basic convictions
about them were derived not from these philosophers but partly from my being surrounded from
birth with the reality in question; partly from Emerson's essays and the works of James and Royce; partly from the poems of Shelley and Wordsworth (which similarly influenced Whitehead); and most of all from my own
experience, reflected upon especially during my two years in the army medical corps, when I had considerable leisure to think
about life and death and other fundamental questions.
All in all, I wish I spent less time in my early pregnancy watching YouTube videos and reading blogs and worring
about fighting
with the hospital and doctor, and more time doing what I'm doing now: talking to people who actually live where I do and have given
birth at my hospital, who had positive
experiences.
Stewart Lewis writes
about the beginning of his parenting
experience, co-parenting
with a friend, donating, and witnessing the
birth of his daughter.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do
with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong
with THEM and clam up
about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along
with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my
experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to
birth my next two at home).
I wanted the polar opposite of my first
birth experience, which left me
with intense insecurities
about my ability to
birth, as well as a nasty yearlong struggle
with postpartum depression.
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I worked through my feelings
about my first
birth experience by writing
about it and talking through it
with my partner, but I still wanted to know what childbirth was like without drugs.
If you hear, meet or find out
about a therapist who has
experience working
with women, couples and families who have been impacted by
birth trauma, please submit the therapists name to Solace for Mothers at
[email protected].
When I decided to have a home
birth with my second, I began to get really excited
about having the
experience I was after.
If she has questions
about how your
birth plan is laid out, or if she doesn't have any
birth experience, bring her to a childbirth class
with you.
Be sure to inquire
about your doula's previous
experience with multiple
birth.
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I have been very vocal
about the bad
experience I had
with my first
birth and my huge fear of having a repeat c - section.
She stays encouraged by seeing other moms post online
about their
experiences with birth and body changes.
From her unexpected
birth experience she quickly learned that life
with twins would prove to be chaotic, and being knowledgeable
about different equipment, processes, and milestones was one way to feel in control.
Inspired by a discussion amongst the writers on Eco Child's Play
about our
births and the safety of home
births in particular, we decided to share our labor
experiences with our readers.
Colic, crying, round - the - clock wakings — is it any wonder that parents
experience high rates of depression in the first year after the
birth of a child?A study of British parents in the Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine has found that more than one - third of mothers and
about one - fifth of fathers seem to have weathered depression sometime between becoming parents and their children's 12th birthday,
with the most episodes occurring in the first year after
birth.
I was really coping big time
with the trauma I
experienced from my
birth as well as the worry
about her weight.
From a nurse bringing our client a breast pump because she saw on her
birth preferences page that she wanted to try that first to increase her contractions, to geeking out
about the benefits of TENS machines
with one of the residents, I've had many lovely
experiences supporting clients at SHC.
So I did it probably for ten, twelve sessions, and to me, the biggest benefit was just keeping me really balanced throughout the pregnancy,
with the twin pregnancy I just felt really large and things got pretty uncomfortable towards the end, so I think for me the prenatal yoga helped me just stay balanced and also really aware of my body, and I think that helped
with the
birth experience, helping me be aware of my position and my posture, so I did an unmedicated labor
with my twins as well, so I could just really think
about if I am sitting up, opening my pelvis, and be aware of that.
I say «limited
experience» because until
about a decade ago most adoptions were closed
with little to no information
about birth families for individuals who were adopted and vice versa.
How does a mama who has
experienced everything
about mommying — pregnancy,
birth, mothering —
with one child not feel guilt
about sharing such sacredness
with another?
After another friend of mine
experienced an amazing home
birth, I began talking to her more and more
about it and she encouraged me to meet
with a midwife just to discuss my options.
These benefits include but are not limited to the power of the human touch and presence, of being surrounded by supportive people of a family's own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment of home, feeling less inhibited in expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions of comfort, being intimate
with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired, expressing or practicing individual cultural, value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all of which can lead to easier labors and
births, not having to make a decision
about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use of the cascade of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned
birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include children (who are making their own adjustments and are less challenged by a lengthy absence of their parents and excessive interruptions of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and
birth experience.
There were pluses and minuses
about my
experiences and I have learned that so much to do
with my minuses has to do
with the
birth team I selected for my
births.
She is passionate
about gentle
birth for both mother and baby and her goal is to help the people that she works
with have an
experience that is respectful, safe and empowering.
There are a million reasons to be excited
about the Christmas season and getting to
experience a
birth with people like Stevi and Spencer was just the cherry on top.
Since her own very positive
experiences, she had been inundated
with enquiries from friends and through La Leche League and the Irish Childbirth Trust, and she decided that here was a need for an organisation to give information
about and promote the option of home
birth.
I can't thank you enough for your emotional support as I prepared to
birth this new little life and I so appreciated the time you took to talk
with me
about my
experience after.
When I created Midwest Mom & Wife, one of my many goals, was to share
with you my
experiences and passions
about: pregnancy,
birth, breastfeeding, babywearing, cloth diapering, co-sleeping, and attachment parenting.
I agree
with everything Stacy says above, and question how you interpret simple education, and advocacy for the poor baby who probably didn't enjoy HIS
birth experience, as «ladies who feel so negative
about birth.»
As for my specific
experience with OB / GYN care, my physician invited us to take photographs in the OR, something that is hotly contested in ORs around here during c - section
births, because she said, «If I screw up, I'm going to be worrying
about a lot more than whether you have photos and videos of it.»
Before your
birth, talk
with your husband or partner
about the kind of
experience you hope to have.
Whether you are pregnant,
about to give
birth or home
with a new baby, an
experienced doula understands your needs (both emotional and physical) and is able to support you based on those needs.
However, over the months that I was pregnant
with Baby Light Footsteps, I became very passionate
about birth and women's
birth experiences.
Many couples have an awesome
birth experience, but once baby is here, they are unsure
about how to proceed
with their little one.
Doulas use the valuable prenatal meetings to gather information
about your individual preferences, add that to their
experience with birth, and top it off
with their own intuition to offer full spectrum support for the entire team.
I also talk
about my
experiences with natural
birth, home
birth, VBAC, breastfeeding, babywearing, and gentle parenting in general.
Not only does Marijke agree
with this mom's sentiment
about allowing her child in the delivery room, but in this
birth photographer's
experience, most older siblings have a similar reaction to Nelle's: simply mesmerized and not terrified or disgusted.
She spoke
with The Stir
about her
experience, what has helped her cope in the wake of the brouhaha, and what she would say to other moms facing pushback
about the kind of
birth they want to have.
Undisturbed
birth is almost unheard of these days,
with about half of American women being artificially induced for non-medical reasons and one - third of women ending their
birth experience with surgery.
Here are some thoughts
about my two
birth experiences with our boys.
If you feel strongly
about having the opportunity to
experience skin - to - skin contact right after
birth, be sure to discuss this
with your health care providers beforehand.
I am very sad to hear
about some of the bad
experiences with hospital
births in the other comments.
Talking to other mothers
with similar
experiences can help you work through your grief
about the
birth and how it continues to impact you.
When she told her doula (who she didn't end up needing at the
birth)
about how much trouble she was having breastfeeding, she told Boss that she had
experienced similar problems
with her first child, and ended up exclusively pumping her breast milk for two years.
And I would bet that the hospital horror stories are more to do
with the womens «feelings»
about her
birth experience rather than the actual damaged / dead babies from the home
birth horror stories.
Davidson also suggests bringing up «anything specific
about your
birth plans — such as
experience with twins, home
birth, VBAC, epidurals, or inductions.»