If one of you confronts the
other about a debt problem... or one of you finally finds the courage to tell the other about the problem... Fighting with each other will only make matters worse.
I met with a married couple last week who told me that they were
embarrassed about their debt problems, and they were worried that when they met with me I would judge them for their debt.
And don't be surprise if they want to listen to
you about your debt problems and will help you by lowering monthly payments or finding other payment solutions.