Back when I wrote about my daughter's reunion with her birth father, a reader asked
about openness in adoption:
Open Adoption Creating a Family Offers information
about openness in adoption, including interviews with adoption professionals, blogs, and suggested books.
Now I know that many in the open adoption community are committed to educating
about openness in adoption.
The Changing Norms of Adoption and Donation whether we should apply what we've learned
about openness in adoption to the arena of egg, sperm and embryo donation.
Last week Executive Director Dawn Davenport and I talked
about openness in adoption via podcast.
Now I know that many in the open adoption community are committed to educating
about openness in adoption.
Not exact matches
Although it would have never been possible
in my particular
adoption circumstances, there are not teachers, doctors, role models, psychologists, etc.,
in my life who wouldn't say
openness and knowing
about my beginnings would have helped me tremendously to feel more secure and understand my place
in this world better.
Debbie, I hope you'll share some of your experiences learning
about what
openness can look like
in a foster /
adoption situation.
Talking to Your Kids
About Adoption: 11 Tips How do you help your child achieve enough openness and confidence in you and your relationship to talk about adoption issues as they a
About Adoption: 11 Tips How do you help your child achieve enough openness and confidence in you and your relationship to talk about adoption issues as the
Adoption: 11 Tips How do you help your child achieve enough
openness and confidence
in you and your relationship to talk
about adoption issues as they a
about adoption issues as the
adoption issues as they arise?
It saddens me to hear of many
adoptions having struggles because a birthmother feels lied to
about the
openness they will receive based on their conversations during pregnancy, or how an adoptive mom and birth child have been left
in the hurt of not receiving a birthday package as promised.
Despite the trend
in adoption towards
openness, we have all encountered concerns
about and arguments against open
adoption.
It was once believed that
openness in adoption would undermine adoptive parents» ability to feel entitled to parent their children, that children would be confused
about the roles and rights of their adoptive parents
in light of contact with their birth parents, that adoptive parents would lose all sense of control or that birth parents would not be able to successfully resolve their grief and loss
in reference to their decision to place their child for
adoption.
Ninety - five percent of domestic infant
adoptions in the US have some degree of
openness, so almost all adoptive parents need to think
about creating a lasting healthy relationship with their child's birth mother and birth father.
The topics covered
in this training will include:
Openness, State Laws, ICPC, ICWA, understanding the experience of expectant parents and preparing for first conversations, discipline, talking with children
about adoption, and sexual abuse.
For more information
about the potential benefits of allowing an adopted child or youth to establish or maintain connections with his or her birth family, read
Openness in Adoption: Building Relationships Between Adoptive and Birth Families, a bulletin for professionals from Child Welfare Information Gateway.
In fact, I think I'm going to make a new category in the blogroll who aren't comfortable claiming the «open adoption» label, but are practicing (and writing about) openness in adoptio
In fact, I think I'm going to make a new category
in the blogroll who aren't comfortable claiming the «open adoption» label, but are practicing (and writing about) openness in adoptio
in the blogroll who aren't comfortable claiming the «open
adoption» label, but are practicing (and writing
about)
openness in adoptio
in adoption.
However, birth parents involved
in open
adoptions generally report that
openness has helped them move on because it minimizes their anxiety
about how the child is doing.
As we wait... and wait some more... I know that however our story unfolds, your
openness about every aspect of
adoption has played a huge role
in the preparation of my heart.