But after reading through all of my favourite positive parenting resources and this highly informative research overview of resilience by Donald Meichenbaum, PhD., as well as interviewing a number of helpful friends and fellow bloggers
about things their parents said that inspired them, I found a whole list of things that you can say that can help:
We talk
about things our parents and grandparents had; the days when even line workers could afford a modest cottage «up north» or a muscle car for the weekend.
Once I'd worked out that I needed to include content
about things parents actually buy, I started to make a profit.
And so, it's just, it's an awesome way to see women connect, and they don't just sit there and talk about breastfeeding, they talk
about all things parenting; all the different things that they are going through, but it's a common bond between them.
If babies came with handbooks we had to follow, parents might get closer to being on the same page
about all things parenting.
Not exact matches
And when I say procto -
parents, I mean
parents who are totally into minding their kids» and everyone else's business, but don't know the first
thing about effective education, or how to build the kind of self - sufficient, self - starting students that we actually do need to compete in the global marketplace.
Some of his subjects were worried
about sharing
things like
parent's affections or money for college.
To turn
things around, Sweden needs students and
parents to care once more
about striving, perseverance and success.
Another great
thing all of our VAs do is really care
about the client and ask
about their kids and
parents.
«When you think
about things at scale that we do to get people to care more
about Messenger, this is one that addresses a real need for
parents,» say Facebook's head of Messenger David Marcus.
The first
thing many
parents have to do, he adds, is come to terms with whatever ambivalence they may harbor
about their offspring's leaving home for good.
Funny
thing is, when I was really young, maybe 30 years ago, that was around the time when my
parents generation were talking
about retirement.
Weren't
things a lot easier when you had other
parents to talk with
about diapers and being up in the middle of the night.
Many young adults in their 20s and early 30s could teach their
parents a
thing or two
about money.
Have you ever 2Timothy3: 1 - 5 It speak
about in the last day critical time hard to deal with will be here.2 men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money,self - assuming, haughty, blasphemers, disobedient to
parents, unthankful, disloyal, 3 having no natural affection, not open to any agreement, slanderers, without self control, fierce, without love of goodness, 4 betrayers, headstrong, puffed up with pride, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of god, 5 having a form of godly devotion but proving false to its power, and from these turn away.God speak of these
thing occurring in our day.
I believe on the same
things about the meaning of life and I am very thankful to my
parents who taught me to love and forgive.
Can one person out there who is ranting
about abortion honestly tell me they have done one
thing to help a single
parent?
In college, I was an English major, wasting my
parent's tuition money learning how to read, and then learning how to say worthless
things about what I'd read.
The greatest confusion of American
parents: they believe they teach their children truths
about those
things as gods when it is at best an indoctrination of unknowable mysteries.
I think this is the hard
thing about parenting — okay, who am I kidding?
The great
thing about being an adult is getting out from under your
parent's and the church's rule and start making decisions for yourself.
I'm not married not have I ever been but I take what may
parents had as being «best friends» a good way to go
about things.
«You're not like those people» — For many
parents, the only
thing they know
about homosexuality is what they know from gay pride parades or stories of lewd, immoral behavior.
There's a lot worse
things parents teach their kids that we need to be worried
about.
This causes all sorts of worry for
parents, who already have far more than their share of
things to worry
about when it comes to their children's futures, that their children won't become saved and will be excluded from heaven.
These young people can say to their
parents, «See, we're not strange because we care
about these
things.
we live, some of us acquire cancer through DNA replication from our
parents (BRCA I believe the gene is in breast cancer) and some of us have our DNA get a bit askew, some of us incur it through environmental causes (thru smoking or on the job causes) it would be nice to sit at the right hand of a superflyguy and chat
about things ad foreverum..
So, your vision of God is the ultimate helicopter
parent???!!! What
about that free will
thing?
Just like we talk to
parents about disciplining and making clear the boundaries to their children — it's the very same
thing.
That is an odd
thing to say
about a Church that donates millions of dollars in medical and relief supplies to several different areas of the world for assistance after natural disasters, and that puts so much emphasis on strong marriage, dedicated
parenting, forgiveness, and striving to be like Christ.
and also if i have and your answer is yes then if there is a way to get the holy spirit back then please tell me and also please pray for me for a few days and i also want to know that really is the unforgivable sin unforgivable and really i swear on my mother that i don't want to go to hell forever and i am very scared of it please help me urgent and also i am sending a friend request to you on facebook and please accept it so that we can talk on this matter together and also i think you will like my page and i couldn't sleep properly because of this and in my half sleep in my dreams i was just visiting your website and finding my comment missing and i as pleasing god and the holy spirit but as i was receiving my spirit again and again as i mentioned this in my previous comment i was abusing in my mind i couldn't stop abusing and i have a very good mother she tried to wake me but i told her not to do and it was happening same
things again and again and i told my mother again the half truth because i don't want to break her heart and she told me that there is nothing like ghosts and they are making me fools (you all) and i am telling you honestly before this i irritate my mother a lot i just watch tv and surf the internet or play games in my pc and i eat and brush late and also don't listen to my
parents but after i saw your website i became obedient for a few days and again the same i am disobedient your webpage or article ruined my life but this is not your fault and now days i am buy searching
about this topic and my father (Vivek Saraf) broke his hands on the 6th May while riding at a very high speed he normally don't go at a very high speed but he had a very important work so whole he was riding a dog was running on the way and to save his life he gave a very hard brake and he with his nebiour fall down and got injuries in his legs and broke his hands and at first he walked with difficulty and then the local people helped him on his way and took him to the local hospital but the doctor told that we need to go to Kollkata (the capital of west bengal, India) and so he went with his loyal staff because he is a business man and in the hospital he got cured but he still have the fracture in his hands so i request you to pray for him and his negibour also and i will tell you the rest in facebook bye and sorry for spelling mistakes in my previous comments.
Do we have anything to say to «Christian»
parents who are
about to or already have thrown out their kids because they're gay, on drugs, having sex or doing other
things the
parents do not accept?
After all that I forgot even what I thought I did in the first place, And I tell myself that if I am doing all of that then I care
about it, and then I think
about it and that it's possible to just go on with my life without stressing
about all of this... and then when I die I'll go to hell and burn forever... and then at the same time I don't want to constantly freak out
about it and live my entire life in fear of going to hell... My
Parents are Atheists and say that I should just live my life without worrying
about it and being nice to people and being an overall good person, and I'm not old enough to go to church, so I just repent quietly in my room, Perhaps when I was younger I have sworn to god on
things that may or may not have been true, and then I repeat those
things in my head, and I would get scared.
If there's one
thing I've learned over this past decade of
parenting, it's that questions
about religion demand my attention, and all the more so if they inadvertently reference a history of discrimination.
But usually they mean that you won't ever sleep in again (you won't) and a few other
things about how much we «give up» to become
parents.
It's probably the prairie kid
thing, combined with the evangelical - mutt
thing, but when acedia slinks into my soul, spreading into every corner of my life with an ooze, when my mind is fuzzy and apathetic, when I'm listless and worn out, burned out, on religion and
parenting and marriage and family and everything
about my life, I get to the daily, methodical, healing goodness of real work.
They were considering sending their daughter to the Christian girls» school, and were asking
about the plumbing and the fans — the sort of
things parents of boarding - school children fret
about.
Essentially, this is a set of sexual Geneva conventions: You never knew it, but not only do you have the right to minimal standards of treatment if you ever become a prisoner of war, but when you were five, you had the right to learn at school all kinds of
things about what some people like to do in bed, and if your
parents thought that really they'd rather you didn't hear
about that stuff at school, or at least not yet, they were... well, they were violating your rights.
If there is a god (and I am truly skeptical
about that) then I believe he / she / it, being the loving
parent, will take into account that all I did on earth was use my brain logic and reasoning (all
things that were provided to me by this god) to NOT follow the words of man.
«This means that they have been told how to feel and what to think
about themselves by psychologists who are paid by their
parents to make the whole
thing work out as painlessly for the
parents as possible.
I was tempted at first to give maybe a 10 point list of advice for
parents going through deconstruction in front of their kids...
things like let them see the books you read and answer their curiosities
about them; teach your kids how to think, not how to believe; tell them everything you're going through and let them deal with what it means for them; ask them what they believe and listen objectively and engage in conversation
about it; openly share your struggles with what you're going through with the church and let them process it themselves, and so on.
When my
parents caught me having s - ex around 14 with my girlfriend who was raised in a born - again Christian household, they lectured me
about this, that and the other
thing.
Have you ever wondered
about your life maybe there are
things that caused you pain like
parents that didn't really care or family situations that aren't the best or life is just not turning out like you thought it would.
I mean, according to Scripture, it is the
parent's responsibility to raise up their children and teach them
about God, but our modern way of doing church relinquishes these
things to 45 minutes on Sunday morning and Wednesday night, in a building with a (generally) controlled environment, and to a person we don't really know.
Many
things in this story seem like coincidences: that I happened to get interested in James Joyce and ask my Catholic friend about chasubles; that I and my boyfriend Steve, now my husband, happened to meet the same Polish Capuchin in little Broken Arrow; that the priest who prepared us for marriage ten years later happened to be a Polish Dominican from the priory in which the Krakow seminar was held; that Prof. Russell Hittinger happened to come to Tulsa, which led me to Poland and to First Things, all of which played a part in bringing my parents into the C
things in this story seem like coincidences: that I happened to get interested in James Joyce and ask my Catholic friend
about chasubles; that I and my boyfriend Steve, now my husband, happened to meet the same Polish Capuchin in little Broken Arrow; that the priest who prepared us for marriage ten years later happened to be a Polish Dominican from the priory in which the Krakow seminar was held; that Prof. Russell Hittinger happened to come to Tulsa, which led me to Poland and to First
Things, all of which played a part in bringing my parents into the C
Things, all of which played a part in bringing my
parents into the Church.
does «biblical christianity» still require us to stone to death those who work on the sabbath, commit adultery, curse their
parents, worship gods other than yahweh, etc etc or did jesus change his mind
about those
things after his «virgin birth»?
Kids take their cues from adults on how to feel
about these
things and see their
parents reactions.
Even though millennials feel more open to
things like pre-marital sex and same - sex marriage than their older siblings and
parents and grandparents, they still feel conflicted
about abortion.»
As more
parents express concerns
about the consumerist and hedonistic youth culture that their children are exposed to in mass media, they naturally favor schools that filter out its worst elements and focus young minds on worthier
things.
Have read many stories
about children killing their
parents sisters brother in the same way as in the game specially that ice hooky
thing... killing people with to score points and sure drugs with such games are behind most crimes...