UKIP leader Nigel Farage has defended remarks he made
about women breastfeeding in public places.
You may be thinking what do these crazy mothers at Natural Parenting Advice know
about women breastfeeding in public if they don't do it very often?
This doesn't mean that we schedule our day so that we are making a point
about women breastfeeding in public.
Not exact matches
According to the National Conference of State Legislatures, there are
about 45 states that have laws that specifically allow
women to
breastfeed in public.
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to
breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty»,
women getting «the look» for nursing
in public, or feeling weird
about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to
breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not
in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
So I'm not cool with touting this photo as a celebration that
breastfeeding has «made it» - I am happy
about all the conversations I see around it
about the way
women in non-glamorous situations feel
about breastfeeding in public and photos of
breastfeeding publicly displayed.
I was actually surprised to read, considering all of the negative stories that we hear
about breastfeeding, that almost 70 % of British people feel that
women should be able to
breastfeed anywhere
in public, even bars and restaurants.
See, it's not so much
about a
woman's right to
breastfeed in public or her supposed «need» to expose herself.
Maybe you could
breastfeed in public, share your
breastfeeding story on our site (like many mothers already have), wear clothing that promotes
breastfeeding, talk
about it to
women who are currently pregnant or attend
breastfeeding support groups to help
breastfeeding mums who are finding it difficult.
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In the UK these barriers include the difficulty some women encounter when breastfeeding in public, widespread misleading marketing that formula is equivalent to breastfeeding, a lack of high quality services to prevent and treat any problems if they arise, a lack of community support, a lack of education about breastfeeding for young children, and lack of support for women to breastfeed in the workplac
In the UK these barriers include the difficulty some
women encounter when
breastfeeding in public, widespread misleading marketing that formula is equivalent to breastfeeding, a lack of high quality services to prevent and treat any problems if they arise, a lack of community support, a lack of education about breastfeeding for young children, and lack of support for women to breastfeed in the workplac
in public, widespread misleading marketing that formula is equivalent to
breastfeeding, a lack of high quality services to prevent and treat any problems if they arise, a lack of community support, a lack of education
about breastfeeding for young children, and lack of support for
women to
breastfeed in the workplac
in the workplace.
Women breastfeeding in public have a wonderful opportunity to educate others
about the importance of
breastfeeding.
So she was out
in public with her eight week old son and it says that she was at a cafe and she happened to be
breastfeeding her baby and it says an elderly
women,
in not sure if it actually lists her name or sorry her age, but anyway this elderly
women comes up to her and honestly the mom was like «oh no, she's going to tell me to cover up, she's going to be like, be mean
about this or you know or how dare I be, you know doing this
in public kind of thing» and the only thing the elderly wanted to do was to help the mom be able to eat.
That's fantastic, I think we talk a lot
about normalizing
breastfeeding, and the more
women we see
breastfeeding in public, the more other
women will be inspired, and feel confident to do it as well.
I think
women are becoming more comfortable
in telling others that they are still nursing older babies so hopefully there will be a shift
in attitudes but I have recently «lost» a few facebook followers after posting a status regarding full - term
breastfeeding (I think they were most likely from a giveaway I did ages ago and not on the same page re: bf etc) Apart from that, I love telling Mums on the ward (I'm a bf peer supporter) I'm still feeding as it opens their mind to that possibility and I think I look pretty normal so it mostly doesn't freak them out My son is far too busy to nurse out and
about and prefers juice so we've not nursed
in public (apart from support group) since he was 18 mths and that was as I had a blocked duct!
As shown
in both quantitative and qualitative studies, the perception of breasts as sexual objects may lead
women to feel uncomfortable
about breastfeeding in public.
Now she's an inspiring
breastfeeding mother around the world where
women seek support to help them normalize
breastfeeding in public and she also talks
about practicing gentle parenting.
Plus, whether you nurse
in front of your own kids or not shapes what they think
about seeing
women breastfeed in public, so I'd say the problems start at home on this one.
While out with her baby and husband, a
woman noticed a mother
breastfeeding her baby
in a
public park, nothing illegal
about that, but this mother found it offensive as it was a
public space and her husband was easily distracted by the sight.
Is there some kind of fear that if we start accepting
breastfeeding in public without freaking out
about covering up,
women will eventually start walking around bare - breasted all the time?
Often when I post
about a
woman who has been harassed while
breastfeeding in public or a blog post advocating for the fair treatment of
breastfeeding women I see comments such as these:
For every story out there
about a
woman being shamed for
breastfeeding in public, there is a person who insists they don't have a problem with it, yet follows that statement with «but why can't she just cover up?»
Despite laws that protect
women's right to
breastfeed in public, there are frequent press stories
about women being advised against
breastfeeding or humiliated
in public for
breastfeeding.
These include: cultural beliefs and pressures (e.g. anxiety
about breastfeeding in public, beliefs
about adequacy of milk supply); lack of availability of trained support; legislation to protect
women who are
breastfeeding; and commercial pressures from marketing and advertising of formula by manufacturers (Save the Children 2013).
Some
women may feel uncomfortable and embarrassed
about breastfeeding around others or
in public.
That might be the first place I
breastfeed in public as we asked questions, I was sitting there waiting and like I don't know why, though they must be ready to go [laughs] and so am sitting there and I had my baby and was he probably 5 weeks old and
in my head I was like saying, «I should have been here sooner, I should have been here sooner», [laughs] which is irrelevant but that what's goes through your head and then I was like I guess I just do it and it was the meanest thing because I'm sitting on the floor with my baby and I didn't have to use the cover and I was just so «Oh, you just have to do it like
in a room full of
women» and everybody is
in just as uncomfortable and everybody is trying to make this dance work and trying to get a rhythm and they needed this thing to be able to do and I would imagine for me it was a good transition to being
in publicand not to worry
about the cover but also for
women like ok, this is your group for example.
Some barriers include the negative attitudes of
women and their partners and family members, as well as health care professionals, toward
breastfeeding, whereas the main reasons that
women do not start or give up
breastfeeding are reported to be poor family and social support, perceived milk insufficiency, breast problems, maternal or infant illness, and return to outside employment.2 Several strategies have been used to promote
breastfeeding, such as setting standards for maternity services3, 4 (eg, the joint World Health Organization — United Nations Children's Fund [WHO - UNICEF] Baby Friendly Initiative),
public education through media campaigns, and health professionals and peer - led initiatives to support individual mothers.5 — 9 Support from the infant's father through active participation
in the
breastfeeding decision, together with a positive attitude and knowledge
about the benefits of
breastfeeding, has been shown to have a strong influence on the initiation and duration of
breastfeeding in observational studies, 2,10 but scientific evidence is not available as to whether training fathers to manage the most common lactation difficulties can enhance
breastfeeding rates.
Every time I hear
about another case of a
woman breastfeeding her baby
in a restaurant, department store or on a plane who is asked to cover up, head to the bathroom or leave altogether, I wonder why
in 2014 we remain so incredibly uncomfortable with
breastfeeding in public.
Public health nurses and social workers provided
in - home education and health care to
women and children, primarily
in poor urban environments.3 4 At the beginning of the 20th century, the New York City Health Department implemented a home visitor program, using student nurses to instruct mothers
about breastfeeding and hygiene.