Making allegations of
abuse against the other parent is also child abuse.
Furthermore, for a narcissistic / (borderline) parent to induce or elicit from a child false allegations of sexual
abuse against the other parent represents extremely distorted parenting that rises to the level of severe psychological abuse of the child.
Not exact matches
(i) a woman's right to an abortion; (iii) medical immunization of teen girls (and boys)
against HPV; (iv) assisted suicide; (vi) gay marriage; (vii) my right to view art and theatre deemed «offensive,» «blasphemous» or «obscene» Catholics; (viii) basic $ ex education for older school children; (ix) treating drug
abuse as principally a medical issue; (x) population control; (xi) buying alcohol on a Sunday in many places; (xii) use of condoms and
other contraceptives; (xiii) embryonic stem cell research; (xiv) little 10 year - old boys joining organizations such as the Boy Scouts of America, regardless of the religious views of their
parents; and (xv) gays being allowed to serve openly in the military.
Now I have my own children and like any
other parent, I hope and pray they will never have to live through the experience of physical
abuse, but I also hope that if they ever do, I'll have provided them the right kind of tools and language for them to feel confident in stepping forward and standing up
against rape culture.
If you're afraid of the
other parent, or if you're seeking or have a 209A
abuse prevention order (restraining order)
against the
other parent, you don't have to meet in the same room as the
other parent.
But in many cases one party — usually the one who is feeling most vindictive or who has tried to turn the children
against the
other parent — makes completely false and unsubstantiated claims of
abuse as a way to «game the system.»
In light of the allegations made
against SeaWorld in the wake of «Blackfish,» the opening moments of Episode 3 obliterated all
other interpretations, efficiently and effectively establishing how
parents paying for their children to watch
abused animals perform is pretty damn similar to grown men throwing dollar bills for grown women to scoop up from their knees.
Incidents in
other settings tell us that where there is verbal
abuse going unchecked, so there will follow physical violence, and there can be little doubt that an aggrieved
parent is going to take his / her frustrations out one day on an administrator and the administrator will claim damages
against her employer for failing to provide a safe working environment.
Generally speaking, termination of parental rights if fairly rare, and only imposed in the most extreme cases, for example, where a
parent has subjected a child to severe
abuse, including abandonment, torture, chronic
abuse, or sexual
abuse, or has committed similar acts
against the
other parent.
Parental alienation syndrome occurs when a
parent emotionally manipulates a child into turning
against his or her
other parent, in the absence of
abuse or neglect.
There are
other legal options that a
parent or guardian can apply for to help protect
against abuse, such as emergency protection orders and peace bonds.
Parents who are falsely accused of child
abuse may want to consider monetary sanctions
against the
other parent as well as primary custody and even sole legal custody.
Parent's don't realize that if they make false accusations against the other parent, the parent making that accusation is abusing his or her own
Parent's don't realize that if they make false accusations
against the
other parent, the parent making that accusation is abusing his or her own
parent, the
parent making that accusation is abusing his or her own
parent making that accusation is
abusing his or her own child.
[¶](b) Any history of
abuse by one
parent against the child or
against the
other parent... [¶](c) The nature and amount of contact with both
parents.»
Some definitions of physical
abuse do not include perpetrator intent;
others reflect motive rather than injury type.3 Additionally, definitions of physical
abuse are culturally determined, and what is considered abusive in one society may not be in another.4, 5 In many societies, physical violence
against children as a method of punishment is endorsed by
parents, sanctioned by societal institutions (such as schools) and allowed by law.
Parental alienation syndrome occurs when a
parent emotionally manipulates a child into turning
against his or her
other parent, in the absence of
abuse or neglect.
The damage to children of a system that incentivises the coaching of children by an alienating
parent to make false allegations
against the
other parent, is greater than the damage that would be inflicted by allowing a fair system of tested evidence, or a system that risked occasional child
abuse.
When a court is asked to make consent orders which would result in a child spending time with a
parent or
other person
against whom allegations of family violence or child
abuse have been made, the parties to the proposed orders must provide an explanation of how the order attempts to deal with those allegations?
Parental alienation is simply defined as a form of psychological
abuse where one
parent brainwashes or poisons a child or children
against the
other parent.
These factors include the child = s sibling relationships, the preference of the child, the attempts of one
parent to turn the child
against the
other parent, any history of drug or alcohol
abuse, and any
other relevant factors.
Court filings quickly fill with mutual accusations by one
parent against the
other, including sexual, physical, and emotional
abuse, brain - washing, parental alienation syndrome, sabotage, and manipulation.
In reality, one or the
other or both could be true and in some cases both are perpetrated by the same person, who
abuses the
other parent and also engages in alienating behavior
against that
parent.
I also am concerned that creating a law
against mentioning «alienation theories» will create a presumption that alienation never occurs — and that a child's resistance must be caused by
abuse or
other poor
parenting behavior by the rejected
parent.
Other adolescents in my clinical practice have threatened their
parents with filing false child
abuse allegations
against the
parent if the
parent did not capitulate to the child's demands in some area.
Its really hard to discuss this anywhere without hearing «Oh your just trying to turn him
against his mother» I know that happens alot and i know men and women are both guilty of it but in fact i had never heard of the term «parental alienation syndrome» until a couple days ago, i was actually starting to think based on everyones reaction when i brought up my feelings that it was all in my head and even my son told me i was dillusional right before he stopped talking to me and cut all contact.His mother moved him away to another state when he was 4 basically without more than a few days noticed after i had relocated closer to him to spend more time together, there was no history of
abuse and i was paying support so that was a red flag anyway but hes 29 now and i feel like ive pretty much lost him forever.im in another location i moved to be able to see him more after my
parents died in 2008 (about a month apart) but that has turned into a disaster since he no longer wants contact.He has a half brother here by myself and my present wife but my youngest son is mentally disabled and unable to take care of himself, myself and my 2 sons are all that is left of my family i have no
other relatives anymore and i feel horrible for anyone else who has to go through this.
They have
abused their powerful position by influencing the young children and turning them
against the
other parent.
assess whether the physical and emotional safety of the child and the person alleging the family violence or
abuse can be secured before, during and after any contact the child has with the
parent or
other person
against whom the allegations are made
Shared
parenting assumes that both
parents will be awarded joint custody, unless
other factors (proven
abuse or domestic violence) weigh
against it.
Evidence of
abuse by a party
against: the
other parent of the party's child; the party's spouse; or any child residing within the party's household (including a child
other than the child who is the subject of the custody or visitation proceeding) may be considered as a factor bearing on the welfare and best interests of the child.
According to PAS theory, if a
parent (usually mom) accuses the
other (usually dad) of sexual
abuse, this «turns the child
against the father,» hence, mom's «influence over the child should be halted.»
Now let's compound this problem by letting PA's to continue to further
ABUSE their children by making them pick sides, by allowing a
parent to turn them
against the
other or depriving them of the love and support that
parent can bring to their life.