According to Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., psychiatrist
and leading expert on trauma
and how it affects the brain, as many as 80 % of
abused and neglected infants
and children develop disorganized / disoriented attachment relationships, which are expressed as unpredictable approach
and avoidance patterns towards mother, the inability to
accept comfort from caregivers, rage at attachment figures,
and pathological self - regulatory behaviors.
On a completely unrelated note, there are supportive online communities
and then there are echo chambers of lunacy, where members appear unable to spot actual
neglect and child abuse, but get all het up about safe,
accepted and necessary standard medical care.