From using
positive adoption language to understanding the rights of everyone involved, birth and adoptive families benefit when hospital social workers, nurses and other staff are prepared for working in adoption.
* Provide an «adoption and educators» guide that addresses
positive adoption language, tough assignments, etc. before there is a problem.
Don't start your adoption journey until you've: recognized it isn't about you, began educating yourself with the
appropriate adoption language, found families who have adopted, and immersed yourself in different cultures.
Although many organizations, social workers and authors have complied lists and charts like this one of
positive adoption language, they should be used as a guide and not a rule book.
I'm pretty new at
this adoption language thing, and hoped I'd have more articles from AF read by now and the book I bought about talking to young children about adoption read by now... sigh.
Adoption language is complicated, to be sure, and even talking about the various birth parents and adoptive parents can get tricky quickly.
During the time before we had much of a voice - when we were still shamed into silence - the «positive
adoption language» people moved in for the kill and stole what rightfully belongs to us and every other woman who has given birth: the titles of «mother,» «mom,» «natural mother,» and «real mother.»
Positive
adoption language is a way to convey respect for birthparents and adoptive parents during the adoption process.
Here is a list compiled by the Texas Adoption Resource Exchange that does a good job providing many examples of positive
adoption language:
The importance of positive
adoption language has grown to convey respect for birth parents, adoptees and adoptive parents.
Adoption language has evolved drastically over the decades.
Phrases with «adoption language»