Not exact matches
I think that
children who are
spanked are more likely to grow up into
adults that
spank because of the argument, «I got
spanked and I turned out OK.»
Caregivers (parents or any
adults) may also
spank a
child when, after being disciplined using another method, deliberately repeat the same behavior, as if to antagonize the parent.
Spanking has been associated with associated with
child abuse victimization, poor self - esteem, impaired parent -
child relationships, and
child and
adult mental health and substance abuse.
Perhaps they may elect to breastfeed or bottlenurse; babywear; or cosleep safely (not necessarily in the
adult bed) to get more sleep; and at least nurture their
child without
spanking or shaming; and respond with sensitivity most of the time.
April 28, 2016 - UPDATE ON WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU HIT YOUR KIDS: Fifty years of research involving over 160,000
children shows unequivocally that
spanking is not only ineffective as a form of discipline, but is detrimental to the mental health of
children and
adults.
Presumably many teenagers and some
adult children still need to be set straight by their parents, so why not turn them over your knee and give them a good
spank?
I am assuming you did not
spank your teenagers or
adult children when they did something against your wishes.
Children who are spanked as kids are more likely to be physically aggressive with other kids, and as adults, are more likely to use violence to deal with conflict their spouses or their own c
Children who are
spanked as kids are more likely to be physically aggressive with other kids, and as
adults, are more likely to use violence to deal with conflict their spouses or their own
childrenchildren.
Spanking children is also believed to increase their risk of becoming
adults who are aggressive, antisocial, and who abuse their own spouse and
children.
Despite the art connection, the town of Marfa, located just 68 miles from the Mexican border, is a bastion of conservatism, with 11 o'clock curfews for young
adults,
spanking of
children in schools, rampant racial suspicion between Whites and Latinos, and police surveillance.
Unfortunately, the Authoritarian Parenting Style has some great lessons for kids to learn — like respecting authority, complying with the directions given to them by safe
adults, and having a strong work ethic — but since the only lesson is «do as I say or get
spanked» the
child isn't learning how or why to respect authority, comply with
adult directions, or to develop a strong work ethic.
According to Dr. Gottman, past research studies have shown that «
spanking teaches, by example, that aggression is an appropriate way to get what you want... [and that it] can have a long term impact as well,» and that
spanked children, «as teenagers... are more likely to hit their parents... as
adults more likely to be violent and tolerate violence in their relationships,» and that «interestingly, studies of parents who have been trained in other methods of
child discipline show that once they find effective alternatives, they drop the
spanking.»
Adults who received
spankings as
children were more likely to display antisocial behavior and to have mental health than their peers who were raised in non-spanking homes, the meta - analysis found.