Many
alienated parents come to Gene C. Colman Family Law Centre feeling hopeless with nowhere to turn after they have been denied child access.
They can appear normal UNTIL THE SUBJECT OF
THE ALIENATED PARENT COMES UP.
Not exact matches
«With this particular [New Dad] project we found that [fathers and mothers] seem to be
coming from the same place — young
parents tended to feel quite hesitant and
alienated at children's centres and I think some of the fears and concerns that young dads have about how they are treated and engaged, were shared by young mums, so there was a bit of common ground there.
Although it had
come out with statements supporting breastfeeding in the past, the organization had been cautious not to
alienate the
parents it served.
The comments
came as the three hopefuls worked to one - up each others» criticism of Bloomberg's record on education, which they said had
alienated parents and punished kids.
Children moving between their
parents» homes can display the following behaviors and these are not necessarily an indication that they are becoming
alienated or are
coming from an
alienating parent's home.
In Borrowed Scenarios the same vocabulary is heard from different members of the family; the same arguments
coming from the child as are heard from the
alienating parent.
Despite her background she
came up empty without anyone to turn to when she became an
alienated parent.
How
alienated parents cope can then be used against them by the other
parents (e.g., «your mom / dad doesn't care about you because they did not
come to your school concert»).
Keep in mind that the
alienating parent often
comes across as more «together» than the falsely maligned targeted
parent.
When the report
comes back and if it shows the mother was complicit in
alienating the child from me — the report will have recommendations on how to fix it including reducing
parenting time for the offender, changing custody or removing all contact for the
alienating parent.....
Sadly, if
alienated children
come to this understanding, it is usually much later in their life and after the
alienating parent has died and can no longer be a threat to them.
Therefore,
alienating parents often intentionally schedule children's activities on the other
parent's weekend (e.g., «Susie can not
come see you this weekend because she has a Girl Scout event»).
Although all of the adult children had
come to realize that they had been
alienated from one
parent by the other, the length of time they had been
alienated and the age of awareness varied.
Once these tests have been performed the
alienated parent can then take the results to a judge who will make a decision as to what
comes next.
They would go for visitation and they would
come home and the
alienating parent would be angry.
Of all the stories I
come across, while each may have different nuances all in all,
alienated parents report the same problems.
The
alienating or also known as favored
parents, do
come across as «sane»
parents.
If for resolution to occur, one has to expect the
alienating parent to
come clean, in most cases it will never happen, as the alienation is a conscious plan to destroy the other
parent through the child, and no feelings
come into play for anybody.