Certainly too, it is impossible to co-parent with the other parent because in these situations,
the alienating parent refuses to work amicably.
Far too many of these «professionals» do not see
the alienating parent refusing to co-operate and actually brainwashing the children against the targeted parent and their family.
Not exact matches
As an analogy, what if a favored (
alienating)
parent had a highly contagious infectious disease and
refused medical treatment that could cure them.
The
alienating parent may
refuse to deliver children to the other
parent or have conflicting events during the other
parent's
parenting time.
What would be more draconian, infect the child or keep the
parent away from the child because they
refused to change their
alienating ways?
Research has shown that many
alienated children can transform quickly from
refusing or staunchly resisting the rejected
parent to being able to show and receive love from that
parent, followed by an equally swift shift back to the
alienated position when back in the orbit of the
alienating parent;
alienated children seem to have a secret wish for someone to call their bluff, compelling them to reconnect with the
parent they claim to hate.
Children who have undergone forced separation from one of their
parents in the absence of abuse, including cases of parental alienation, are highly subject to post-traumatic stress, and reunification efforts in these cases should proceed carefully and with sensitivity (research has shown that many
alienated children can transform quickly from
refusing or staunchly resisting the rejected
parent to being able to show and receive love from that
parent, followed by an equally swift shift back to the
alienated position when back in the orbit of the
alienating parent;
alienated children seem to have a secret wish for someone to call their bluff, compelling them to reconnect with the
parent they claim to hate).
At any time during or after the divorce process a child can become estranged or
alienated from one
parent and may
refuse to have contact with that
parent.
You might be a distressed and an
alienated parent if your ex-partner
refuses to co-
parent and constantly belittles you to your child.
Parents that
alienate refuse to follow court orders and
parenting plans — they get away with it because they can.
It does not do target
parents justice to «equally» blame them (or also called rejected
parents) given the fact that target
parents obeys court orders, attends his or her child's functions, loves the child etc. while the other
parent, the
alienating parent, ignores court orders,
refuses to participate in parental duties,
refuses counseling, chronically bad - mouths within in an ear shot of the child, and in some cases — flees the state or country.
With an older child (ages 11 - 16) who
refuses visits with the
alienated parent, Gardner suggested finding the child in contempt of court.
Janet R. Johnston: «Children of Divorce Who Reject a
Parent and
Refuse Visitation: Recent Research and Social Policy Implications for the
Alienated Child».
Gardner (2002) pointed out, «when true parental abuse and / or neglect is present the child's animosity may be justified, and so the parental alienation syndrome diagnosis is not applicable» Johnston (2001) is right that it is «critical to differentiate the
alienated child (who persistently
refuses and rejects visitation because of unreasonable negative views and feelings) from other children who also resist contact with a
parent after separation.
Parents that participate in
alienating behaviors
refuse to follow decrees and
parenting plans.