Curiously, there is a great commonality among these cases in terms of the tactics
alienators use to separate a parent from his or her children.
The tactics
alienators use are like they are following a playbook.
Another key feature of alienation cases is that
the alienator uses delay tactics.
Not exact matches
Sadly, there are even more severe and undermining tactics
used by the
alienator, these include false allegations of mental, physical and / or sexual abuse towards themselves or their children.
Most parents would not mis -
use their charismatic relationship with their children but the
alienator most likely has a personality disorder that enables them to
use the children to successfully avenge their perceived mistreatment by the targeted parent.
The threat of punishment for the
alienator must be supported by punishment, including removing the child from mother's care to a neutral place or to the alienated parent, and to
use incarceration when necessary.
This can counteract the many contradictions that the
alienator has
used to confound his victims and remove their sense of control or understanding.
Alienators attempt to mislead evaluators,
using deceitful accusation tactics to deflect intervention.
For simplicity of presentation, then, I have often
used the term mother to refer to the
alienator, and the term father to refer to the alienated parent.