Although the right wing media has deliberately exaggerated cases I have
always felt we need more decentralised welfare were we are closer to the people and issues and can try to turn people's lives around
without the big stick (economic
violence s the last resort f an exhausted mind).
In fact, a relationship
without boundaries will almost
always have other symptoms:
violence, emotional arguments, infidelity, addiction, emotional cutoffs, or debilitating enabling.