Since you want the 8
AM waketime, that is why I would go for the dreamfeed first.
Our schedule is: 6
am waketime and feeding, back to sleep until about 8:30 9:15 feeding 12:30 feeding 3:45 feeding 7:00 feeding and bedtime I put him on a 3 hr 15 min schedule to that I could have his bedtime at 7 pm
8
am waketime: nurse 9:30 - 11 / 11:30: nap 1 11:30: nurse 1pm - 2:30: nap 2 2:30 nurse 3:45 - 4:30: nap 3 4:45: nurse «snack» 6:30 / 6:45 bottle of formula * very very hungry at this feeding (I pump a little later to build a stash) 7 pm bedtime 11:15 pm I wake him for DF 5:30 am he wakes to nurse (eats for a good 15 minutes) 8
am waketime (sometimes I wake him sometimes he's up 7:30 - hard to say) How do I start?
How
is your waketime length?
Not exact matches
I know she knows how to transition it just seems like she may
be up too long during her
waketime.
There
are some posts on extending
waketime.
Typically, if a baby
is not crying in bed but takes a long time to fall asleep, I say the baby needs a longer
waketime length, BUT 60 minutes seems plenty long enough for a 3 week old.
For more information, see the blog index under «
waketime» Your dreamfeed should
be happening at 10 PM.
He also still has a very short
waketime during the day, yawning after
being awake only 30 to 35 min.
I
'm concerned about cutting out his
waketime activities such as tummy time, but I really want him to learn to nap.
Well this week he has
been waking 1 - 2 hrs early that 7a (our desired
waketime).
- MidMorning - 10
am - Afternoon - 1 pm - Midafternoon - 4 pm - Late afternoon - 7 pm - Early evening - 10 pm (sounds awfully late for an «early evening» feeding); this one even says possible
waketime, but how
is that possible?
Here
's how it goes: - Early morning (includes
waketime)- if we start our day at 7
am, isn't that this feeding?
Do I need
waketime after her last feeding of the day or
is it okay to reverse her bath and feeding so that she has a bath and then nurses right before I put her in bed?
I also kept up the dreamfeed longer than he probably needed it and added a 1:30
am pumping (he had
been STTN for a couple months) and woke him to feed him at 5:00
am (normal morning
waketime is 8:00).
My concern
is that she
's not really getting much
waketime since she
is nursing for so much of it.
For the older baby, it would
be from DF to morning
waketime — meaning no night feedings.
Often times, crying
is related to
waketime length.
His
waketime is roughly an hour... give or take five minutes... and so far (fingers crossed) his naps have
been uninterrupted and a consistent 2 hours.
And Jennifer
was correct;
waketime includes feeding time (Thanks Jennifer!)
I
'm not sure there
is anything that I can do about this excessive long wake time window of fuzzing action since he usually has a big bowl movement around 2:00 a.m. I
'm only guessing his bowl movement
is what keeps him up for 3 hours, but who knows it might
be do to my poor
waketime strategy during the day.
But with about 60 minutes of
waketime plus at least a 45 - 60 minute nap, he should
be able to go two hours.
Some mornings he will sleep until 6:30 and eat and fall back asleep until our
waketime at 8, but then he won't eat again at 8 so he
is missing one whole feeding and doing fine.
Do you have any suggestions for keeping baby happy in the 1 1/2 hours of
waketime we
are having between the last nap and her 7 p.m. feeding?
He usually sleeps 7 - 8 hours, so wakes up around 2:30 - 4
am for his next feed, then usually sleeps till his
waketime of 7
am.
A young baby may only
be able to do 45 minutes of
waketime — including feeding.
Sometimes that
is all you need to get baby closer to your desired
waketime.
should I let her cry it out at 4 and see if she can make it till 630 or by feeding her at 4
am I making that our
waketime?
She might eat better if she had a four hour schedule, but to do that you would want to try to fix the early waking, or wait until her
waketime can
be longer.
I have a 2 and a half week baby boy and I
am having difficulties planning out a
waketime strategy.
If nothing has changed,
is there something that should change (like
waketime length
being longer or feedings
being spread out).
Jessica, Her
waketime lengths don't have to
be a certain length necessarily.
He has recently started waking in the middle of the night and fussing for about 5 minutes every 30 minutes from 3
am until his
waketime at 6
am, and I think it
is because he
is hungry from dropping all those calories and not replacing them with food.
His
waketime is about 1 hour, including feeding time, and this means a 2 1/2 hour nap if he goes 3.5 hours between feedings.
No extra
waketime for the night feedings — start with the 6
AM feeding.
Included
is an explanation of the three basic elements of daytime activities for newborns: feeding time,
waketime, and naptime.
If the child takes a long time to fall asleep without crying, it
is a sign that
waketime length
is too short.
It
's also hard to judge his optimal
waketime because I feel like he
is constantly tired from not getting good naps... sometimes I
am putting him down 30 minutes after waking because he
is already yawning and getting fussy!
I have read about shortening
waketimes, but shouldn't they
be getting longer and not shorter since she
's about 5 months??
RoxyT, If you get his optimal
waketime length right, he should go to sleep rather quickly (though the Baby Whisperer does say that average time to fall asleep
is 20 minutes).
Often that
is a sign of not having
waketime in the day, but it sounds like you
are doing that.
The only thing I feel really confident in
is the going - to - bed - routine... he has always fallen asleep earlier, his bedtime
is usually around 6:30 pm and he goes down like a champ and
is usually out for 4 or 5 hours... his
waketime in the morning
is also around 6:30
am - 7
am... where should I go from there?
At that age, it can
be that
waketime is too long or too short.
The problem with this
is that I have to calculate her
waketime from the moment she wakes vs when I get her up.
My 4 month old
is waking at midnight which
is his normal
waketime in Germany (7
am) and then goes back to bed if I nurse him until around 3:30
am and then back to sleep after nursing and then wakes again at 5
am.
One
is that he
is ready for a bit more stimulation durding waketimg OR a bit longer
waketime length.
He also roots around a lot like he
is hungry even though he eats (breastfeeds for about 20 minutes every 2.5 hours — his
waketime is around 45 - 50 minutes).
So, my question
is should I take him on the walk right after he eats as
waketime even if he does take a cat nap?
He did really well after about the third day and started sleeping past his
waketimes (when he
was on the 3 - 3.5 hr schedule) and wouldn't take full feedings.
However, since naps
are shorter,
waketime needs to
be shorter, too.