Not exact matches
It's common for
parents get
angry with their kids once in a while, but if there's
yelling, punishing, and threatening too much of the time, a kid can start feeling really bad about himself or herself.
Parents who get
angry and
yell at their children to make them behave better, are really only teaching them either compliance through fear or that
yelling to get what you want is a good idea.
I'm getting a better understanding about why
parents yell, the different levels of
yelling, and most importantly how to stop
yelling when we're
angry.
When an authoritarian
parent becomes
angry, they may
yell and punish but the child will never know what to expect, which can attribute to the fear they might feel while around others.
Dr. Deb Pontillo:
Parents have to be you know, especially careful about how they resolve conflict because even just between husband and wife or partners, that the modeling goes a wrong way and so if you get
angry and frustrated and you
yell how do you think your kids are going to resolve their conflicts.
Often when
parents are
angry with their children —
yelling at their children or lashing out in frustration — it's because the
parents feel powerless.
Have a look at these topics Feeling
angry - when
parents feel
angry, Family violence,
Yelling in the family - effects on children.
When we think of ODD, we often picture an
angry, arguing teen,
yelling at a
parent in defiance.