She also recommends using «I statements» — for example, «I'm having difficulties managing my workload» — to avoid coming across
as accusatory or confrontational.
The key is not to come off
as accusatory, but to emphasize that whatever changes are necessary will ultimately make the person a better manager.
Not exact matches
Use statements such
as, «I notice this...» or «I am impacted when...» instead of «you never do this...» or «you always make me feel that...» Words like «always» and «never» sound
accusatory and often put people on the defensive.
If you had chosen to send an email inquiring about their lack of punctuality, it could come across
as cold and possibly
accusatory.
fishon: «I have been accussed of coming off
as sarcastic, combative, and
accusatory before.
Bob, I have been accussed of coming off
as sarcastic, combative, and
accusatory before.
There has been a time or two that he has been very straightforward in his disagreement with me — but I don't see his sharp disagreeing
as sarcastic, combative, and
accusatory.
Reason I ask is, you come off
as sarcastic, combative, and
accusatory.
You continue to come across
as arrogant, lacking original thought, and
accusatory.
These remarks are not intended to be
accusatory so much
as to help uncover the roots and dynamics of the issue.
Sure, this message may have sounded more
accusatory back then (I did, after all, had the misfortune of joining OTE a few months before the scandal hit), but
as time passed I've stopped feeling the need to be defensive about it anymore.
But, you aren't quite sure how to address the situation without coming off
as overly aggressive and
accusatory.
Out of context, that
accusatory stare at his beloved aunt and uncle might not mean much, but having just seen him abandoned by his parents
as a nipper and his surprise at finding the briefcase, we understand his resentment about being left in the dark.
As Imelda Staunton weights it, that one word of dialogue becomes an
accusatory dirge....
Bruce Greenwood is ominously effective
as the reporter / mouthpiece for this process, speaking some of the same
accusatory words Brit journalists directed at Dylan in Pennebaker's Don't Look Back.
As is not uncommon in the self - publishing community, authors sometimes become shrill and
accusatory in framing their concerns.
Barbara Kruger's bright - red slogans, the Guerrilla Girls's
accusatory billboards, Jeff Koons's ads for Hennessy and Smirnoff: the 1980s saw American artists move
as never before into a language of commerce and publicity.
There are works depicting police brutality, American soldiers torturing a captured member of the Viet Cong and a large piece where JFK and Khrushchev point in an
accusatory manner at each other
as West faces off with East.
As we saw in the March 21 courtroom tutorial hearing, the judge was not impressed with one of the main bits of
accusatory evidence about the «conspiracy,» and the one Chevron attorney speaking at the hearing, Theodore Boutrous, had never seen the plaintiffs» «conspiracy evidence» before — which could actually undermine other lawsuits against energy companies.
for reasons unspecified, starting a web site having the same
accusatory stance
as his former Greenpeace ExxonSecrets site, but his current site's Twitter page has less Twitter followers than my own for GelbspanFiles.
It can involve things like acknowledging that «you may or may not be right», that «it is probably ridiculous to even bring this up, but...», or that you don't want to start a fight and you know that your partner is «doing many things right, but...» This is different from a more abrupt start up where you communicate that you feel entitled to your complaint and come across
as self - rigtheous and
accusatory.
«Removing the blame from divorce,
as proposed in Richard Bacon's bill, would help couples who both wish to bring their relationship to a dignified conclusion and move on with their lives without the need for
accusatory mud - slinging.
For example, if one partner tends to get angry and
accusatory as conflict arises, and the other withdraws, issues can not be explored and resolved.