Even worse is sending text
as an attachment when it could have been included in the body of the email.
Not exact matches
«It's amazing how books are constantly being flagged
as obsolete in the post iPad / Kindle world, but in reality people have real emotion and
attachment to tangible physical books,» McLeod told me, describing those emotions
as «both the memories of where [the owners] were
when they experienced them,
as well
as the knowledge contained within.»
I agree God does talk, he has ways to talk and alert you from time to time
when you falling away from path to reach him and be one with him, The way i understand is to hear him you should be at level where you think nothing else other then almighty, you should be free from
attachment and you do not share your divine intuitions
as they are meant to for you and you alone.
When Sacks places in his hands an object, P. proceeds to apprehend it
as «about six inches in length... a convoluted red form with a linear green
attachment.»
A break in one connection, such
as attachment to a stable community, puts pressure on other connections: marriage, the relationship between parents and children, religious affiliation, a feeling of connection with the past, even citizenship, that sense of membership in a large community which grows best
when it is grounded in membership in a small one.
Therefore, far from the objective and the existential being contraries —
as happens
when there is too exclusive an
attachment to the opposition between myth and kerygma — it must be said that the meaning of the text holds these two moments closely together.
When I am trying to reach out to theists who demonize and dehumanize atheists, I talk about particular things that we have in common to which they have emotional
attachments,
attachments that are just
as strong
as their religious beliefs:
In fact,
when I kneaded it with the knead
attachment on my stand mixed, it was dry and crumbly
as I added the dry ingredients.
She's most interested in showing families with young children that
Attachment Parenting continues to be just
as important
as children move into adulthood
as it was
when they were babies and toddlers.
However, some parents take a much different approach on other
attachment parenting aspects, such
as letting a child decide
when it's time to give up breastfeeding and get his or her own bed.
As outlined in our new blog, numerous internationally respected studies make clear the importance of secure father - child attachment — including, for example, work by Dr Paul Ramchandani of Imperial College London which shows that «disengaged and remote father - child interactions as early as the third month of life» predict behaviour problems in children when they are older [1] and US research showing that «verbal exchanges between fathers and their infants and between mothers and their infants each, independently and uniquely, predict pre-schoolers» social competence and lower aggression» [2
As outlined in our new blog, numerous internationally respected studies make clear the importance of secure father - child
attachment — including, for example, work by Dr Paul Ramchandani of Imperial College London which shows that «disengaged and remote father - child interactions
as early as the third month of life» predict behaviour problems in children when they are older [1] and US research showing that «verbal exchanges between fathers and their infants and between mothers and their infants each, independently and uniquely, predict pre-schoolers» social competence and lower aggression» [2
as early
as the third month of life» predict behaviour problems in children when they are older [1] and US research showing that «verbal exchanges between fathers and their infants and between mothers and their infants each, independently and uniquely, predict pre-schoolers» social competence and lower aggression» [2
as the third month of life» predict behaviour problems in children
when they are older [1] and US research showing that «verbal exchanges between fathers and their infants and between mothers and their infants each, independently and uniquely, predict pre-schoolers» social competence and lower aggression» [2].
I was afraid to admit to certain fellow
attachment parenting moms that I: used a baby swing, tried to get my children to take pacifiers (though none would), used disposable diapers at home some days
when I was over doing all that laundry, used the TV
as a babysitter
when I needed to clean or eat chocolate by myself, fed my children store - bought baby food some times, and much more.
You feel the strong pain and yet you head is «fuzzy», and the emotions
when the baby is born are much stronger, just
as is the
attachment to the baby.
There will most likely be a time
when your parenting abilities and choices are called into question during this journey
as a parent of a child with Reactive
Attachment Disorder.
That claim is foolish
as can be seen
when the same observation is made about
attachment parenting and autism.
Reading is a shared interest among many
Attachment Parenting (AP) families
as we all like to be well - informed
when making decisions that affect our parent - child relationships.
But
when I imagine myself speaking and try to drum up my inspiring presentation topic, the only thing I can come up with right now is, «
Attachment Mama's 101 Ways to Unravel
as a new Parent» or «
Attachment Parenting, Full - Time Work and Self - Care?
When Attachment Parenting International (also known as API) was founded in 1994, the non-profit organization created their own set of attachment parenting guidelines, now considered to be the foundation of attachment parenting as we know
Attachment Parenting International (also known
as API) was founded in 1994, the non-profit organization created their own set of
attachment parenting guidelines, now considered to be the foundation of attachment parenting as we know
attachment parenting guidelines, now considered to be the foundation of
attachment parenting as we know
attachment parenting
as we know it today.
My marriage did not break up because I was intensely
attachment parenting; my marriage broke up because it was shitty and we didn't know who we were
as people
when we married.
Where child conduct is an issue, fathers can be
as effective change agents within families
as mothers; delivering a parent education programme to both mother and father is more effective than delivering it to just one parent; and each individual parent's sensitivity towards their child (and their child's
attachment to them) is enhanced
when both parents are included in the intervention (O'Brien 2004).
Jennifer Van Laanen, formerly known
as Mango Mama, was a big natural parenting and
attachment parenting advocate
when her children were young.
It's so important to find like - minded parents who can offer their «been there, done that» stories, emotional scaffolding, and specific suggestions for
when you feel confused
as to what to do about your child's behavior, or
when you question whether this new thing you're trying, like positive discipline instead of spanking, for example, is going to work out in the long term, or how exactly to keep those family
attachment bonds strong
as your children grow, or how to move forward
when your family encounters challenging life circumstances.
When I read the post and then Amanda's article, A French Feminist Fights the New Feminine Mystique,
as a woman who values both female liberties and the philosophies on which
attachment parenting is based, I felt compelled to take my thoughts further than the comment section below either would allow.
In fact, most research suggests that
when dependencies are met appropriately such
as the need for
attachment and attention, these, in fact, develop a sense of security and establishes confidence and self - esteem.
The last limitations to the
attachment model is that the mother is viewed
as the primary
attachment figure,
when in fact, a father or sibling can have the same type of
attachment with the infant at the same time.
I try,
as we all do, to be the best parent I can be based on the principles of
Attachment Parenting but sometimes I just can't cope
when I know Jack needs me but I can't be there for him, psychologically.
Before baby comes is the time to really look into
Attachment Parenting International «s First Principle of Parenting —
when you can think clearly and begin to look at some of your childhood wounds, identify areas that may be difficult
as you raise your own children, share your insights with your partner and become a team
as you enter the uncharted waters of parenthood.
Many parents worry that if mother was unavailable due to illness
when she had her baby, or a child was adopted at age six, the window of opportunity for establishing a strong parent / child
attachment will have been irretrievably lost, and their youngster will be incapable of forging deep
attachments as an adult.
But
when I adopted the label of
attachment parent, I was thrilled to have what I saw
as a checklist for doing things right.
When our children were young, my wife and I experiment with co-sleeping and other techniques that are now known, in the aggregate,
as attachment parenting.
Turns out, there are things you learn about your baby
when you
attachment parent, too, and those things have been just
as earth shaking and life - changing
as the things I have learned about myself.
When I met with our adoption psychologist she recommended (
as is the consensus in her profession) breastfeeding my adopted children (one being older than 3) because there is nothing else that can replicate the bonding and
attachment of nursing.
But if they do this because they are afraid that night - weaning will somehow harm their baby or their
attachment relationship, or they are afraid that a little controlled CIO will do more harm than good, then - Dr. Narvaez - we owe it to them and their infants to NOT MAKE CLAIMS UNSUPPORTED BY EVIDENCE, ESPECIALLY
WHEN WE HAVE A PHD OR MD AFTER OUR NAME AND PRESENT THESE CLAIMS
AS EVIDENCE - BASED.
When it comes to a parent's happiness, the role that parenting plays is a matter of subjectivity,
as well:
Attachment - minded parents are happy to give their children more attention than not, whereas parents of other parenting approaches may argue that a child seeking attention is being manipulative; attachment parents simply do not view children, or their choices, in
Attachment - minded parents are happy to give their children more attention than not, whereas parents of other parenting approaches may argue that a child seeking attention is being manipulative;
attachment parents simply do not view children, or their choices, in
attachment parents simply do not view children, or their choices, in this way.
Some parents misconstrue
Attachment Parenting (AP)
as promoting undisciplined children and martyred parents,
when in actuality,
Attachment Parenting has a strong basis in discipline and balance.
It can be very distressing, and it manifests itself
as an
attachment oftentimes to a single parent and great distress on the part of the child
when that parent leaves.
Maybe you decided to
attachment parent (AP)
when you were pregnant,
as I did.
Bowlby [iii](1969) defined
attachment as an enduring affective bond characterized by a tendency to seek and maintain proximity to a specific figure, particularly
when under stress.
This philosophy, termed «
Attachment Parenting» by its champion, pediatrician and father of eight Dr. William Sears (author of the popular child - care manual The Baby Book, among others), sees infants not
as manipulative adversaries who must be «trained» to eat, sleep, and play
when told, but
as dependent yet autonomous human beings whose wants and needs are intelligible to the parent willing to listen, and who deserve to be responded to in a reasonable and sensitive manner.
When parental
attachments don't form properly (
as a result of abuse, neglect or harmful parenting), the child is less likely to develop a strong sense of independence.
As attachment parents, we believe that the relationship we have with our children is critical to this objective, and we choose not to use parenting techniques that might damage that relationship — even
when it might be more convenient, easier, or more in line with the views of others.
I think
as attachment parents we have to keep our cool and just be straightforward and logic / facts based
when discussing these issues.
When someone mentions
Attachment Parenting for the older child, that person isn't so dense
as to think that the same strategies used with babies can be applied to an older child.
Because Japanese parenting culture is
as much about discipline
as it is about
attachment, they practice the same values
when it comes to nature.
There can be an alarming amount of labeling by members of what is and isn't AP and who is and isn't «AP enough,» and I feel like my most important role
as an API Leader
when these hot - topic issues come up is reminding everyone that it's all about finding the balance of what works best for our individual families while maintaining an active, involved
attachment to our children regardless of what personal decisions we make.
As a new mum who wanted to be an attachment parent, I would often hear advice such as to breastfeed my daughter when she hurt herself, if she cried on an aeroplane, or at a time when I was positive she wasn't hungry and was suffering from separation anxiety after being with my husband without me for a whil
As a new mum who wanted to be an
attachment parent, I would often hear advice such
as to breastfeed my daughter when she hurt herself, if she cried on an aeroplane, or at a time when I was positive she wasn't hungry and was suffering from separation anxiety after being with my husband without me for a whil
as to breastfeed my daughter
when she hurt herself, if she cried on an aeroplane, or at a time
when I was positive she wasn't hungry and was suffering from separation anxiety after being with my husband without me for a while.
When mother and baby are reunited, their
attachment through breastfeeding can resume
as if she never left.
As I discuss here in this video, most babies will latch on the best
when they are supported to self - attach on their own, with the mother in the «laid - back» breastfeeding position, or self -
attachment in the «koala» hold.
In addition, studies done in other cultures about the effects on children of nighttime child - rearing practices have shown that
attachment object use was less common
when children slept in the same bed or in the same room
as their mothers and were breastfed longer (Gaddini & Gaddini, 1970; Hong & Townes, 1976; Litt, 1981).
I am happy with my choice to balance my children's
attachment needs and my family values with our financial needs and my career path, and know that
as my youngest child grows beyond the critical early childhood years
when attachment needs are strongest, I can always choose to go back to working outside the home.