Nevertheless, there is a significant group of parents for whom standard parent training programmes do not appear to be effective, and there is also some recognition of the need to add components to standard parent training programmes that are aimed at addressing issues such
as parental anger or capacity for self - regulation (Sanders 2004).
Not exact matches
We will be finishing Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
as well
as starting Love and
Anger: The
Parental Dilemma by Nancy Samalin.
We see more than our fair share of
parental conflict, and children's tears and
anger as they struggle to make sense of loss and change.
(Jill Egizii, president,
Parental Alienation Awareness Organization USA) This powerful book evokes strong emotions such
as anger, grief, compassion, and amazement.
Children exposed to
parental narcissistic
anger (commonly referred to
as «narcissistic rage,» Kohut, (1972) find the experience so psychologically disturbing that they become strongly motivated to avoid venturing outside of the psychological state desired by the narcissistic parent.
Also, Goodrum believes future research should examine whether the association between
parental warmth and child externalizing behavior is bidirectional, such that
anger, aggression, and other externalizing behaviors could decrease the warmth demonstrated by the parent
as much
as parental detachment could exacerbate externalizing behaviors.
Results also demonstrated pretreatment to posttreatment improvements in
parental anger toward their children, and consistent parenting
as well
as children's posttraumatic stress symptoms and behavioral problems.
As the child adopts the role as the «regulatory other» for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's pathology in order to avoid the emotional collapse of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent into chaotic and unpredictable displays of intense parental anxiety, sadness, or anger it becomes relatively easy for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent to then communicate to the child through clear but subtle «emotional signals» and «relational moves» that the parent's emotional regulation is dependent on the child adopting the «victimized child» role in the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's trauma reenactment narrativ
As the child adopts the role
as the «regulatory other» for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's pathology in order to avoid the emotional collapse of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent into chaotic and unpredictable displays of intense parental anxiety, sadness, or anger it becomes relatively easy for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent to then communicate to the child through clear but subtle «emotional signals» and «relational moves» that the parent's emotional regulation is dependent on the child adopting the «victimized child» role in the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's trauma reenactment narrativ
as the «regulatory other» for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's pathology in order to avoid the emotional collapse of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent into chaotic and unpredictable displays of intense
parental anxiety, sadness, or
anger it becomes relatively easy for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent to then communicate to the child through clear but subtle «emotional signals» and «relational moves» that the parent's emotional regulation is dependent on the child adopting the «victimized child» role in the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's trauma reenactment narrative.
Johnston, 1998, described it
as a relationship marked by SOME or all of the following
parental behaviors: high degrees of
anger and distrust; incidents of verbal abuse; intermittent physical aggression; ongoing difficulty in communicating about the children» ongoing difficulty cooperating in the care of the children; sabotage of children's relationship with the other parent.
Exposure to
parental arguments may act
as a stressor to children, and children are more likely to have negative emotional reactions such
as anger and aggression (Jenkins, 2000).
Furthermore, to date research on the effects of
parental psychological problems on emotion socialization focused mainly on parents» internalizing symptoms, such
as depressed mood and (to a lesser extent) anxiety, while little attention has been given to the potential negative consequences of parents» externalizing symptoms like outbursts of
anger and impulsive behavior.
Parental awareness of their own affective experiences and those of their teen during parenting interactions may lead to an increase in their responsiveness to child needs and a reduction in the use of harsh discipline that can occur when parents are overwhelmed by their own strong negative affects such
as anger or shame.