Yes, it's important to keep things pleasant, but that doesn't mean you need to
avoid meaningful conversation.
Not exact matches
Even though I feel a crushing anxiety whenever the phone rings, or when I cross the street to
avoid small talk with a stranger, and even though I'm the one huddled in a corner having a
meaningful conversation with someone while everyone else is mingling at a party, I can still confidently give a talk to a room full of students like I've been doing it all my life.
Unfortunately, there were a few teachers who must have had one too many bad experiences with evaluation
conversations and basically told me to read out their evaluation, let them sign it, and
avoid engaging in any
meaningful conversation.
In his book How to
Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk, Dr. Van Epp explains that asking the right questions to inspire
meaningful, revealing
conversations with your partner and judging character based on compatibility, relationship skills, friends, and patterns from familial and previous relationships should tell you what you need to know about a potential life partner.
I pretended I did, then I'd divert the
conversation by making him laugh, thus
avoiding a
meaningful response.