According to NDTV, Harms said that they found that for employees with a secure or
avoidant attachment behavior, bosses mattered less.
Not exact matches
Given what you describe about your ex's
behavior, it is possible that she terminated the relationship because of having an
avoidant attachment style, meaning that she is fearful about entering and becoming too close to others.1 People with
avoidant attachment styles are more likely than people with other styles to end relationships when they start getting too intimate2 and to use indirect strategies to do so, such as avoiding direct communication about the real problems that are leading to the break - up.3 In other words, she may have been holding back negative feelings.
When someone has an insecure
attachment style, they either exhibit
avoidant or anxious
behaviors to cope with this... Read more»
When someone has an insecure
attachment style, they either exhibit
avoidant or anxious
behaviors to cope with this
attachment insecurity.
These actions allowed Mary Ainsworth to observe separation and reunion
behavior which would demonstrate whether a toddler was securely attached or displayed one of three
attachment styles characterized by insecurity:
avoidant attachment, ambivalent
attachment or disorganized
attachment.
The ASQ includes five scales: (1) ASQ - F1, «Confidence in relationships»; higher scores in this subscale indicate a secure
attachment (e.g., «I find it relatively easy to get close to other people»); (2) ASQ - F2, «Need for approval» denotes both worried and fearful aspects of
attachment, characterized by an individual's need for others» approval and acceptance (e.g., «It's important for me to avoid doing things that others won't like»); (3) ASQ - F3: the subjects» anxious
behavior in searching for others, motivated by the necessity to fulfill dependency needs, is depicted by the subscale «Preoccupation with relationships»; it represents a central topic in the conceptualization of anxious / ambivalent
attachment (e.g., «It's very important for me to have a close relationship»); (4) ASQ - F4, «Discomfort with closeness» reflects an
avoidant attachment (e.g., «I prefer to keep to myself»), and (5) ASQ - F5 «Relationships as secondary» is typical of a dismissive style, in which subjects tend to emphasize achievements and independence, in order to protect themselves against hurt and vulnerability (e.g., «To ask for help is to admit that you're a failure»).
For instance, parental stress seems to be associated to both anxiety and avoidance of
attachment, because of the difficulties they imply in coping with distress, but in different ways: more
avoidant women attribute negative distress to a characteristic of the baby and not situational factors; more anxious women make more mistakes in recognizing fear and attribute distress to physical factors, then they could show an out of sync response to the babies» distress signs (Leerkes and Siepak, 2006; for a complete review of a social cognition approach to parenting processes and
behaviors, see: Jones et al., 2015a, b).
Data from a survey of 212 undergraduates support this hypothesis and also provide evidence that indicates sensitivity to rejection underlies both
avoidant and ambivalent patterns of insecure adult
attachment behavior.
Among rejected partners, anxious
attachment positively predicted pursuit
behaviors; and, among disengagers,
avoidant attachment negatively predicted being the target of aggressive
behaviors.
The results indicated infants with autonomous foster parents and infants placed at younger ages showed higher early and overall levels of secure
behavior, less
avoidant behavior, and more coherent
attachment strategies compared to infants placed with nonautonomous foster parents.
Infants who focus almost exclusively on the toys, actively avoiding and ignoritíg the parent on reunion, are termed insecure -
avoidant, a response linked to the mother's consistent rejection of infant
attachment behavior.