At first, you can offer solids once or twice a day, one to two teaspoons at a time (and more as
baby cues for it) between breast or bottle feeds — whenever it's most convenient for you and your baby.
Not exact matches
I usually have better luck with things he can pick up himself (
cue the
baby - led weaning advocates) so am including a few recipes here
for finger foods that work well
for us and a smoothie
for good measure.
Watch
for your
baby's
cues such as smacking or licking his lips, opening and closing his mouth, or sucking on his lips, tongue, hands, fingers, etc..
As your
baby grows and you both get to know each other better, navigating hunger and tiredness
cues will come more naturally, and you'll be able to soothe her more easily as you develop a comfortable routine
for feeding and sleep.
The short version is that you don't extend it — you watch
for cues for your
baby to extend.
Otherwise, do what feels comfortable
for you; you also want follow your
baby's
cues.
Most of us know that by breastfeeding on demand and following our
babies cues, we will be putting ourselves in the best possible position to help establish and keep up our supplies, but so often we question ourselves
for breastfeeding «too much»!
Look
for your
baby's breastfeeding
cues.
If your
baby is not
cueing for a feeding, try wearing them skin to skin as much as possible so they can smell you, feel you, see you, and seek the source of their next meal.
One of your first tasks as a new parent is to learn your
baby's
cues —
for hunger, fullness, and need
for sleep.
Watch your
baby's
cues: If you're watching your
baby's
cues for when he's full, you can also watch
for feeding
cues to let you know when he's hungry.
Be sure you are watching
for early hunger
cues and giving your
baby a bottle as soon as you notice that he's starting to get hungry.
Babies usually give an indication when they have had enough and you should look
for these
cues while feeding them.
Your
baby will give you plenty of
cues when he or she is ready
for this.
I needed a lot of care at home
for another month but I just kept trying to feed my
baby on
cue as long as I felt well enough.
Make sure that the flow is appropriate
for baby's age and read your
baby's hunger
cues.
Watching
for your
baby's hunger
cues (as opposed to watching the clock) will allow you to know when he is ready to nurse and prevents
baby from getting over-hungry and frustrated.
One of the biggest benefits of breastfeeding is that encourages a
baby to eat at its own pace and allows it to learn its body's
cues for satiety.
While there are
cues for most problems prior to crying, crying is the one sure sign that the
baby isn't happy or is in need of something.
Breasts work on supply and demand so the only way you can be sure you will continue to have the perfect amount of milk
for your
baby; and know you are meeting all of their needs is if you breastfeed them by following their
cues.
Breastfeeding on
cue is the norm in Bangladesh and if anything mothers there need to be taught about the importance of introducing solids at the right time instead of relying on just breast milk to meet the
baby's nutritional needs
for too long.
But the opposite is true: studies show that
babies whose parents respond to their
cues for feeding and comfort cry less and are more confident and secure as they grow up» (West & Marasco, 2009 p. 81).
At first, you may not notice your little one's feeding
cues, but as you get to know your
baby in the days and weeks after she is born, you will begin to recognize the subtle little hints that will tell you when she's hungry and ready
for some breast milk.
If you pay attention to your
baby's feeding
cues instead of putting your child on a schedule, you may find that the
baby is hungry every hour or so
for a few hours, and then he sleeps
for a longer stretch.
Because they can do absolutely nothing
for themselves,
babies need their parents to understand their
cues and respond appropriately.
Smile, talk, and interact frequently with your
baby, but also be aware of your
baby's
cues for downtime.
For instance, if you rock or breastfeed your
baby to sleep but want to change this, start by introducing a more easily discarded
cue as you rock or feed, such as gentle music and «sleepy words».
Look to your
baby for cues about how to make him comfortable.
Simply swapping one
cue for another will be stressful and your
baby won't know what to expect so the idea is to «overlay» the new
cue (the music).
So make sure to look
for your
baby's
cues and needs to find out what he really wants and likes.
«The participants can detect and respond to those signals and
cues of the other because it changes
for the
baby.»
Weaning
baby onto solids 4 months and younger may be unsafe if your child isn't ready
for it, so pay close attention to the
cues your
baby gives you about what he or she is capable of.
There should be a strong signal that it's sleep time (
for night sleep and naps) and several steps that lead to sleep so
baby understands the
cues.
This method requires complete dedication
for the parents (as the parents must watch
for cues and put
baby on the elimination pot when needed).
Look
for cues from your
baby about his or her readiness
for thicker, chunkier recipes.
basically, make sure to have a schedule
for baby - do all the night time or nap time
cues like darker room and music or noisemaker.
Many of us feel as though we would like to breastfeed when our
baby is showing
cues that they are looking
for boob, or when our toddler is asking
for it.
Ask that your
baby is only fed on
cue (rather than by a schedule) and to feed
baby only as much as they are asking
for (not trying to finish a bottle just because!)
I would love to know from you & others if you woke your
babies during the day
for that first week or so home or if you just watched your
baby's
cues & not the clock as the book suggests.
Watch your
baby's
cues for when she is ready to «play».
Once you've got your 30 -45-minute getting ready
for bedtime sorted, keep it the same every night, at a similar time too, so you're giving your
baby plenty of
cues that it's time
for sleep.
In fact, I had to learn to follow my
baby's
cues for when he / she was ready
for trying solids with signs such as reaching
for table food or showing interest in our food.
Make sure to let the
baby wind down
for naps as well as nighttime by these
cues and doing very calm activity 15 min before nap... then I swaddle and put her in crib.
Learning about your
baby Diapering offers a perfect opportunity
for you to truly absorb your
baby's
cues and signals.
Ditch the home design magazines and take a
cue from developmental molecular biologist and Brain Rules
for Baby author John Medina.
While this may be true to some extent, talking to your
baby will help them pick up on social
cues when it is time
for them to have a reciprocal conversation.
If you are feeding less keep a close eye
for any feeding
cues, which may show
baby is looking to be fed more.
When we endeavor to understand
baby's
cues for starting and stopping feeding, they feel understood.
Feeding time is a time
for consistent and reliable responses by caregivers to
baby's
cues.
Watching your
baby's feeding
cues and bringing
baby to breast whenever he or she wants is the best way to meet your breastfeeding goals, but we are glad we have pumps now to provide more options
for moms!