Instead of accepting it's OK to be afraid, to feel uncomfortable or out of control, we try to push
bad feelings away with substances.
Not exact matches
What's
worse, such rules take control
away from the employee, leading to
feelings of powerlessness and disengagement, says Stew Friedman, author of Leading the Life You Want: Skills for Integrating Work and Life.
When we turn our own attention
away from the real world, the three - dimensional world, and we pay more attention to the internet and to what
feels good or
bad to us, in effect, we're making life easier for Russia.
But as a leader, if you hear someone's recommendation but
feel strongly it's a
bad idea, you need to call it right
away, without ambiguity.
Typically used to explain
away someone's poor behavior, like the top salesperson who treats people
badly or the great engineer who is rude during meetings, the loose translation of this statement is, «Even though it's my job as a boss to address this issue, and I wouldn't let anyone else behave that way, I don't
feel like dealing with it.»
The boy was upset, and I
felt a little
bad as I walked
away.
third mess up) ADAM AND EVE: god
felt bad for adam's first wife running
away so he created a second wife from adam's rib, eve ended up getting tricked then seduced adam into eating of a «forbidden fruit.»
People refusing medical treatment because they think they can pray disease
away, The demoralizing way religion makes you
feel about yourself (I am a wretch, a sinner, a
bad person by nature), the religious wars that have been fought for millenia, the self righteous passing laws based on THEIR beliefs (change to the pledge of allegience which now excludes anyone who does not believe in a fairy godfather, the change to the national motto that turned it into the lie «in god we trust», the bigotry that «my religion is the right one and you are wrong so I'll pray for you» kind of crap... don't you realize that it is insulting to me when someone says they will pray for me... its the same as saying I'm going to do something for you but there won't be any effect, so it is just a waste of time.
That is also what happened to me I am 12 and the devil put it into my mind but I know it's not true and don't think it is and I was so scared because it happened like 2 days ago and I realized the problem is that you have to ask lord to free you this is the devil trying to make you miserable you need to have faith today I asked god to forgive me because I don't know why it came into my head and I didn't think god loved me but I told my dad what happened and he said that it is I
felt you say notice say it to someone that it's the truth that is what it means and I
felt god in me today and he took
away all my
bad thoughts and now I know I am forgiven all you need to do is captivate those thoughts and say god free me because if you have committed the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit it's not that god doesn't want to forgive you it is that the person that has done it made up there mind and they don't want forgiveness.
Tim i found it liberating to just do what the Lord wants you to do i work within his boundarys and yes i attend church and enjoy it.I love the people and i love hearing the word and worshipping the Lord even if others are still bound up with traditions thats not my walk thats theres.My focus is to do what the Lord wants me to do.There have been times i have said no to the pastor he does nt understand why i choose not to lead the worship.i query him as well regarding the idea that its not just performing a function because there is a need our hearts have to be in the right place so that the Lord can use us but he did nt understand where i was coming from and thats okay because of that i just said no until my heart is right i am better not being involved in leading.But i am happy to be an encouragement to others in the worship team i havent wanted to be the leader i have done that in the past.So my focus has been just the singing and being part of different worship teams i think the Lord has other plans as the groups i am in seem to be changing at the same time i am aware that i do nt to worry about change as the Lord knows whats best.I used to be quite comfortable leading the music but that was before when i was operating in my own self confidence and pride.The Lord did such a huge change in my life that i lost my self confidence and that is not a
bad thing at all as my spiritual growth has been incredible.The big change was my identity moved from me and what i could do to knowing who i was in Christ and that he is my strength and confidence.Now i know that without him i can do nothing in fact i am dependent on his empowerment through his holy spirit all the time in everything.In the weekend i was asked to lead the music at another church i attend multiple churchs although i attend two regularly one has services in the morning and one has services in the evening so the two do nt really clash.In the weekend i was asked to lead the music its been two years since i did that and i was worried on how i would go.All i can say is that it went really well and because i stepped out in Faith the Lord really blessed the morning to the congregation.The difference is knowing that i serve the Lord with the gifts he has given me but my heart has to be right and when i do it in his way it builds up the body and it brings glory to him.May the Lord continue to show you what he wants you to do even though others may not understand your reasons i just want you to know that you do nt have to pull
away completely just work within the boundarys that the Lord gives you and do nt
feel pressured by others expectations to do anything that
feel uncomfortable.Be involved just as you
feel lead by the holy spirit even if it is in a very minor way take small steps.regards brentnz
So after eating what was edible and tossing the rest (how do you do that btw, I always
feel so
bad throwing
away the unfavorable outcomes...) I tweaked it as follows, went back today and now it's great!
We are better able to notice whether foods make us
feel good or
bad, whether they give us energy or take it
away.
Don't
feel bad if you can't afford one right
away.
I
feel guilty as well when stuff goes
bad and I have to throw it
away.
Of course youcould do far
worse things in north Vallejo in the 1990s, especially in theSabathias» neighborhood, known as the Crest, where you could cruise up GatewayDrive to get drugs, and bleary - eyed men banged on the windows of passing cars.But Mare Island hadn't yet been shut down, and the Crest
felt more hardworkingthan crime - ridden because the men hadn't gone
away.
If we don't win this match at home it will be an even
worse feeling than losing to Spurs
away for me.
there is no doubting that Arsene has helped to provide us with some incredible footballing moments in the formative years of his managerial career at Arsenal, but that certainly doesn't and shouldn't mean that he has earned the right to decide when and how he should leave this club... there have been numerous managers at each of the biggest clubs in Europe throughout the last decade who have waged far more successful campaigns than ours yet somehow and someway each were given their walking papers because they failed to meet the standards laid out by the hierarchy of their respective clubs... of course that doesn't mean that clubs should simply follow the lead of others, especially if clubs of note have become too reactionary when it comes to issues of termination, for whatever reasons, but there should be some logical discourse when it comes to the setting of parameters for a changing of the guard... in the case of Arsenal, this sort of discourse was largely stifled when the higher - ups devised their sinister plan on the eve of our move to the Emirates... by giving Wenger a free pass due to supposed financial constraints he, unwittingly or not, set the bar too low... it reminds me of a landlord who says he will only rent to «professional people» to maintain a certain standard then does a complete about face when the market is lean and vacancies are up... for those who rented under the original mandate they of course
feel cheated but there is little they can do, except move on, especially if the landlord clearly cares more about profitability than keeping their word... unfortunately for the lifelong fans of a football club it's not so easy to switch allegiances and frankly why should they, in most cases we have been around far longer than them... so how does one deal with such an untenable situation... do you simply shut - up and hope for the best, do you place the best interests of those with only self - serving agendas above the collective and pray that karma eventually catches up with them, do you run
away with your tail between your legs and only return when things have ultimately changed, do you keep trying to find silver linings to justify your very existence, do you lower your expectations by convincing yourself it could be
worse or do you stand up for what you believe in by holding people accountable for their actions, especially when every fiber of your being tells you that something is rotten in the state of Denmark
I
felt like he was having a poke at Rogan too, Joe kept calling Francis the Scariest heavyweight ever leading up to the fight — Stipe said «I might be be the scariest but I'm the
baddest» straight
away when Joe came in — broke a record, stopped the hype train and gave a nice fuck you I told you so — good on him
With all the
bad blood between Arsene Wenger and Jose Mourinho, and with the desire for Arsenal to show that last season's awful string of results
away to the Premier League big boys wasan aberration, there is a
feeling that the Frenchman will send the Gunners out with the intent to attack the league leaders and go for all three points.
Totally agree Chris.He is now well past his sell by date and defeats like have suffered against Bournemouth and Swansea are not only embarrassing but unforgivable.The results were
bad enough but the performances are now all too familiar against theses lower ranked clubs.To expect us supporters to be blinded by League Cup Final and only a couple of decent performances so far this season is misjudging our
feelings about his position This is a very well educated and intelligent man who can have no doubts about our attitude and utter disgust for him.He has allowed for us to make this personal now and he is deluded if he thinks e can collect another years salary out our expense.He knows his control is slowly being wrestled
away from him and that really says it all.Ivan G is taking control and Wenger will be raging inside with this.Did he seriously expect things to continue until he
felt it was time to just walk off into the sunset?Well he now knows his time at OUR club is fast running out.The day can't come soon enough for me.
Hey SoOpa AeoN you got a cool but yoy don't talk cool at all along with rkw.I didn't like the way Chicarito's name was rubbed in the mad and what pains me is that you all think Giroud is better.The fact that you are a team reject does not mean you aren't good enough or can't be world class.Do you want me to name a few rejects who have become world class or have come back to haunt their teams.If I was to choose between sticking with Giroud or Chicarito for thousand years we all know who people would go for.The over hyped average players in our club is unbelievable and it's just sad.The club is also over hyped at times and we
feel like we are so so big.It's a shame.The mentality of this club is so so
bad and trust me with this characters success will be far
away for centuries to come.
The first half at United
away was the
worst feeling.
The want
away Arsenal player has been painted in a
bad light since contract negotiations started and I for one
feel, things are not as
bad as they look!
I
feel slightly
bad for Holding, he was good OFF the back in positioning ect, but on the ball shocking, he didn't get much help from Ozil and Bellerin who were both absent infront of him when he lost the ball because he had no one to pass to, I guess it's his fault overall though, if you're in that situation and can't find anyone just hoof it
away don't lose it and give them a chance on goal.
As
bad as we
feel our
away form has been City have picked up just 15 points
away from home and have 9
away games left compared to our 7.
The Gunners will
feel relieved to have picked up only their second
away win of the Premier League campaign, and wont
feel too
bad about the manner in which it came.
Arsenal obviously needed to pick up some Premier League points, even if you are like me and
feel that our top four hopes are already over, but with all the negativity around the club and the team being on the
worst away run and the
worst league position since Arsene Wenger took over, we also needed Arsenal to get back to something like the way we can play.
The next match up for Arsenal is our first of the season in the Capital One Cup and as unlucky as it
felt to be handed an
away day at Tottenham when the draw was made, the situation now makes it about as
bad a draw as we could have wished for.
Sorry fellow Gunners... I don't want to look like trying to foment hate against Wenger, neither do I hate him too much,,, but I stayed
away from the Swansea game coz I had a
bad feeling... Cudn't go on twitter until at the end....
Why would he do that or is he being really
Badly advised as I thought to go with Klopp would be perfect for the player and Liverpool as Klopp would help him get his confidence back and playing the kind of football he's known for and become World - class but only reason I can think why he could.join Swansea is he would join them as their Best player right
away and maybe he
feels being their best player may give him the confidence he needs but that's it!!
Hi fellow gunners, I'm shouting out live from South Africa, and bout the game, i don't know where is that warrior mentality, we need that ruthless attitude, one or two players that are willing to sometimes break
away from «the game plan» and try something spectacular, and visible leadership on the field when things go
bad, that's all, if I'm wrong guys
feel free to correct me
draw
away to Stoke is not the
worst result but I still
feel we are not playing up to our potential.
But Arsenal have no momentum at the moment and confidence must be draining
away so it is hard to see that happening, and if the defeat to Manchester United
feels bad, it'll be even
worse if the Gunners get beaten at White Hart Lane on Saturday.
As the second half progressed United took more control but still managed to give the ball
away too easily through
bad passing, probably still
feeling the effects of their Christmas party.
i cant help my anger at this point becos its a result of so much pent up frustration and the managers failure to recognise issues and failure to ever acknowledge our fans and i refuse to stick my head in the ground and come up smiling after beating stoke at home 2 - 0, maybe if the manager had ever once just said «i
feel for the fans» or apologise to travelling fans after gutless
away displays, but no he does nt
feel accountable to any1 despite the thousands of times «theres only one arsene wenger» rings in his ears, hes gotten more love and trust than youd give your wife but wot has he given you in return the last 4 years???? not even acknowledgement, and in between the poor run hes given us more than his fair share of touchline controversy which reflects
badly on us and the club in regards to fair play.and he never sees anything!!!! be honest and come out like moyes and bruce, its refreshing!!!! the standards at the club hav plummeted and where chels, utd, pool and even villa / city / spurs hav so many players who fight and uphold club traditions we only hav cesc, gallas, verm, RvP, sagna and arsha who, IMO really care and who fight when our backs are to the wall....
I
feel like teaching these important life skills and attitudes is too hard to do when you have to fix
bad habits learned while they are
away.
Struggling with
feelings of depression often
feels overwhelming, making you pull
away from others, in turn making the symptoms of depression even
worse.
And it strikes a
bad chord with me when someone who claims to be a lactation consultant can not appreciate that women can have very personal emotional responses to breastfeeding, whether triggered by past trauma or not, and thinks that such
feelings need to be hidden
away from your delicate flowers?
If you've got a partner who lets your child get
away with behavior problems, it's likely you'll
feel like the
bad guy when you lay down the law.
And
feel bad about throwing
away because it's so pretty.
No medicine will make a virus go
away faster, but you can help your baby
feel better and prevent the infection from getting
worse by making sure he gets plenty of rest and liquids.
Once you talk about anger, those
bad feelings usually start to go
away.
2 weeks after I had my baby boy I got Post Partum Depression very very
bad but I wasn't pushing my baby
away I would feed him and play with him everything that I could do for him not to
feel my anxiety and depression I am finally out of this depression but I noticed that my son (11 months) would rather be with his aunt than me.
To make matters
worse, you'll come
away feeling guilty on top of it.
I
feel badly for these parents who had their child taken
away.
Susan Newman, social psychologist and author of «Little Things Long Remembered: Making Your Children
Feel Special Every Day,» said parents should discourage
bad behaviors by taking
away privileges such as dessert, or setting an earlier bedtime.
I gently rubbed Miles» chest (I
felt so
badly for him) and said, «When we go
away from Mama, we have sad
feelings.»
And she announced that she
felt like a
bad parent spending so much time
away from them.
And crying when I was alone, wondering if I was a
bad mother, whether I would ever
feel normal again, and hiding some of the darkest moments
away.
They fear admitting to negative
feelings during the perinatal period may lead to their children being taken
away or they will be labeled as
bad mothers.