Being «
safe rather
than sorry»
is a completely selfish motivation
then, and I'd rather live my life unselfishly and risk the remote chance of hell
than choose to accept beliefs that I can't justify in our modern society, some of which actually hurt others, just to save my butt.
Never mind the general public... Some examples: 1) the passenger in front of us on our first flight, whom when my daughter
was crying while we waited to take off and I said something aloud such as «I'll nurse her once we take off and
then she'll
be quiet», had to tell everyone around us that she
was a nurse and that I
was essentially a bad mom to not nurse my baby during takeoff (
sorry lady, but the reason I bought her a seat
was for her to
be in her car seat during takeoff as it
's much
safer than in my arms nursing).