And fathers are beginning to grumble, too: «A lot of the friction I've experienced in my relationship with my husband since our daughter was
born relates to the enormous pressure he has felt being
shoe - horned into a traditional breadwinner role» says a contributor to the lively discussion boards on www.mumsnet.com: «we had a really equal relationship before our baby came along and it has been very
uncomfortable being in the «traditional» roles.