The bedtime feeds were a particular favourite of mine, especially once I had gone back to work.
Bedtime feeds are usually the most difficult to stop as many breastfed toddlers see their bedtime feed as an important part of their bedtime routine.
He's on a 3 hr schedule (looks about like this altho naps aren't consistently good and he has a difficult time settling after
his bedtime feeding - 7, 10, 1, 4, 7, 10DF).
I'd like to be in bed by 10 most nights but that seems too soon after her ideal
bedtime feeding for a dreamfeed?
My 9 week old daughter has
her bedtime feed at 8.
are dream feeds the feedings that take place during the late night / early hours of the morning after
the bedtime feed?
Abby's Mom said... Val - I have a question about
bedtime feedings.
I have the same problem -
the bedtime feed my daughter drinks for a minute on each breast and then starts moaning and crying.
Many mothers let go of
the bedtime feeding last because it's still a special part of bonding.
The first night it was on Petit Prince, he wore it through
his bedtime feeding, one surprise overnight feeding, and I left it on for his first feed of the day.
Bedtime feedings may be harder to curb — they're usually the last to go.
On Mother's Day our son gave me the best gift ever - the first night he slept straight from
his bedtime feeding all the way to 6:30 am!
I still feed D and she'll be 3 in Feb, I cut her down to just morning and
bedtime feed at 2.5 because I (shamefully?!)
Because he is bigger and drinks more at
his bedtime feed he's slept for much longer stretches much earlier than she did — including going though the night quite often.
Everything I read said to keep the morning and
bedtime feeding until last but she knew that her feeding would eventually come and she was going to cry until then.
It worked great and we are now down to only
the bedtime feeding being a partial nursing.
We've been working on weaning down on feedings and I cut out all nursing, with
bedtime feeding as the last to go.
«If he falls asleep at your breast during
his bedtime feeding, for example, arouse him enough that his eyes are open when you place him in the crib.»
You might eliminate one daytime feeding at first, but continue morning and
bedtime feedings.
What to do about it: You can work on gradually reducing the number of late - night feedings your baby gets by increasing the size of
bedtime feedings, making sure baby's getting enough to eat all day long, and slowly stretching the time between night - time feedings.
Once solids were on board he dropped a feed (lost interest) about once every 2 weeks until we just had
a bedtime feed and he dropped that.
I knew to give him gas drops after
his bedtime feeding.
For some it may be starting the bedtime ritual (which is an Activity) or others it may be
bedtime feeding EASY - E (Eat) then then bedtime ritual (Activity).
Having stopped breastfeeding with # 1 and # 2 because a new person needed the boobs for their sole source of nutrition and knowing that there will not now nor never be # 4, I am still
bedtime feeding # 3 shortly after the 4th birthday.
At 15 months, one
bedtime feeding brought a terrible bite and I closed the door on our nursing relationship.
Then a couple of months later she started shaking her head and saying no when I offered
her her bedtime feed.
This gradual process means you'll take one breastfeeding session away from your baby at a time until only one is left — usually
the bedtime feeding for most children.
Why would a baby's last
bedtime feed need immediate follow - up sucking?
Is our good old reliable ringsling the same as that snuggly
bedtime feed that no - one wants to let go of?
Mom reported that a mixture of responsive nursing and some parent directed feeding (like
the bedtime feeding) worked much better for her than trying to schedule feedings.
Not exact matches
Start tag teaming the night duty with the goal of you both getting 4 hours at a stretch: should be twice nightly
feeds soon (down from 3 now) in addition to the
bedtime and wake - up
feeds.
I would say I was relatively flexible with her, because I was desperate to find what was best for her but still kept it pretty scheduled (for example: experimenting with changing wake times or
bedtimes, tweaking the
bedtime routine, adding / removing dream
feeds and cluster
feeds, etc.) She started sleeping longer stretches pretty early and at 3 months I could count on getting a 6 - 7 hour stretch, but every once in a while she'd go 8 - 10 hours without a
feeding.
So I
feed him at 6 or 6:30, and try to implement a
bedtime routine.
If we do not do the DF, at what age should he be be able to go from
bedtime to 7 am without a
feeding?
He'll eat, have a bath and we'll do his
bedtime routine, but then he'll get super fussy and will «cluster
feed» every 15 - 30 minutes until around 9 pm (meaning he'll eat, fall asleep, then wake up 15 - 20 minutes later and eat again).
6 am, 9 am, 12 pm, 3 pm, 6 pm with 7 pm
bedtime, and keep 10 pm dream
feed?
Before I used to
feed her a bottle of expressed milk (only for
bedtime, during the day I just nursed her) and hope that she'll fall asleep doing it.
You need to break the connection between eating and sleeping by creating a reasonable break between
feeding and
bedtime.
(7 then cereal, 11 then cereal, 2:30, 5:30 then cereal, 8,
bedtime right after
feeding) These are the two things that worked for me when I was in your situation.
I experimented last week by eliminating her 11 pm, and lo and behold, she went all the way from an 8:30 pm
bedtime to 4 am or 5 am wake to
feed.
I do
bedtime where I
feed, then pj's and story, etc..
Also, don't you think I should wait to drop the dreamfeed until we really have a consistent
bedtime without the cluster
feeding?
Mt 12 week old is on a 4 hr schedule: 6, 10, 2, 6 (then
bedtime @ 7 pm), and dream
feed at 10.
He eats 5oz of breastmilk mixed with 3tsp of rice cereal at 5:30, 8, 11, 2, 5, then
bedtime, so I know he's getting enough calories during the day to drop the dream
feed... I also have to wake him up for the dream
feed, and he's been sleeping til 5:30 - 6 for at least 3 weeks... is it too soon to drop the dream
feed, or could he really be ready?
so for me and my daughter, our
feeding schedule is 7 am, 10 am, 1 pm, 4 pm, 7 pm (
bedtime).
Just as at
bedtime, try to do things to help baby settle in like reading a special book, having a
feeding and turning down lights and TV.
Her current schedule is
feedings at 6 am, 9:30, 1:00, 4:30, and 7 pm and she sleeps / naps from 6 to 7 am, 10:30 to 12:30, 3:00 to 4:00, and 5:00 to 5:30 when I pick her up from daycare, then
bedtime is 8 pm.
You may find that the morning and
bedtime breastfeeds are the last
feeds to stop as these are often very much part of yours and your child's daily routine.
I hate
feeding her when she can
feed herself, letting her eat while walking around, making a special meal, threatening no dessert / no nursing at
bedtime, etc., but to me it is the lesser of two evils.
When my three year old
fed the fish every container of fish food all at once and the twenty nine gallon aquarium needed to have all of its water cleaned and replaced at
bedtime.