If this providential event does not occur, then I will access Plan B. which deals with my individualized response to the client's
behavior without blaming or shaming the client, but, instead, discussing and owning my feelings as to the event that just happened.
Observe their own
behaviors without blame, shame, or attempting to punish themselves for what they don't understand or like in themselves.
Not exact matches
Instead of criticism, a partner offers a complaint that focuses on a specific
behavior,
without blame,
This is a constructive strategy because I statements focus on how you feel,
without blaming your partner, and
behavior descriptions focus on a specific
behavior your partner is engaging in rather than a character flaw.
To develop a belief in their own personal capability, young people need a safe climate in which they can explore the consequences of their choices and
behavior without judgments about success or failure —
without blame, shame, or pain.
These children complain that they are afraid of the other parent, yet their
behavior shows just the opposite — they feel confident in
blaming or rejecting that parent
without any fear or remorse.
This book helps show the importance of understanding alienating
behaviors and,
without focusing on
blame, but rather what to do now with many excellent suggestions.
But it's all too easy to
blame your wife for everything wrong in your marriage
without looking at your own
behavior.
Also, to talk about
behavior without judging or
blaming your partner.